February 5, 2022 - Saturday
#23rd Blog ✍️
In my own opinion, it is much better to be alone because no one could possibly hurt you. Rather than to be with those people who don't value you. I always felt that way around when I'm alone and sad. But the moment I become alone is the moment that makes me realize everything. The lesson is priceless and worth it.
This article came to my mind as of this morning. I actually don't have any idea what to write for today's blog until these random thoughts insert in my brain. This article is based on my own experience about being alone. As well as my knowledge and random thoughts about this topic. I just want to share with you what are the most important things I apply and do when I'm in this situation. Hoping that you can get a little encouragement and lessons from this article of mine.
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I always experience being alone, but one thing I never regret is that even though I'm alone, I can still be happy.
Why?
It's because I am totally contented just by myself. To become happy I make my day busy just like watching k-dramas and videos in TikTok. Some time browsing on Facebook for some school update and most of all is grinding here in read.cash. In that way I can manage my loneliness and also have fun plus learning while earning money. That's great to do right? 😅 Well for me yes it is.
When I am sad, the most preferable thing I do is to stay in a closed door house and hide in each corner of the room. Haha, sounds weird and different though. Still, I can meditate in silence without distractions. It is also a way of healing myself without somebody to talk to. Than to hurt someone with my words. I need to be alone just to be released and to cry out loud all the pain I felt inside. In other words, is to be at ease.
Somehow, being alone is also good for us, not because we are weak but because we are strong enough to handle ourselves. Based on my experience in life, there are many days that I am alone. My friends sometimes tell me that I'm a sad and loner girl. But this is how I have been since before. No disturbance, no judgment of other people and most importantly, I can be who I am. There's nothing wrong with that unless you plan to kill yourself. It's already a sin.
We all know that loneliness has always been a part of human life. It will remind us that we are not totally complete in ourselves and that our lives aren't all about happiness. There's also sadness behind it.
Note: A.L.O.N.E stands for...
A - lways think positive and good things in life
L - earn to be alone because you only need yourself and nothing else
O - pen your mind and hearts to the doors of opportunities
N - ever entertain negativities, just remember those happy moments happened to you
E - njoy yourself even though your alone, not everyone will stay by your side. Only yourself will always do.
Every meaning of each word has a big impact on me. That become a loner could affect us in some good ways. It gives me courage and strength to overcome loneliness. I learned to open my mind to those opportunities that await me. Pushes me to go out of my comfort zone, in the closed door room with lots of temptations.
We have different beliefs and aspects in life. I always do believe that life is not a matter of chances, it's a matter of choices we made. God already gave us wisdom to choose it's either good or bad and evilness or righteousness. Through that we have the right to choose whether to stay being a loner or to go outside from our comfort zone.
These are some Inspirational Quotes if your alone:
“Those who fly solo have the strongest wings.”
“If you want to be strong, learn to enjoy being alone.”
“When you go out of your comfort zone and it works. There's nothing more satisfying”
“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone.” We have to be honest about what we want and take risks rather than lie to ourselves and make excuses to stay in our comfort zone.”
Always choose and do the things that make you happy and satisfied. Do not be afraid to become a loner if you are happy with that. Do not be also hesitate to go out from the box that's full of loneliness. Enjoy life with satisfaction within you.
That's all for today!
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