Hello beautiful people!
I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨
Well there's this new challenge again circling about answering questions for taken. It was initiated by ate @Eybyoung . I do not have any plans on taking this as I am not even taken. But I really do not have anything to write that I missed a day yesterday publishing an article. I'll try my best to pull this off. I'll try as well to put myself in the shoe of those in a relationship. Hopefully I can give justice on this.
If you wanted to try answering such, you can check it on this site.
This may be somehow tricky as there are a lot of things that we can ask. But let's get it this way, "If falling out of love is true, what will you do if ever you will feel that way?"
If I will be the one to be asked this way, I may be having a difficulty on answering it. For now maybe I would say, "I will stay and make it work." But who knows what really will happen in the future. Let's leave it as a question for now.
Is it selfish if I wanted to be alone when I am upset? I mean, I have this attitude that I do not want to talk to anybody if I am having a bad day. I may end up saying something not good to someone. So I prefer to be alone for the time being. I can relax myself alone as well.
I just hope my partner would understand this. And I will appreciate if she/he will not force himself to cheer me up. Just thinking that she/he understand what I am feeling is enough to cheer me up.
Is having a successful relationship not enough to be considered as happiness? Human as we are, all we wanted in life is happiness, a peace of mind and a mental stability. Then in a relationship, it works the same.
But if there's another happiness aside from this successful relationship like a promotion on work, I may think thousand times what to choose and what to decide. Taking risks will be a part of it.
Being misunderstood and not able to understand. I fear these two the most . Misunderstanding is actually natural in any relationships. It is how it will be handled by both parties that will matter. However, there are really instances that instead of having conflicts fixed right away it will turned out to be the other way around. The reason is, the other one is being misunderstood and the other is not able understand.
It is better said than done. It is easy to say, you need to understand each other. But if the situation is there, each other's pride will block the way. And hopefully at least one of the two will cool down to lessen the tension. The more you put fire on something, the more it will get burned. And it is not a good thing in a relationship.
"Be with a person who fears God." Nothing beats a relationship that made God a center of it.
No relationship is perfect. But passing through all those imperfections, is what makes it perfect. Maybe not all of you will agree on this, but this what I believe. A person who fears God, will fear to hurt you. And not getting hurt by the person you love is the best feeling ever.
Being in a relationship does not only mean having a partner. Sharing happiness. Sweetness. Having sparks. That is too good to be true. Conflicts and misunderstandings is what makes any relationship to last, if being discussed well. Both should decide. Both side should be honest. Both sides should be transparent. Relationship is like a pen and a paper, if you miss one between the two, you cannot write. You cannot write a good love story you wanted to have.
That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. If you have any thoughts and take away about this piece, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️
- MissJo 💜
I am not an expert on couples and I am also a freelance writer. I like to go here and there and write whatever comes to my mind. Maybe someday I will join these challenges.