@MarcDeMesel
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Do I Take Advantage of Young Women?
I got this critique (pinned comment) on my recent video "How to get a pretty girl" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0qq0TxBAiw&lc=z23wtf3bhwmit1eac04t1aokgfohe1f4me5l0gggxsjibk0h00410.1622392945138017 "I guess moving to a 3rd world country preying on young girls from slums is one way to do it. How's your success on getting girls that are not from 3rd world and able to take care of themselves financially?" - Simon Here my rebuttal: Moving to developing country indeed helps me to find more beautiful and younger girls than in developed world, indeed because many need money / a providing guy much more as their life is much worse than western girls (for example washing clothes by hand for hours per day, living with insects and animals, having no food sometimes, no decent doctors/hospitals in case got sick) and therefore they don't mind that I'm double their age or have polygamous relationship. But that is not the only advantage of moving to Africa, being the only younger looking white male, that many black women perceive more desirable as richer and kinder than black man, helps a lot also to be able to get higher quality women. The only white male black women in Africa can get are older ones that look 50/60 that often just want a good time and is honest about that, which is already better as many* black men who more often cheat, beat or provide little money. But a white man that looks 30/40 and wants to start family very rare and therefore very valuable. I found it hard to find beautiful young girls (18 to 20) in Europe as they thought I was too old at 37. I'm also not interested in girls who value 'studying' (even though they learn little of value) and 'career' (even though they likely will make little money and will have to pause their career when getting children later) as I make more then enough money myself, want to make babies and am not going to wait years for her to be ready, and then only do half a job as they look down on being a housewife taking care of their man and children and are distracted by their 'career'. Of course, being just an average looking white male between thousands of other white men also didn't help in standing out and getting top girls. But I did have 2 relationships in Europe, albeit themselves poor immigrants as they tend to be more hot than the white girl I could get (1 black Indian women age 34, 1 Asian girl age 21) where we tried to have children for 1 year but unsuccessfully. Turns out first was likely infertile but never told me but likely knew, as she left me the moment things got serious and we would start with hospital IFV, the second likely started taking anti conception pills behind my back as her hips and tities grew a lot during that year. In summary: I'm not preying on young girls, as I am not exploiting, threatening or abusing them. They are voluntarily choosing for me and staying with me, which proves the deal they get from me is to their satisfaction and benefits us mutually. Check out other great videos I made on the topic: "Declining population real problem & caused by feminism & democracy": https://youtu.be/Zag2OHjsr0g "Responsibilities of housewife": https://youtu.be/BfycGwKPeJg *many black men: black men seem to cheat more often but the reason is that many women are also responding very jealous and unaccepting if the man would openly have a second women and of course, many women cheat also. Africa seems to be transforming from a polygamous into monogamous society copying many of the cultural influences from the West. Feminism on tv is blatant where you see women constantly complain about abusive and cheating husbands but never discuss abusive cheating women. I certainly don't want to jump on that bandwagon.
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Interesting 🤔 I live in Africa, Mozambique, and I can say that women around here are beautiful and wonderful and what do you say about choosing partners, our sisters do that, they are not pressured but they accept the situation and live with it, many live in difficulty and prefer to team up with people who can provide...very good to know you are in Africa Marc😎
Since they chose you voluntarily, I agree with you, there's nothing wrong with that.
I thought you already have your own family. Anyways, I have seen lots of relationship where the age gap ranges from 20-40 years and it doesn't matter. I have understood what you are trying to say here especially those young girls living the way most of us are living such as the washing of clothes using hands for hours, having no personal doctor, etc.) Filipinos have that mentality that if you want to be rich, marry a man who's from other country, mostly white men. Sometimes, those who marry white man are being judged saying they only want the money from the man which I found is very rude.
As a woman perspective, I cannot call it prying not just to side you because I know the girls chose to be with you and you spoil them with love. There's nothing wrong with that having relationship with young girls as long you treated them well. 37 is still young unlike those oldies sugar dad's out there 😁, never mind those critics they just cannot level up with your status and it hurts their ego.
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I must say that this article really is the proof that LOVE doesn't cares of whatever the who you are and what you are as long as you love the person everything will goes along the way. Love this article of yours sir. Salute to you.
Preying is for predator.Love is for everyone.Girls are delicate things made by nature.They Although need money but love and respect are the main things for winning their hearts.I think you understand what I say.
We, humans, have one very odd behaviour that we get into an offensive mood when we see things that are out of our reach. Blame, criticise, desire, want, preying, .... Stands on the logical mind. If something goes compliance with one position praises him, if it goes against the position, start to criticise. So, I feel these are their's problem, let than hold their grip tightly to their logical mind. We can't stop their mouth talking. We are free to live our world, we must enjoy it. But we might not force to anyone's will. No always stands No, we must be aware of it and in the meantime, we must also protect and defend it(No).
I read tour article sir I saw my self to you. I love girls who loved me and my kids and focus on our family. I do have girlfriends but after they get what they need they left me behind. All I want is to have a girl who loved me and our children even she is poor, simple and what color of skin she is the important has a family way of looking to us. You are very lucky now sir having your beautiful wife and your daughter so cute. You have a happy family and a good career too. I want to follow your legacy and I know it's many obstacles but someday I will make it come true. I will pledge my earnings to the platform-like noise. cash or read.cash if that happens. God bless you always sir.
Wow! I never thought we'd be having an answer right here! I sincerely hope this will close the call for criticism though we can never be in control of people's comments. Let's all just move on then to earning more money, ya'll! I don't ever wanna anger someone who is giving me huge motivation to write on this platform! Great job, Marc! And oh, 37 is stillllll very young! haha. C'mon, life begins at 40. that's even something I heard on the streets. haha. So what's the matter with 30 plus 7 only?
Liked your way of being straight to the point 👍 It's undeniable that women in slums are looking for a guy that can help them financially and you mentioned it with no hesitation or the feel of dragging down with the fact. Kudos!
Hi sir. I've watched your video "How to get a pretty girl". As a women, if the boy loves me and spoiled me with love and care. I will accept him whole-heartedly. Even how women you have, as long that you loved them . There's nothing wrong about it. And yeah... I created an article about my learnings coming from you. I hope you read this one.. Rooting for you sir Marc... https://read.cash/@whitney123/sir-marc-de-mesel-as-an-eye-opener-to-all-legend-of-crypto-c53abc78
As a women perspective, what we want for a man is someone we can depend on. Someone we can feel the love and of course security.
Frankly speaking, if Filipino young girls would fell in love with you, various people were call them “Isang pinay na naman ang nakaahon sa hirap” or “One lucky Filipina women got out on poverty”. That's one of the toxic mindset they have. Haha, just sharing
In my perspective, as woman not pretty and came from poor family, I may say if I love you because of how you cared, provide and love me in return I will chose to stay. There's no problem with polygamy because if the girls don't want such kind of relationship they are free to go and you not forcing them to stay. In that case sir, you don't have any fault about getting pretty girls at all.
I, myself cannot call it preying. Age isn't supposed to be an issue in loving, so as to race and gender. As long as the feelings and intentions are genuine, it's all all good and right. Just don't mind the critics. Critics are everywhere, whether you do good are bad, people always have something to say. So don't let your language of love (giving and receiving) be affected by such speculations.
Other then these reasons, you are hot and attractive. I would do the same if I was a girl. Lol. Who wouldn't like a rich handsome guy?
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I was kidding bro
I will not comment that much, but for real, Girls purpose is to do housewives thingy, and don't get distracted on careers they want to because if I'm you (Rich at least) I can supply infinite foods for them, they do not need to worry anymore because I'm rich enough to buy food for a lifetime.
Diffirent people will always see you in different ways. Some will admire you, some will criticize you. And critics.... Will always be critics
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Most if not every woman wants assurance and security. Also, affluence brings people closer to you. Come to Nigeria and drive around the streets in your Lambo, especially along areas where students/young people live. The interest and green light you will get from the ladies will be overwhelming even if you 40 - 50. You have created a great future for yourself and anyone lucky enough to be around you. Believe me, a lot of ladies would want a piece of that future.
Well in reality here in our place when you say white man they think of money and few of the women here choose to get married with a white man to have a better life but not all as I witnessed love stories of Filipina and foreigners being together because of love.
I don't think you need to provide explanation to anyone! If the womens you are with are happy and you constantly make an effort to make them happy than no one can deny facts. You are not looking for fun, you want to make a family. Haters gonna hate!
It does not matter what other people say as long the two-person agree on themselves because if they get hurt it will them who treated their wound. Not the others who can only speak but do nothing in return.
I hope you find soon the one that you are looking for. The one who can give you a baby and at the same time can be your wife, housewife, partner, lover, and friend rolled into one. And about that critique I'm sure he is only envious and jealous of what you are enjoying and people are always like that, you do good, you do bad they always have an opinion. Good day sir.
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sorry I'm not fond of twitter find it too crowded for me... will check the twitter
Good luck for those adults, many poor family compromise the future of their girls, every girl has a dream but poor girls are not a dream catcher. I agree with some comments on this post that some will accept you and some will criticize and this will depend on their point of views
Choice...that is important. The thing is, a lot of people would always have something to say even if we walk on water, they would say it is because we cannot swim. Everything is down to choice and as long as it is mutually beneficial as you have said, you are not doing anything excessively or hurting them. They are with you by choice. They had their motive to come to you. Here in Nigeria, they are not worried or bothered even if you are married, especially when you see school ladies that could barely get through school. They want that security, that assurance and if you are that bright light of hope, they would hang on to you.
Rich and luxurious guys always have this aura that magnifies attraction to the ladies in general. However, you should not feel accountable to the critics people are throwing at you. You don't need an explanation of you being rich.
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Many of my co-Filipinas are preying on white old men 😅 because they thought they can provide them financially. As for me, I rather choose a man older than me, not because of money, but because they are more responsible, and knew a lot of things than I am... But it's your life anyway, you can do whatever you want to sir.. Just be careful in choosing one and beware of those who might stab your back... Btw, your kids are beautiful.. Indeed the mixture of white and black is awesome..
The truth is very hard to take in but I won't lie you've spoken well. I'm a black man from Nigeria to be precise and I must say every single girl will quickly jump on the opportunity to get married to a man even 30 years older than them, so far the assurance is given to them, getting married to a younger man doesn't guarantee a peaceful home or prevent domestic violence. Most men believe by beating their wife it helps in stamping their authority as the head of the home and you know the sad part , even her parents and family will encourage her to endure and push on that marriage isn't a bed of Rose's. So far the white man state his intentions from the beginning and the girl agrees i don't see it as any form of preying or hunting.
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Well, I guess other people might not understand your stand that is why they misunderstand it and critique you. Actually, there isn't anything wrong with it as long as you can support them and their your future babies. In the first place, it is also their choice anyways. You didn't force them. So, just don't mind the critiques as long as you know what is true and what's not. :)
I think there is often simple malice and jealousy behind criticism. If people had the opportunity to live their lives the way they really want to, they would think differently. And if a relationship is based on mutual agreement then no one has the right to criticize it. As for women’s careers, I think it’s possible to be successful and be a good mother at the same time, but only a few and with the right background can do it.
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I think that the criticism you received in that YouTube comment either comes down to jealousy or to not accepting reality. If the commenter "Simon" is actually a man, he might think that you're "cheating the system": He himself probably finds it very hard to date western women -- as they are extremely entitled, have unrealistic expectations and offer little in return. Especially for a man like you who wants to start a family, doesn't need a second income, but needs a feminine, preferably young woman to have children and to take care of them. You need and you want a woman who is a good homemaker and a good mother to your children. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, I believe that the world would be a much better place if more men and women realized that. We would have fewer single parents and neglected children. It is extremely hard to find women in the western world who match that description for the reasons that you mentioned in your article. "If you're looking for gold, you will have to dig through a lot of dirt." is a quote I heard from "Engineers in Cars" (great life and dating advice YouTube channel by the way). And of course, it makes sense to dig where there is more gold in the dirt. That's the smart thing you do and what this "Simon" may regard as "cheating the game". Don't mind the haters. (I actually don't think the comment got to you. You seem to have really thick skin. I believe you just wanted to point out the ridiculousness of the comment -- and you definitely achieved that with flying colors while still being respectful to the commenter.) The more success you have, the more a certain class of person will hate you for it. Unfortunately. As you didn't go there, I will: These haters are usually losers. I wouldn't be surprised if the commenter lives in his mom's basement and doesn't have a lot of dating experience at all... Many people love you, Marc. Or at least they like you. And many people admire you for what you do. You have helped so many people with read.cash, noise.cash and with your life and investment advice. You definitely have made a dent in the universe. I'm sure you know that. I just wanted to remind you of that as one negative comment usually pulls someone down more than 100 positive comments lift someone up.
There's nothing wrong with that having relationship with young girls as long you treated them well. I hope i have a guy like you.. Lol hahahah
Never expected you'll also give explanation like seriously i know girls will try to catch coz you're good looking and handsome also they want a happy living and a person who fulfil there wishes so you've everything and you can easily find your young age partner your age is not older you've beauty and everything so mark my words soon she'll find you and she will fulfil your needs
Look marc no matter what you do people are always going to try bring you down more than likely its bord jealous people who think its funny to bully someone who doing something with there life so rise about it and care on .if they see they can get at you they will just keep doing it
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Good day Mr. Marc, you are blessed that you are very kind person also in your family, I watch your live youtube video how to get a pretty girl and this When you don't want to talk about it, invest some more. You always put your wife and daughter in the video and you are proud of it too see them, hehe you have a cute little girl and a happy family. By the way of you have time and can read my article sir marc thank you very much. https://read.cash/@SenseiZero/what-an-expected-experience-of-applying-an-office-staff-5edf4a9a
I 100% disagree with anyone who says you are preying on young girls - and here's some perspective...I am a 32 year old woman who is completely the opposite to everything you want in a woman. I do not desire having children, I do not have any wish to stop my career in order to be a house wife or a mother. I have been studying while working for pretty much my entire life. I am the opposite to you in the sense that when I met people I wanted to start a relationship with, I told them outright, "If you want children we are not going to work." Do you know how much I was treated as an outcast in some circles because of that? A woman who doesn't want to have kids! MUST be some type of a heathen... Utter nonsense what people have to put up with because of what THEY want. "But I did have 2 relationships in Europe, albeit themselves poor immigrants as they tend to be more hot than the white girl I could get" You know what? I'm also white - truly not your cup of tea 😂 even though I guess being a South African I could be classified as exotic. Why is it that people want to turn someone into a bad person because of differing thoughts? Narrow minded nonsense. If YOU desire to have relationships with certain people, you are in a safe, sane and consensual relationship with the women you are with, who gives a damn what others think? My first real boyfriend was when I was 19, he was 38. He was also the youngest person I had ever dated. I met my fiancé when I was 25, he was 46 at the time. We have had the "looks", and it used to bother him because he is a very gentle soul who doesn't like conflict of any type, we had a discussion about it one day I told him to remember one thing, "Those who stare with disgust are jealous - they can't have me and never will." Now, I am not saying that I'm the catch of the century, but I know that I am not unattractive, and I know I've got a wild (and sometimes disgusting sense of humour) and I've had no complaints in the bedroom (or anywhere else). Marc, you do you, keep living YOUR life, follow YOUR dreams and the ones who want to throw the crap at you? Let them continue with their pitiful existence. You can see in the comments that people are just downright jealous of you. If as a woman who is everything you do not desire, I support your lifestyle choices, it speaks volumes more than others who are woefully jealous. PS: I also went and read through the comments in your video, I absolutely love your outlook to things, you replied this to someone, "if I wouldn't have any haters, I would be more worried. Thank you for hating on me, and not just a little but on all positions and opinions I take." I will take that to heart for sure when the time comes for me. Have a great day, love to see your posts and videos.
I am quite bored of reading fake respectable people who hide behind a keyboard and always judge. I call them keyboard lions but then in real life they belong to the worst species. I don't have any kind of prejudice as long as all things happen naturally and without coercion or violence. I wish you to live your life to the fullest and I wish a peaceful life to women who want to be freely with you
well as a young women/ girl I must say , you are not preying young girls , instead they fall a prey as a victim because of many of the attributes you have in your body as well as your personality . Talking about Europe and Africa , you are the similar person in Europe like all other white men , that shows some difficulty for women , while when you are here in Africa, you are like the antique piece in all the black men . The other opinion says, all other girls , either young or old , come to you with their consent , either the sake of money , love , care, attention or just only attraction , the thing is , they want to stay. If you are forcing them , that means you are preying them ..if you arnt, vice versa. If I would be at the place of Girls, I surely chose you haha, because of the so many attributes..
I must say that you have a food eye for sweet girls... Your baby is very beautiful and sexy and I too love them slim, black and sweet... Well talking concerning the matter which you have raised, I believe that love or relationship should not be based on age as long as both parties are above 18 years and can make decisions by themselves. You made a valid point when you said that getting beautiful girls from developing countries is easier than getting them from developed countries. As I got the confirmation from the video when you asked your baby how she was feeling about the luxurious lifestyle she is living, she responded by saying that it's a dream come through. Her response summarizes all that you have said. Every girl needs a loving and caring man without minding the age difference. Lest I forget, Maldives 🇲🇻 is one of my dream tourists centre that I will visit once I get enough money. From what I see, I believe their girls will be sweet and sexy... @MarcDeMesel enjoy your sweet baby.🥰
Teen girls nowadays (and teen boys as well) are not going to settle down and have a child. Indeed, a general 17 year old girl or so, is usually more attractive than lets say a 37 year old women. Dont forget, that as a men, you are fertile pretty much till the end of your life, but at least up to your 60s. Women start to lose fertility around the age 35 so that's the age where they want to settle down quickly. This does not means you must try to get a women who is just turning 35, just a phenomenon you must be aware of. Some cultures are more accepting that if you lets say, as 40 year old, picking up some 20 year old girls, but some isnt. Maybe you should try japan, or some other asian country, as Asian women tend to have an affection for white people, and you can compensate your age with money (not like a 35-45 year old men would be old or anything... you are basically in your prime age, men reach the peak around the age you are in). A friend of me always says, get a woman who is already rich, those are more normal than the usual one. And indeed, those who was already able to make some business success, are more usable than those whose maximal performance is to sniff up some heroin in the disco which they use to have sex every weekend.
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