Sometimes we don’t decide who we Love, the Fate decides. Date: 6th April, 2022 Wednesday It’s been a long time since I had a sound sleep like yesterday. Oh, my back, it’s better now. No, I don’t have problem like Spider-man as he had on his back. Just a normal back pain. Well, hello beautiful family. It’s good to be back here and buzzing around with you people, reading your articles and answering your desires. That's the one thing which I always love. I care and I genuinely feel this from heart. Heart which always says the truth. Truth is that I love being here. Am I talking too much about love? The one thing which I always search and still haven’t found yet? Never mind. **Sometimes we don’t decide who we love, the incredible fate decides.** I hope this is going to happen with me too and I'm pretty much sure that my Almighty has chosen someone better for me. Fate is something that we all believe and we know that it has already been written. We can only able to rewrite it with pure dedication and hard work. No, I'm not going that way. It’s not a motivational article. It's about the emotional stats of heart, related with life and feelings for someone. Almost everyone here are matured enough to understand my words. So I would not make you people await for what I'm going to tell.
Love is a divine gift and we cherish it so much. We think we are running after money in this world? No dude. In the end, we all search true love and care. Just look at the rich people. In spite of having too many comfort zones and money, they still look for the person whom they can call the true love of his/her life. This is the most desired thing of this world. When we were made by the Almighty, we were not given money as our companion. So that's the proof that we need love more than money. Now looking after the person you desire is not so easy. We all try this one but how many of us succeeded and found their true love? I know many of you will raise their hands. You are the lucky ones. Now, if I regenerate my question and ask this way like, how many of you find the true love selected by family? Look at the hands, very few I guess. This is what I'm discussing now. Finding someone of your own choice is tough, I agree. But not that tough when you agree to live with a person who is chosen by family, whom you don’t know much. That's the weird thing but of course, you can be the luckiest one. Some people finds their actual soulmates by this way. How lucky they are! Just imagine the situation. You are finding that person and had affair with someone else who didn’t meet the mark your desire. You finds that person by that way. The happiness will know no bound then. Sometimes our fate choose the perfect thing for us. It feels like the world is eager to make this relationship while we were busy in finding another. Then finally it happens & our long run ends.
We find out that a complete unknown person becomes the trustworthy, reliable, caring & lovable as we desired. We think that it would be tough but living with them becomes the most beautiful moments of our life. We thank the Almighty for granting such a person for us. Love is a beautiful feelings which can be felt from two hearts; one for another. Two person feels the same desires, passion, pain, happiness & contentment. This pleasure can only be felt when two people shares the same emotional stats. You can be the lucky one who can choose the person or find one for his/her life. Otherwise, the fate chooses the partner of your life to relive again your dreams & desires. Sometimes the invisible power gives us vision of life changing moments. Sometimes the incredible fate decides what we truly desire.
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Personally I believe on arrange marriage, where family decides your life partner. Although it would be tough to live with completely unknown person in the beginning but this brings more understanding in relationship.
Your words speak the beautiful thinking and tradition of your culture. I respect that most.
I believe that all of us was being faith to someone and so sometimes we don't need to find but we should just wait. However Love is incredibly surprising. Sometimes the kind of person that we've been looking for long was actually already around us, we just can't see them but our faith is keep on pushing us to that person and eventually time will allow us to see it unexpectedly.
You have explained better than me. Thanks dear. You are right.
Everything according to plan of Almighty, we are just puppets in his hand.
He has given us choices. We decide it.
Everything happens because of our almighty. He's the one who make our paths that's why sometimes we encountered a lot of unexpected situation we're we shocked of because we believe he's the one who made it.
Well said.
Hm Love and Arrange marriage is there anything called Arranged Love Marriage haha maybe. I respect both traditions earlier the success of arrange marriage was very much but now the influence of social media have created a sense of limitless desires which people expect in their partner and sometimes marriages fail. In my family in recent two years two arrange marriage have been failed. I feel very sad for both of them. And about the love ones the number is increasing. But there's too much toxicity in that also. Let's hope we get good people haha and don't expect everything from your partners, no-one is perfect here. Oh don't mind my words much, just a kid sharing his views.
Yes, there is arrange love marriage. We narrate it different ways. I agree with you.
Sometimes the act of fate really surprise us which is I trulky believe that if I can't find someone now who can be my partner then maybe fate has lay down a better path for me leading to my soulmate.
Have faith dear. You will be surprised with it.
I like your topics title and its reality. I am the big example of it.
Exactly. You are the perfect example of it.
The heart wants what it want. Thee would always be a place in one's heart for the chosen one, even though it might take a long time for one to find who was really meant for him/her
The right time will explain everything.
Something that hinders why sometimes we don't decide who we love. It is a process in choosing someone whom we love for the entire of our lives. We make sure that our decision would be clear that no regrets in the end.
Yeah, I agree. Love is really the most sought-after thing in this world.
Everything in God's plan, Luci!
Love your perspective and insights here :)
Yes, that's true its our fate who search for the perfect person to us.
Absolutely. We just follow it.
Love will come to you when you are prepared. So dear devil be patient. Let you get the best one as you expect best for everyone.
I'm having it. Well, let's see what happens next.
When your title says it all, sometimes our fate is the one who chooses the person for us. Yes, not perfect because that doesn't exist. However, that person seems to be our perfect match
That's how fate works dear.
For me it's fate who decide who will be our forever partner. We can't fight fate but we can shape our fate through our good deeds. Such impressive idea dear luci
Thanks dear. That's the truth.
Lucifer, you have very humorous way of out setting your article, by the way when are we supposed to meet this beautiful person in our life. is ther any age 15, 20, 25, 30. 40, 50, xyz nad how we will know that someone has arrived in our life.? That's a big question, NO?
Soon you will have the answer dear. I will definitely show it to you my family.
Dear Lucifer, hello, I missed you. I totally agree with you that what you said is the experience of my love life. Before I got married, I tried for years to find the love of my life, but I never succeeded, and in disbelief I fell in love at first sight with the one my family chose for me... 😃
That's a cute story dear. Hey, your account is ok? I missed you too 🥺
We all have our needs, depending on our situation...I need money for now...Hmm, I have observed that you've been talking about love in your succeeding articles.
Because I'm done with it. I need to breathe.
But honestly, what I am looking so hard, for now, is money, lol! But yeahhh, you're right, time will come and I will be looking for, my man.
You have your man, right? I hope so.
I ma certain that the Almighty already reserved someone only for you Luci. You have an awesome heart will surely find the best girl. Everyone needs love and we all deserve to be loved as well.
Big hug to you dear. Thanks for it.
True love is expensive. People who have had love experience would tell you that. I hear a lot of love stories and how they tragically end. This love is everywhere but the genuine are scarce
Real one is hard to find. But worthy I must say.
I've been longing for that one love for quite awhile now, I really hope fate would finally grant my inner most wishes these day 😅
I hope so. May you have the smile.
Love indeed, is a beautiful thing. Sometimes we find it amongst complete strangers, oftentimes we decide who is meant for us though sometimes our thoughts about the person might just be wrong. You're right, sometimes we don't decide who we love.
It’s the fate. In the end, we accept.
There will always be a place to love in one’s heart no matter how adamant the person’s his. Love is an affection that everyone deserves.
I agreed.
It doesn't matter how you find it, once you have, you've found a beautiful thing
Completely agree with it.
Something reminds me of your article the movie "365 days" It happens and so you say, but these are isolated cases. Real love is not only falling in love - it is first of all care and attention.
So you have seen that movie? Me too 🤐
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