Hello beautiful people!
I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨
I actually do not have anything to write today that I decided to just scroll on my Shopee App as I am as well looking for some wall decor. And while doing so, I came across with this wooden wall decor that has some thoughts about the 7 Rules of Life. I got interested on it that I wanted to give my take away on such rules.
LET IT GO. Never ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday.
No life is perfect. It does have ups and downs, we cannot control it. The more we control those uncontrollable, the more we will be stressed out by it. Such bad days would somehow test us on how far we can go and what are the things we can do to turn these bad days to good ones. And letting go is one of the best way. We need to accept that today is bad day, and let go right away. Always remember, that it is just a bad day not a bad life.
IGNORE THEM. Don't listen to other people. Live a life that's empowering to you.
It's okay to listen to other people, but make sure who you listen to. Some people just seems to be supporting you on things, little you didn't know they are just trying to hold on you and drag you down when they get a chance to. Be vigilant enough to see who are real and who are not. Most of the times, there is only one person that will support you on your journey and when you succeed, there will be a lot of congratulations coming through. Make sure to look for the difference.
GIVE IT TIME. Time heals everything.
Time allows you to get used of everything. We do have different timetable. We have different clocks. There is always a right time for everything. We do not need to rush things. We need to let it grow accordingly. There is always a beginning. A process we need to take. While waiting for the right time, we can prepare ourselves and be ready to what has been waiting for us.
DON'T COMPARE. The only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday.
Our insecurities most of the time is the main reason why we tend to compare ourselves with others. Not knowing that our competitor is ourselves. Change is the constant thing in this world. A change for good to be exact. Make sure that day by day you should be seeing a good progress and changes in yourself, that is how you will compare your present to your past, that is how you can see if you are doing better. If so, for sure there is a good future waiting for you.
STAY CALM. It's okay not to have everything figured out. Know that in time, you'll get there.
Most of the time, we are getting impatient that we wanted to have answers right away to all the questions we have in life. Most of the time we wanted everything to come at an instant. We tend to forgot that everything is a process. There is always a time set for us to get there. Do not rush things. Instead, enjoy what you have today and do the things that will make you happy. Work on the things you wanted to have and what you wanted to become. And in just a blink of an eye, you will not expect that the perfect time will be served to you. You can say finally, "I got it."
IT'S ON YOU. Only you are in charge of your happiness.
Happiness has been what we are aiming for from the beginning. Most of the time, we depend our happiness to a certain thing, a certain person, a certain situation. Not knowing that time may come that such thing, that person, that situation will leave us. That is why we need to make sure that we will leave something for ourselves. We need to make sure that we are totally happy and complete before engaging to others, in that way whether they will leave or not, for sure we will stay happy.
SMILE. Life is short. Enjoy it while you have it.
YOLO. You only live once. Sadness is always paired with happiness. You cannot say that you are happy, unless you feel sad. But do not get drown into sadness for a long time. Make sure to look for ways to be happy. Life is short indeed, and in that short time, hopefully we choose to be happy. Always wear a smile and that will brighten up the mood. Think only the good things in life.
That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. If you have any thoughts and take away about this piece, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️
- MissJo 💜
Sometimes you have the answers to.my questions. Is that some kind of a miracle? Hahaha. I was reminded of most of the good things I've forgotten to practice. Thanks for this. 💜