It's okay to say " I'm Sorry "
A simple word with a big impact! Do you think "sorry" is just an ordinary word? No, my friend, the word "sorry" has a supernatural power. It corrects the biggest mistakes, heals the deepest scars, and gives a feeling of satisfaction and appreciation to both parties. More importantly, an apology does not diminish your position, on the contrary, it makes you a much stronger person.
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Why talk about apology now? For many reasons, I will mention some of them..
First: because a lot of people refuse to say it!
Many people refuse to apologize to others, even if they know that they made a mistake and that the other person deserves an apology, but they refuse to say the word sorry. They believe that an apology will detract from their position or damage their arrogance and self-confidence, or because they believe that their mistake will be forgiven without an apology or compensation. Or worse, they think that the other party does not deserve their apology. Whatever your reasons for refusing to say sorry and apology, they are wrong.
Second: an apology makes you a better person!
Yes, this is true. Apologizing makes you a better person, because you realize your mistake and are ready to apologize for it. When you apologize, you will be the most aware person. People will respect your ability to admit a mistake and ask for forgiveness. An apology lifts you up, not as you think it offends you. A person who realizes his mistake and asks forgiveness for it knows how to make himself a better person by avoiding repeating his mistakes.
Third: It will fix any problem you face !
Yes, my friend, do not be surprised, an apology will fix things with the least damage. When you make a mistake in your work and your boss comes angry, to stand up and apologize to him from your heart, he will realize that you know that you made a mistake and that you are trying to avoid the next mistake, and your boss will forgive you. But if you refuse to apologize and insist that you are right, the manager will realize that you are a person who is not capable of development and you will definitely be fired.
If you wronged a friend or one of your family members, a simple apology can cancel the dispute as if nothing happened, you may avoid losing someone dear to you with a word of sorry, but if you are too old to apologize, you will lose your loved ones one by one.
Fourth: It gives you and those around you a feeling of satisfaction !
Apologizing will give you a feeling of satisfaction and happiness, you will feel that a heavy burden has been lifted off your shoulders, you will be able to look into the eyes of the person you have wronged and you do not have to avoid him or feel embarrassed when seeing him, you will just smile at him and he will smile back.. Why? Because when you apologize to someone you have wronged, he will realize that he is a person dear to you, and that you did not accept that the mistake that occurred between you was a reason for you to lose each other. He will know that you value his feelings and take care of them and did not wrong him on purpose, for sure he will feel happy and forgive you.
Remember, an apology does not diminish you, but rather earns you the respect and appreciation of others. You are a responsible person, accept criticism and realize that a mistake is inevitable, and it is okay to apologize and correct it.
Now after that, do you agree that the word "sorry" has a magical effect? Of course, when someone loses someone or loses something, we say to them I am sorry for your loss, although it is not our fault, but this means that we want to relieve the grief, the word sorry comes as a palm that wipes the tears from your face and pats your shoulder. Next time feel free to apologize and say sorry, because you will be the hero of the situation and save the day!
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Yes we must say sorry if we do any mistakes and it is a sign of good manners...some people don't say it just for their ego which is absolutely wrong