Why do ladies commit suicide over a man?

I was on my WhatsApp status today as usual. Most times I go there to check some WhatsApp status and few messages and also make sure I respond to most. Then I find my way back to readcash and noisecash.

Yeah while viewing some status I encountered with someone’s status who uploaded a lady I think is dead already. But from the caption, I realized it was a dead body then the comment from the video said: “see what this girl just did to herself last night. Because of man. What she had done to herself? she didn’t even consider what her mum would pass through. She didn’t even think of her mum and she just went on to drink sniper (a harmful fumigant active insecticide).

She was laid back dead. Then I started to think about what could have caused her to commit such suicidal behavior. Before she drank the potion what could have gotten into her? What had the man done for her?

I thought depression was the major cause of suicide, but could her case be because of depression? Depression over what? Over a man? Is the man even worth her life?

Many things came to my mind while I kept on thinking about it.

I am sure there are many cases like this that happen day after day but the case might not just go viral across social media. I wonder why ladies would feel that the next and lasting solution for them is to sacrifice their life for a man who they already know won’t marry them. I hardly get the news that a man committed suicide for a woman.

While writing this I am trying not to be biased. But frankly speaking, the error comes from both gender but falls more to the ladies' side than the men. Yeah, relationships are necessary, not compulsory. I would like to highlight a few points I found could be the case for both genders.

The mode of dressing: The way we dress is surely the way we are addressed. One thing most ladies nowadays don’t know is the fact that no man would leave a well-dressed, decent, and properly trained lady for a lady who already exposed herself to the world. They count such a lady as street material. And not worth having by their side because they see no future in them. So most of these men would have these ladies by their side. Treat them good with the impression of marrying them thereby the lady would have believed she got someone to stay with for her lifetime, she might have sacrificed everything for him then at the end of the day she realized he had no intention of marrying her but just to take advantage of her. Such a scenario might have placed the woman in a state of no choice and without the right person to advise her at that moment, she might have thought everything had ended with the man.

First impressions: Many ladies would love to say they won't have a man who is financially comfortable and also responsible. Yeah, such men exist for real but ask yourself a question first. Do I want to be dependent or independent? Your answer might determine your fate. We see ladies nowadays who are into petty jobs, some are company owners, even ladies are into cryptocurrency. What a man can do, a woman can do better. But it still amazes me that there are ladies out there that would love to follow the aroma of money into their relationship then when the money is no more or the man feel like she is just like a parasite 🦠 then he dumps her.

There are many other reasons I see could be the cause of all these but most are from the ladies themselves. They caused it upon themselves.

But to the men out there who decide to take someone for granted and play with their hearts then toy with their lives. There is something they aren’t remembering no matter how decent their wives are or how beautiful she is, they would also have to give birth someday. Then they should be expecting what they had done to other people’s daughters to be done to theirs. Just a few men can stand boldly and say it or take an oath that whatever they had done to the women out there should happen to their daughters. Just a few.

So it falls on both sides. Even some of these ladies might be suffering from the consequences of their fathers and how he never prepared a better future for them. Imagine before the lady could commit suicide I am sure she would have thought about it to the extreme and probably have made some curses upon the man who did that to her.

But one thing she failed to think about is the fact that her parents, especially her mother, are there for her. She never thought about the sacrifices her parents had done for her before she could attain such an age in life. If she had thought about her parents who are worth dying for compared to the man who is rather useless and never values her she won’t have thought about committing suicide.

The reverse might also be the case whereby the lady would be the one to kill the guy. I don’t know how they could have a strong heart to do so. But we have heard of many cases of such where the lady would have to kill the guy and even prefer to die after she sees him dead.

Conclusion

No matter what in life, suicide is never an option. Our lives are worth a reason to keep living and keep going because when there is life there is always hope. And to the ladies and parents, especially mothers, it is always better to be open to their female children so they can feel free to say their feelings to us as a mother and also guide them through. And to friends, it’s better to be a good friend and try checking up on others every day no one knows what they might be passing through at the moment.

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12:50 am Thursday, 14th October 2021

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