Bosom Enemy is the term that we can use to refer our own characteristics which makes us feel bad. Example of this is your anger, laziness, being easily to get jealous and other aspect of yourself which we can say "yourself enemy."

Today's article is to share another story of a close of friend of mine which his bosom enemy is being too attention seeker.

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I have a lot of friends, and truly blessed to have them. They are there when I need help, and I am also willing to lend my help everytime they need to.

As a girl, it is common to have a squad or bestfriend which is the same gender as you. But as I turned to highschool, there are some cases which I can say, "to have a boy bestfriend is better". Boys are easy to talk to than girls sometimes. Lol!

So I have this bestfriend, a boy bestfriend who are fun of having girlfriends. I don't know why he is like this, but based on my observation he is somewhat an attention seeker. We are in highschool when he first had his gf, after a months they broke up, then another new one came. This is always like this, everytime he broke up with his gf after 2-3 days there's a new one again. I'm a victim of this also, he is saying that he loves me but not, I know it's not love. Love is precious and I know if his intention is pure. Yes, our friendship is pure at first, but this characteristic of him make it ruin.

Our communication ended, but when we got into 4th year highschool, we became close again. We hang out with our other friends, and he even visit me at home just to talk about his life. My parents know him already, and that actually he is a kind, caring and generous friend; just his problem is being attention seeker.

Fast forward..

He is now a father, and after years of changing a lot of girlfriends, he finally found the girl for him. They are not yet married and having a baby is not in their plan but this blessing changed him a lot. He became more hard working and matured. He is now happy and contented on his gf and baby; not seeking for anyone's attention anymore.

Why I came up with this topic was because of the movie that I've watched last night, which is the Little Woman by Louisa May Alcott. This is another Contemporary Literature which shows the life of the 4 sisters. Why I said "movie" is because I suppose to read the book when I found out that it has 860 pdf pages. So what I did is just I watched the movie.

If you want to know the story you can watch this,

On the first chapter of the book, the 4 sisters' mom, Marmee, read a letter from their father to " fight their bosom enemies bravely." All the girls have their own bosom enemy that at the end of the story/movie they ......(I'm not gonna spoil for those who will watch)

Lastly, I know most of us are facing problems, within ourselves and surrounding. But always be brave and fight for it, try to handle those bosom enemies of yours; at the end it is our choice to be happy and free.

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Author's love message :

Hello readers! How was your day?

Do you have bosom enemy/enemies? How did you cope up with those?

If you haven't meet the answer, just try to show it through writing, as it can helps a lot.

GOD Bless. Hugs!

October 12, 2021

-Ling