What do you think?
While Clea is sleeping, I came across this TikTok video of @mastermeiko. I like her and her content. They do make sense and most of them are about parenting and relationship with partner. Aside from her strong and persuasive argument, the way she talks and make every point make me adore her even more. I don't know how she did that but when she speaks, you will just find yourself nodding because you agreed to everything she says. Perhaps some of you knew her or saw her videos too. If not, you can search her on TikTok if you have free time and if your are interested as well.
The photo above is a screenshot of her answering a question from her follower. The question if is it already a red flag when her partner add or follow other girls or sexy ladies on his Facebook timeline?
According to Meiko, it's okay to you boys to get attracted to other girls because it's not all about the insecurity. It's not all the time that your girl is insecure if she get upset of something. Sometimes, it's all about the respect. If you respect your girl, then you would not so such things that hurt her.
She also added that it's okay for girls to get mad or angry if their partner did that because it is not the way how boys make their girls feel when they add or follow other girls but it's all about the "go" signal that you're giving to the other girls by liking, reacting to their photo or following or adding them. Regardless of who those girls are if your girl finds it disrespecting then it's disrespecting. You boys can admire pretty or sexy girl on your facebook timeline or on any social media platform but, do you have to react on it? NO.
That's why it becomes disrespectful because do you boys need to react on that girl's photo or add them or follow them if you can just scroll and skip them. Why do boys act that way when you just can admire them privately unless you're giving the other party a "go" signal saying "Hello, I like your photo. I exist."
To sum up, Meiko said that it's already a red flag for her.
Personally, I liked what she said because that's also my reason why I hate seeing my man reacting or adding someone in any social media platforms. It's not because I am jealous or insecure. Duh? I can find another man. What angers me is that the judgement that will come from that person he added or reacted with. She might say that I'm being fooled by my man and my man is not contented with me. No way! I don't want anyone to call me pity. If ever my man will do that, I want him to broke up with me first before he'll do such things. Actually, we already talked about this and he already knew my rules so it is up to him now.
How about you ladies, mommies, what's your say? What do you think?
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For me, It's okay if my Boyfriend will add and or Follow other girls. If you trust your man naman, they can free to do it as long as alam na nila kung hanggang saan lang sila.
It's okay for me na mag react din siya ng iba, walang problema sa relasyon dahil lang sa react na yan. What's wrong with reacting to the other girls photo? Hindi na ba pwede mag appreciate ng kagandahan ng ibang babae ang mga lalaki? React is nothing lang basta Todo flex ang Jowa mo sa'yo sa timeline nya. Mas maganda pa nga yon kasi proud sayo kahit ano pang itsura mo eh.
Basta ako, kapag once na nilagpasan niya yung limit ng freedom nya, okay lang naman saken to let go. Madali lang naman pumalit.