I'm so tired, I cried

Yes, it sounds to me you do need help!

Stop breastfeeding you did it long enough or reduce it to once a day. She can start eating, make your own babyfood no need to buy.

Schedule your life. There's a time to play, and a time to sleep. Little B can sleep in the morning, in the afternoon and through the night.

You should drink more and go outside every day! Go for a walk with or without little B. You need fresh air, catch vitamine D, meet and greet people or sit on a bench or wall for a while. Fight that headache. Before and after you breastfeed and visited the bathroom you drink a glass of water.

Those diapers: soak them in water... next into the next basin... make it yourself easier! If possible diapers off.

If it comes to tasks share them. You can make a grocery list. If you go to the shop go alone and let dad take care of his child. It is good to be alone so you can breathe in and out and see something different without the care, being alert.

If possible ask someone else to babysit once or twice a week so you have time for you (go out you will sleep better).

Ventilate your house daily for at least 2-3 hours and if possible sit in the sun even if it's behind a window.

Mas okay na umiyak ka, umiyak ka ng umiyak, kasi di man natin mababago agad ang situation, pero gagaan ang loob mo at magiging refreshing sa mind mo. Magiging okay ka after mo mailabas lahat yan, ganun pa din naman ang situation mo, pero at least this time, mas cleared ang mind mo, makakaisip ka ng paraan para makatulong kay hubby. Ang hirap talaga ng maysakit sa pamilya. Yun papa ko nun nagkasakit sya, okay lang na wala kaming kain at tulog basta okay siya, Naubos pera namin basta mabuhay sya. Burnout ako nun sis, as in walang laman na yun utak ko para mag isip, di ko nga alam kung pano ko yun nalampasan. Laging pagod ang isip ko, lagi akong umiiyak, naduduwag ako, susuko tapos lalaban. Para akong nasisiraan ng ulo. Pero nalagpasan ko naman sis. Di ko alam kung ano dinasal ko, pero isa lang naman ang totoo, hindi tayo papabayaan ng Diyos, kahit di natin sya tawagin, alam nya yun kakayahan natin para mag solve ng problems, pero kausapin mo pa din sya, sabihin mo lahat, iiyak mo. Alam nya yun nasa puso mo at alam nya kung pano ka tutulungan sis.

And it's ok to cry bhe. Cry it all out, coz that's the best you can do to relieve your frustrations, to release your emotions naturally without getting mad. It's normal to feel that way coz you are in a totally different world right now where you don't have control over almost everything. From the laundry ,to breastfeeding,to pedia to money matters that's bombarding you all at once in a foreign place. It's understandable to feel crazy and lost for a while. Someday , isa isa magagawa mo ring iayos ang lahat. Keep being strong bhe, labaarrn yan. Godspeed!

hugs momsh.. we all go through this phase.. kasi ako din ganyan parang gusto ko muna ng break... also, need talaga natin ng break but since ang situation natin walang pwedeng mag take over, kaya tayo nafrufrustrate.

si matti din ganyan iyak pag may gusto na di nakukuha...

Ganyan din ako dati sis. Yung parang ubos ka na pero kailangan mo pa rin kumusta at walang karapatan mapagod dahil sa daming gawain. Nakakastress talaga at idinaan ko na lang sa iyak at drama sa sarili tapos kilos naman. Pero kakayanin..kaya laban lang sis.

Parang kapatid ko lang sis, umiiyak siya kasi yung anak nia Nah 3 years old super kulit talaga, tapos ayaw talaga makinig gusto niya nah siya ang masusunod palagi, tapos yung kapatid ko napapagod nah subra, makapahinga lang siya kapag nandyan yung hubby nia.

Being a mother is not easy task after reading your article I realized how my mother brought up perhaps he have face the same you are facing.

Naranasan ko ang kahirapan gaya ng sinasabi mo sis, madaming luha na rin naibuhos ko. Magpakatatag ka sis, Para sa asawa mo at sa anak mo,okay Lang umiiyak, para gumaan ang nararamdaman mo.

Same sis, minsan mabebreakdown ka nalang at iiyak sa mga problems sa buhay. isang mahigpit na yakap!🤗

Nakakasakit ng ulo talaga ang financial problem sis. Sana maging maayos ang lahat

Momshie, you look exhausted. Ganun tlga ang buhay ina. Medyo nakikita ko na sayu na nagiging challenging na ang motherhood at marriage journey mo. Tiwala lang dzai. Basta for me, iwasan nyo mag away ng hubby mo. Magtulungan kau pareho. Normal ang ma guilty dahil sa pagiging kulang ng time kay lil be pero wag mong ikwestyon ang capacity mo being a mother ganyan din ako dati, pero ina tayo. Normal lang mapagod sis, pahinga lang. Importante ung utak natin nakakapag pahinga.

Ganyan talaga sis pero tiwala lang you can get through with it.mahirap lang sa simula ganyan din ako noon sis yung ako lang talaga nag aalaga sa anak lalo na pag iyakin ang bata marami din luha ang nagastos ko pero nalagpasan ko yun kaya kaya mo rin.naaalala ko pa nga na ni wala kami pambili ng diaper masusuotan lang yung anak ko pag magpapa immunize pero pag nasa bahay lang mga lumang damit ang ginawa kung diaper. May mga araw na wala kaming maisaing pero nakaya parin.yung sakit ng ulo mo sis dala ng pagod at puyat yan lalo na pag daming iniisip.

Naku sis yung financial crisis relate ako jan nung humiwalay kami sa magulang ng partner ko. As in lagi talagang simot kami lagi. Sahod ni partner kulang lage, pero pasalamat lang ako kasi kahit ganun wala kaming utang kaya naman nasusustain namin yung daily expenses namin dahil sa earnings ko dito kay readcash. Nakakapagod maging full house person sis, madaming stress pero kaya nyo yan sis. Okay lang umiyak, normal lang yan. Laban lang.

It is quite understandable my sister. All these are not your fault. It is the stress you are going through that needs to be reduced.

You can call one of your siblings to come and help you for a while.

My friend always fighting. There are days that we felt tired even me but we need to choose to fight friend. We must fight it.