Is life fair?

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hello my lovely readers, sure you're all doing great, I'm very sorry for not being active here for some days now, and I will say while I was away, I've been so occupied but I'm still online doing some things but could not make it to read.cash. and sometimes I feel weak. but all good and fine, I pray nothing will hold me back again, I said "today I'm not going to miss it", and I'm glad that I make it here today... accept my apology 🙏.

I wish you all a happy new year since this is my first post here this morning. I miss you all, and I appreciate those who asked after me as well. thanks a bunch 🤗

Now to the purpose of this post....

Is life fair?

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sometimes we tend to ourselves this question, is life fair? life is fair and it's not fair, it depends on how you view it.

There are some talks these days about what is fair and what is not. 99% of people believe that life has treated them unfairly while 1% believe that life is fair with everything it brings, well my question goes thus:

what do you mean by fair?

is life fair?

and why should life be fair?. However , I'm going to frame the answer and you'll decide the right answer.

Thinking about how you came into this world, at the first sight we have no idea or choice of how we come into this world but gradually our insight begins to open to different kinds of things which make us have choices as grow. As we have no control over the beginning of our life, we tend to have the ability to influence the outcome we attain.

Talking about what is fair and what is not fair deals with the state of our mind, the way we see things, and most often, it is always an unhealthy state of mind in your career, in business, and about life generally. At times, we might want to shift the blame of what we are facing to our parents, teachers, perhaps our society, but the truth is based on the attitude we adopt and the choice we make.

Nonetheless, haven't you heard of people overcoming their tough times? , it might be poverty, drug addiction, victimization, virtually every challenge you might think of but quote me with this: "life is filled with the example of the uneducated". In school, you'll be thought before you learn but in life, you gonna learn your lesson first.

The majority of the successful people we know are born in abject poverty but choose to overcome their Challenges by leaving the world better than they found it, instead of complaining about life being unfair. They choose to contribute to the society instead of making complaints.

However, what I'm disputing here is to regulate, legislate that fairness somehow solves the world's problems, people desire and determination can overcome most of life Challenges because authorizations don't create fairness.

It doesn't matter the circumstances you came into the world, but all that matters is what you make out from the world when you arrive by putting aside whether you are born with a silver spoon, or plastic spoon or without a spoon, all that matters is the choice you make today and that will determine where you'll be tomorrow.

Fair is not a standard to be imposed but things we need to adapt to, it restricts all under the impression of equility and equilibrium, it occurs as a rationalization or justification. You have to get used to life, and when you mess up, it is not your parents or your teacher's fault, you have to learn from your mistakes without whining about it.

This is just the little thing I have to say about life.. you'll be the one to decide if it is fair or not, and your contribution is highly welcome.

Thanks for your time.
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Life is unfair when we receive so much bad luck and negativities more than good things. That is how I perceived the unfairness of living in this world. However, as time goes on I realized that life isn't perfect and it's a matter of survival. This is impressively done, good job!❣️

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2 years ago

Rightly said , so many times we are being faced with different kinds of Challenges but we should which makes life unfair but in all these , we should accept life with everything it brings and see the positive side in everything .

Thanks for your contribution .

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2 years ago

We can't totally say life is fair because i believe that question is subjective and totally depends on who you're asking. To the rich man, life is fair to him but would he say the same for a poor man who is working very hard but still find it very difficult to feed his family? Probably not

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2 years ago

Even to the rich man, there still something that they are facing which make life to seems unfair but we have to balance everything ourselves to make it fair. Thanks for your contribution .

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2 years ago

Yes life is not fair to anyone, the earlier we accept that the better. Instead of whining and complaining about it, do something that will make a difference for you. And I want to thank you for your support on Hive, I'm kennysplash.

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2 years ago

Yeah, this where I'm getting to,life is not fair but you just have to deal with it , nothing going in life comes easily, you just work for a better life yourself. Hawuuuu! Nice meeting you here as well, and I appreciate you for your support as well.

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2 years ago

Life sometimes unfair but not all the times because life is like riding a roller coaster, sometimes your are on the highest and sometimes you are in the low. People you see above you also experience the bottom part of life. Just be grateful for everything, and trust God.

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2 years ago

Nothing but the truth, when we are grateful about what life brings to us..the tough moment will mean nothing to us, but rather we will be focused on how to bring out good things from life. I appreciate your comment.

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2 years ago

Isn't it fair that life is unfair to many? True about many successful people overcoming their challenges, but that didn't happen overnight. Happy New Year to you

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2 years ago

It depends on how see things on our side, life is never our mother and it will never pamper us...it will hit us very hard and it now Left for us to maintain our balance.. But having the other mindset will limit us not to push further.....

Thanks for the wishes...

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2 years ago

That's the truth dear. We just have to be contented and accept the way things are instead of worrying to much. This will clear our minds then we will begin to see reasons of why these things had happened to us. Subsequently we would try to adapt or do our best in trying to make things better.... Ultimately, things would definitely work out for the best at the right time by God's grace ☺

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2 years ago

That's why we just have to accept everything life brings, there are some things we can't control, they just come naturally , that's why we must learn how to adapt with circumstances and in all circumstances we should be ready to bring see the positive side if it.

Life is a gift, we have to accept it , one might be complaining about his strict teacher at school, but he will get to realize how tough it will be when he encounter a strict boss at work.. that's all about life.. it's not fair, but we just have to adjust it ourselves to make it fair.

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2 years ago

Life is full of ups and downs, when you are up, don't look down on people and when you are down, look up to God

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Looking up to God Is essential too, but we have to put our own efforts as well

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2 years ago

I think is some how the world order that some people get a better life that others, like it is what make the world balance in its own way.

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2 years ago

Yeah, we can never be equal, Soma people will always be higher, but we can always do our best in whatever we are doing. We should never be subjected to the idea of " this is meant for this people" why not you, no one is having two heads, nor different hair color, we just have to discover who we are and make a move to explore our world .

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2 years ago

Life is fair enough. It depends on the training the we get from life and how we applied it to our day to day life. Nicely written dear

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2 years ago

Just like a two sided coin, it depends on the way we see it, but in all, life can never be bad.

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Thanks , I just wish I could be all day, well I promise not to go away for a long time again ...... Like this is really Long...lol

Thanks for your concern ma'am, much love 😍

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You always welcome dear. Pls don't dare leave us like that again o, its was really scary.... Sorry I was so excited I couldn't read this article, lemme go back and read , gimme 3 minutes, i d b right back😂

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Hehehehe 😆, you made me laugh out loud... thanks for putting a grin on my face tonight, really means a lot.

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