Perks of Being an Introvert
What kind of person are you? An Extrovert who found socializing is much better than being an Introvert who are comfortable being alone? Or maybe you're an Ambivert who can manage being alone and being with other people?
Me, there are times that I'm an Ambivert, I like to be with my family, friends, relatives, and sometimes I found talking to stranger fun. Most of the time I initiate gatherings, and I have this set of friends who only go to an occasion if I'm there. But most of the time, let me say 80% of my personality is Introvert.
Today, I would like to share how beautiful being an introvert is, some may say it's boring but for me it's freedom. These points that I am going to share are based on my experience and observation. Let me know if you have something to add.
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When I was in Highschool, I was a tranferee that time when my classmates plan to go for a swimming, they already know that I have a strict father so the president look at me saying "we will not go if Ling will not attend," I just laugh as the President became my very close friend, but still I said I can't, then one of my classmate said "It means you're not enjoying your life." I actually don't like what she said, but I just ignore her. Then she asked again "Are you happy with your life?", I got irritated so I said "Ofcourse I am, I'm happy following my parent's command", since the president feel the tension between us, he said "Parents who have beautiful daughter are strict, if your parents are not strict then now you know", my classmate clap and shout "ohhh" after our president told this to my classmate. It is somewhat as joke a very big help for me.
I am not saying that I am really beautiful but this is a savage answer to defend introvert person having a strict parents. That I realized Introvert need those persons who knows how to understand just like my friend Mr. President. So if they look down on you being not around, then just say that sentence:D
Let's move on to the Perks of being an Introvert ;
More Creative
Being alone means having a lot of time to discover and enhance your talent. Introvert are those person who take time to made a plan first before doing the act. They might not be good in physical sports, but you can trust their ability to play board games or making art piece.
Far from toxic people
Since introvert person don't like socializing then it only means that their circle of friends is limited and highly chosen. They only choose the people/person they want to be with. People around you is a big factor in setting your mood; if you're with toxic people then they can give negative energy on you. The more you set yourself being with people that can help you grow the more you gain peace of mind and success.
You can focus
The more you socialized the more you make your goals set aside. You focus in a short-term happiness than long-term goals that can give you joy life time. This can be the reason of not having a time for your family; I know not everyone but most of people who likes to socialize forget to bond with his/her parents.
You can focus in your work or studies; no temptation no wasting of money or time.
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People will like to know you more
The more you limit your words and the more you limit your actions, the more people get interest knowing you. If you already show the world what are your strengths and weaknesses, your goals, attitude and everyday life, then what's more surprising that they can get from you? But if you talk to an Introvert person, you will met another world.
We may have different personalities, or opinion about the topic that I've shared but I'm truly writing this from my heart. I've been in different schools and met different kinds of students , and I observed that if you're an introvert they just ignore you. So this article, is to Flex all Introvert people:)
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January 27, 2022
-Ling
I personally don't like to wear any labels about who I am, so I guess I'm a mixture of many things. Most of my time I spend on my own, but I enjoy being with friends and being social too. All depends on a day ;)