"Dear EX - What Happened?"

EX - just a two letter word but a powerful one that can bring different emotions upon hearing. It could be a negative like pain, sorrow or even anger. Though there are few that upon remembering can't help but to put a smile on their lips. Perhaps they remember those good old days.

Oh wait, the EX I am referring to is EX- lover. Yes your former boyfriend/girlfriend or even spouse. That someone who makes you feel what is LOVE. DO YOU HAVE ONE?

Just the other day I stumbled into @charmingcherry08 article which tackles things she would like to say to her EX. I've been planning to write one several months ago and I think this is the right time.

So;

Dear EX,

It's been a long time since we haven't seen each other, if my memory is right it's been a decade. Though we are just living in one province our path didn't cross. I don't know if I should be thankful ,LOL. I actually write this letter even I know you won't read is because I just wanted to say;

What happened? Years ago I was really wondering what happened on those days we are apart and why you suddenly turned cold.

I was confident and I have never doubted your love for me since the day one of our relationship. Why would I? We were bestfriends since I don't know when it started so we already know each other. I know that you are such a boyfriend material and not a typical man who is fuck!ng around.

My classmates and even our Professors are rooting for us and we are even tagged as perfect couples at school. When you started your teaching career I can't help but to be proud of you. Still no matter how busy you are, never fail to spend time with me.

During my graduation day, though you were so busy at work preparing for commencement exercises of your student, you still didn't disappoint me. Thank you for making me feel so special that day. I can see how your eyes sparkle while I am walking up to the stage to get my diploma. I know you were so proud of me! I was even teased by my classmates and even teachers.

Our families were even okay and they are already expecting us to end up together. My younger sister adores you so much and set her standard to have a boyfriend like you.

Yet things changed when I decided to work here at Manila and you started to level up your career and teach in one of the biggest universities in the city. You suddenly turn cold, ignore my calls and texts. You always reason out that you are busy with this and that. Yes I understand being a teacher and pursuing your master's degree was not easy. However I was just surprised to see one day that your relationship status in Facebook was already SINGLE from being in a relationship. What a nice way of breaking up with me. When I called you told me that our relationship was no longer okay as you can't stand to be in an LDR.

I don't understand why? I even asked myself what happened? Can you please tell me what happened?

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I wrote this letter not because I am not yet over my EX. It is just I was wondering for years though he told me some of his sh!ts reasons.

Not until last 2019 when he decided to unblocked me on Facebook and contacted me. He did ask for an apology though I am not sure if he is sincere as I felt like he is bragging about his so -called " SUCCESS". He swore there was no 3rd party that time and also added that he already had a girlfriend and it was the girl who pushed him to contact me for the " CLOSURE" thing since as per him he always tells her GF about me.

He told me he just got tired of being in an LDR and that actions were somehow intentional as he wanted me to go home. EHHH, why didn't he tell me directly? This is one of the problems of having a smart partner. They think differently without thinking that not all have the same assumptions.

So partly it was also a miscommunication as our minds did not meet, LOL.

As of now he is already married and had a cute baby girl. Sometimes when I saw his daughter's picture on Facebook I wanted to pinch her face.. Kagigil eh!

We are okay after we talk but we don't have communication. I don't think it is necessary. We are no longer best friends..

So how's everyone? I just woke up while writing this article as I am unable to work today. I mean I went to the office early in the morning but I felt unwell so I decided to go home. Just the usual ladies problem (PMS). Yet I could no longer bear the pain, my vision was getting blurry and my hands were even shaking. I don't want to embarrass myself in case I faint, lol.

That's for today and have a nice day.

04:13PM

06/16/2022_Manila_Phillipines.