Yesterday, I ate my dinner alone and I was fine with it. The responses I got from other writers also urged me to settle the "spaghetti conflict" with my bf. Lol. As a matter of fact, he gave me money so we can cook spaghetti at home. Sounds like great because I can eat more than the usual. I also went to our home today because I just can't handle the longing anymore. I miss my family so much. To ease my longing, I decided to go home without them telling.
Sorry for today's article, I am just going to narrate what happened to my day. I hope you will read it still. π I also do hope to hear from you about how your day went.
When my bf was already home last night, I did not talk to him and he did not bother me to. He just knew how to handle me during my mood swings. He let me cool down my temper before talking about the root of the argument. So when he came, we did not talk and we just slept peacefully like we have not seen each other. This morning, I woke up early I think 6 AM and I gazed to the other side of the bed but he was not there. I rose from bed and went to the comfort room and saw him in the kitchen as I passed by him. Wow! He cooked something for breakfast and why so early? Haha! He just want to make it up.
I returned to bed and minutes later, he called me to have our breakfast and he acted like nothing happened. Well, I was really hungry too that's why forgot my pride and just ate what he cooked. By the way, he cooks good. I also have an observation that when girls are not in the mood, the best way to calm their anger is to give them food and more food. Lol. As we eat, he started talking and I talked to him for my mood was now okay. I asked him to drive me to our home so I can visit my family. He just agreed and took me there.
At exactly 9 AM, I arrived at the farm where grandma and grandpa are working. They did not know I was coming so they were surprised when they saw me. My dogs were barking too even if I am still far from them. Aweee, I just missed them. When I arrived, my grandma asked me if I don't have work today since they really want me to sleep there and stay longer. I was also expecting to see my siblings there but unfortunately, they went somewhere. Well, it's my fault too since I did not inform them I am coming home.
So there, I spend my day with my family and pets. I told my mom that I want to eat spaghetti so I gave her the money my bf gave me. We went to the market to buy the ingredients and cooked them. I don't know but, Filipino style spaghetti is always a favorite ever since I was a kid and until now. The best spaghetti I ever tasted was at Jollibee's (one of the famous fastfoods here in Ph) but because we don't have that here near our place, we just have too cook our own and try our best to achieve the Jollibee-taste-like Spaghetti. My grandma's spaghetti is also my favorite.
Tadaaa! This is the finish product. Looks yummy and I can guarantee this tastes yummy too. My kind of spaghetti is sweet, creamy and cheesy. I like it more when there are a lot cheese. Cheese is life for me! How about you? What's your favorite food and how do you want it to taste like?
Craving satisfied!
After I devour the spaghetti like a hungry lion, I also looked for a very cold soda. Haha! Oh I am so nervous with my cravings these days. I want to eat most of the time especially cold drinks or any food as long as it's cold. My grandpa immediately rose from sitting and bought us an orange soda. This is what I really miss at home. My family provides me food I want to eat. No wonder I gained weight from being at 41 kilos to 53 kilos. Lol! But nevermind, what's important is I am still alive. Importante buhi! Diba mga dzai? Haha!
Unlike here, in my boyfriend's place, I can't really let out all my cravings especially cold drinks and food. They don't like drinking cold drinks especially soda. My bf's mom doesn't like me to drink those too. So I ended up just drinking water. There was also one time when I bought spaghetti and end up eating it alone for they don't like spaghetti. I also bought roasted chicken but then they don't like where I bought it. I just felt like sad about it so I end up not eating what I like because I don't want to eat if they were not eating as well. This is also the thing I realized sharing home with parents especially if you're already married. Though we are not married and don't have a child yet, I already observed the pro's and con's living with parents when you already have your own family. In my own opinion, I would prefer to separate so you two, couple, can have your privacy and do things your way.
My bf's mom doesn't also like me wearing shorts. Haha! She told me one time it was too hot and going out would burn my skin. When I also wore shorts at night, she also told me it's cold and I should wear pajamas. I couldn't disagree for she might think I'm being disrespectful. So I just wore pajamas everyday even though I was so used to wearing shorts.
I need to adjust since I am in their place and it's still fine with me as of now. Haha! Kidding!
Sorry for sharing too much. π
But yeah, I just enjoyed my day with my family today and I am so happy. I got to eat spaghetti too and I settled the argument last night. You might find this boring tho, and I would understand if this is not within your interest. βΊοΈ Again, I just really want to share how my day went.
Solved!
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Once you decide to settle down, tell your husband to be about living separately... it is very hard for a woman to live with the in laws