"School time challenge"
While I was browsing through the articles that you were writing, I found that many of you wrote about the school life that you lived, so I decided to participate in this challenge and tell you about my school life in the past years.
When I moved to high school, I had two brothers who were ahead of me at that stage and they finished their studies at the school I went to.
We were brought up at home on the love of science, perseverance and diligence, so my brothers were always among the first in their ranks, who are honored every semester as a result of their diligence and obtaining perfect grades in almost all subjects.
So when I introduced myself to the teachers and they got to know me and they knew who my brothers are, they loved me so much because they knew that I was diligent in the class and they expected me to be peaceful and not quarrelsome, but unfortunately for them the opposite happened. Funny that's why all my teachers attached to me and loved me so much
This situation continued until a new principal was appointed for the school. She was a psychologically complex person. She put in place new illogical laws. Neither the students liked her nor even the teachers. Unfortunately, she did not know me and she did not know my brothers, so a lot of problems occurred between us, but I was always right, and the evidence is standing My family and all my teachers to my class
However, there is one situation where I knew I was not right, but nevertheless I laughed at my opinion and did what I wanted to do.
Of course, he wouldn't hurt anyone or blame anyone, but I took full responsibility and all the obstacles I faced in this situation, and I defeated them
And you can consider this situation as a challenge to myself that I can do everything I want if you know the thinking of high school students and the extent of their limited thinking. We were all children and we do not know what we were doing.
Where everyone adheres to the idea that when you break, you know that the laws were created to be broken. And that we should not walk with the herd, because, as they say, sheep walk in flocks, but a lion walks alone
What you know is that in the secondary stage, which is considered the first of the young men, all of them were to write a beautiful scene in order to get to know some beautiful girls.
During that period, it was considered nice for an Italian young man to tie his hair, as it was considered one of the healthiest of modern fashion, but according to the school system in which I was studying, it was not allowed for you to do too much hair extension
So I grew my hair long but I had already spoken with the discipline officer as I knew her and she knew my family so she allowed me to grow my hair Some of you will say it broke the law No, but she was very nice and allowed anyone who wanted to lengthen your hair to do it so I wasn't the only one in The school.
But everyone was when he passed by the manager he used to hide his hair so that he wouldn't see him and cause him problems.
But I and I do not know why, but I think that it was out of challenge only. I passed by the principal and did not hide my hair or any other reaction, so she made a warning and instructed me to shave my hair as it should be shaved in accordance with the school law.
But of course I did not accept that, and when I went home, I told my mother about the matter and I persuaded her and allowed me to do the hair extension and told her to speak to the manager and give me an exception just for me
But when the manager gave me this exceptional name, he gave me this permission after the problems with the discipline officer, and my colleagues, feeling jealous of me because the official asked them to shave their hair.
This was one of the problems that I faced during the school stage, and now I will tell you the first problem that I faced when the new principal took over the administration in the school.
Where we were at the beginning of the year that preceded the graduation year, and there was the appointment of some new officials and some new managers, so a new manager and a new department official were appointed.
And we have a custom here that at the beginning of each year we have to skip school for a whole week, that is, we go to school and attend some classes, but we avoid the last three or four classes.
The principal and the person in charge of the two new departments did not have any knowledge of this custom that we do every year for that base by writing warnings to all the students of the school.
As in the system of the school in which I was studying, when three warnings were given to the student, the principal would call the student’s guardian and expel him from the school for a whole week.
The next day, when we went to the school, the principal distributed warnings to all the students of the school, but the shocking thing was that the next day after receiving the warnings, the head of the department entered and told us that we should clean the whole school. I know that this thing is not a bad thing, but when she said that this Cleaning is the punishment for escaping I did not bear this because I had received a warning for escaping from school before, so why should I clean up.
when the person responsible for department entered the class with this, I confronted her and told her that we in the school have a cleaner who is responsible for this matter. So why should we do this? We are students. Our only responsibility is to study only, and we did not come to school to clean platinum to the school in order to learn.
As a student, it is known among my teachers that I am a diligent student and all of my grades are perfect, and that I received a warning as a result of my escaping from school, so I did not clean up.
The new head of the department, I love the strength of personality and the way of relaying ideas, and that there is a logic in what I sayBut she summoned the director to give the order directly, thinking that I would fulfill the director's orders without discussion, because she knows that everyone is afraid of this director, but she did not know who she was dealing with and that I am not afraid of anyone when I am right
When the principal came to the class I was in, the person in charge of the department called me a lawyer, because I was defending all my comrades, and they had no right to ask us such a request.
I confronted the principal and told her that we had received a penalty for our actions and that it was not within her authority to force us to do the school cleaning as it was not a regular cleaning as she wanted us to mop the walls and clean the floors with soap and water. Ordinary cleaning, meaning that we must remove the papers from the ground
As the director was also shocked that she was not used to anyone discussing or confronting her in any decision she made.
Where I asked the person in charge of the department to take my name and not to give me permission during the whole working period.
The manager was very upset by this behavior and wanted me to apologize to her for what I had done, but I was sure that I had not done anything wrong and that she was the one who was violating our rights.
Where I went, she told the person responsible for the activity and then the school, where she knew that my relationship was very close to them and that I was in love with her daughter, so she did not expect that I would refuse her request.
But when I went to her office and told her about the thing that happened in detail, he knew that I was the one who had the right in this matter and that the principal was the one who made a mistake and that she should apologize to me and the rest of the students, so she did not ask me to apologize to her and completely ignored the issue.
Principal A was annoyed a lot with me and the responsible activities, as she put my name on her desk throughout the whole semester to remind me and reject all requests that I make of herSince you are presenting the quarterly projects, the director agreed with the lady who was responsible for my project. The lady never helped me in this project, so I wrote it myself because my father was a professor in the same subject I chose and helped me a lot.She also did not accept to discuss the project that I had written and forced me as a silly project, although she never read it. I discussed it and embarrassed her in front of all the professors that she should not say about any project that it was silly. Anything organized, even if this project was the same jurisdiction for which it was responsible.
I told her that I no longer wanted to discuss this project, and that she should mark a project like any other project, even if I did not discuss it.
I also went to tell all the professors I know about this situation, and they all agreed and went to the principal and told her her mistake and that she should mark this project like any other project, but she was so mean that she removed a lot of grades from him and that affected my ranking in school
Regardless of the problems that the school went through, it was very beautiful times that my friends and I spent, as we did a lot of activities that were supervised by the activities manager
Since we were on every national occasion or any other occasion we used to rehearse a specific dance on a specific song to be performed in front of the school, in addition to the guests that the school invites from the municipality director
That being said, I was the one organizing the dances and training my comrades in them, in addition to his son in charge of the activities, which later became my darling.
The relationship became strong between us when we trained the students to dance, as she was the only one among them who was quick to learn.
So I was training her first so that she would help me later, and during this period we were evading many lessons in need of preparing for the school party.
Where we look every year about a month and a half and we rehearse the dance in order to master it professionally.
They were also taken to theaters sometimes to re-threat the dance we did.
In addition to the awareness campaigns that we carried out and the cultural seminars that we used to throw on many students to educate them.
As we were choosing topics of interest to young people and affecting their lives in order to educate them about their positives and negatives. We also drew attention to some common diseases and warned against them.
I remember that we once held a campaign to raise awareness about technology and its negative effects on our social relations with others and how it negatively affects people and makes people withdrawn or introverted.
We also said about an awareness campaign about the X virus, given the situation that was prevalent in our region, which was tattooing on the body, as there was a woman infected with HIV and working in this field.
As we all know that we use the needles to make tattoos on the body, this woman used to do it and take herself first in order to transmit the virus to the other person, so we made the students aware of this in order toBe careful while they do this.
My school was 4 floors underground and Tuesday above ground I was on the fourth floor We had a very beautiful view I think it was the most beautiful view ever.
What are the most beautiful memories we make during school and the friends who are with us when school is over are lifelong friends for me.
I hope you enjoy reading these seats and tell me your opinions
You are the reason
We all run into problems and when we can't solve the problem we resort to putting the blame on everyone else involved.Using the famous phrase, you are the reason?
There are many situations in which we resort to using this sentence. We will talk about these situations now and in detail in this article.
We will begin by analyzing how this phrase has been used from when we were children until now when we became conscious adults and men and women.
First, during our school stage in school, we were young children. Of course, all of us were rioting when he was a student at school, but when the time for punishment came, we all tried to evade this punishment and leaned on our colleague in the next seat
We are now talking about children who use this phrase and they are unaware of the consequences in the future because now all their thinking was that putting the blame on the other will end up in deduction of some grades or any other simple punishment because we are just children in the end.
The school stage has ended and the university stage has begun, but many children have grown into the idea of irresponsibility and love the idea of evading the problem that has fallen into it by throwing it at anyone else.
As we all know that in the university there are many projects that we must carry out, and some of these projects must be in groups to be completed on time, but if there is any student who is not responsible and could not complete the department responsible for them, he will put the blame on anyone else from His colleagues within this project in order to justify themselves before the professor in charge of the material or responsible for this project they were working on
This is very bad because it informs a large group of people who were supposed to achieve high marks in this project or want to get a full mark in this total so that their final score remains very good.
I am currently studying at the university level and I encounter this problem a lot or I suffer from it in almost every project that we have to do in a group, but when this problem occurs, someone blames us in front of the professor. In front of the professor, but he lies in front of us and blames his family, relatives, or anything in his surroundings.
Of course, in the end, this person will grow up, become irresponsible and useless, and only cause problems for others.
The university stage ended and we entered practical life, where we went to work in a company in order to build ourselves, achieve our dreams and build our future.
But wherever we go, we will find one of these people who blames others, whether it is to solve a problem or because of his jealousy, because you are superior to him at work and he wants to get down from your rank and remain the superior and he is the favorite of the manager of the company or the manager of the department in which we work, so I will He creates problems and blames you, or there will be a problem that you have nothing to do with, but this person will go and say you are the cause of this problem and any problem that will occur in the future.
But now we will talk about the emotional relationships that we go through during our lives, most of which end with the separation of these two people.
Everyone during their emotional relationships go through problems between the two parties, either they solve them, or these problems are the reason for the end of this love and this relationship that binds these two people.
And the ability to solve these problems expresses the great love that binds these two people. But when we weaken in front of these problems and make them affect our relationship and end the love between us, or we are strong, we love each other and support each other in order to solve all the problems we face
There are two types of people in this relationship, the first type is the type who gives up quickly and who ends the relationship from the first problem, and he puts the blame on the other because he is irresponsible and does not think about his future with his partner, so he finds it easier and more appropriate not to solve this problem and lay all the blame on his partner In this case, the relationship ends
The second type is the responsible type, who is used to solving all the problems he faces with love and thinking and in cooperation with his partner, who decided to spend the rest of his life with him.
This is the perfect partner who bears all the pressure and problems and who when you ask why you are doing all this he tells you that you are the reason my love of my life.
In the end, I hope that all of us will be like the second type who solve all his problems by cooperating with his partner and not blaming him.
Thank you very much, my friends, for reading this article, and I hope that these articles will be useful to you and that you can benefit from them and take the useful conclusion, which is to rely on yourself and not blame anyone and get used to bearing responsibility.
What is my type challenge
Since I'm new here, I was browsing this site and enjoyed reading your beautiful articlesMy eyes fell on this article, which is a challenge, and I witnessed that many of you participated in it, so I said why don't you try this challenge and discover my partner's personalityI also noticed that my friend @Lara888 had participated in this challenge, so I read her article and took the questions that she posed to herself so that I could answer them too.
We start now with the first question
which is tall or short ?
for me I prefer the tall lady because I am considered one of the people throughout my life, as my height ranges, I think, between 180 and 185 I think.Because for me, when I want to talk to the person I love, I prefer our eyes to be on the same level because I think that's kind of romantic.
Talking a lot or quiet ?
For me, I prefer a lot of talk because a calm person makes me bored, and I prefer the person who shares with me all the details of his life, even if the small ones, even if they are not important, because when I love someone who cares about all the small and big details, and I like to share them all with me.
The opposite of the sexual self ?
I prefer the opposite sex, the ladies, as I feel a greater attraction to them than the attraction of men, which is the natural state.Of course, I do not have any problem with people who are attracted to the same sex because I am one of the people who consider it one of the types of personal freedoms.I also believe in the idea that we should do the things that make us happy, so if being with someone of the same sex makes you happy, that's your right.
Western or Asian ?
for me, there is no difference between them, as I am attracted to any type of woman, of course, according to certain conditions, whether it is personality or beauty, but I find that all women are attractive.
Hot or nerdy ?
for me, I prefer the sexy one. Intelligence can be acquired at any age, but sexy is born with the person and cannot be acquired.
Sports or music ?
I prefer to have a sports partner and encourage me to do some exercise because this is healthy. I am not active at all. I can be considered lazy, so I prefer to have a partner on the contrary to encourage me to do some sports or music is not important to me as I find for everyone We have a taste in music.
Older or younger ?
for me that age is just a number, so I don't care if my future partner will be older or younger than me because I find that more important than that is that there is an understanding between the two people, regardless of their age, so if my future partner is older than me, but our ideas are identical Then it doesn't matter at all how old she is and if she's younger than me and our ideas are the same and it'll be fine too
Appearance or personality ?
for me, I consider appearance to be deceiving, so it is preferable that my partner's personality be better than his appearance, but it does not hurt if his appearance is beautiful and his personality is also beautiful.
Shy or strong character ?
we cannot connect these two adjectives, as each of them has its uses. Sometimes it helps to be shy, but also in some situations, your personality must be strong, you speak, and you know what you are talking about.But one of the most important characteristics of women is shyness, as many consider shyness as one of the signs of femininity that distinguishes women.
A call or a text ?
I think we all prefer calls because it will express a lot that is inside us, as writing does not have any feelings and cannot be controlled to deliver the desired idea. During the call, you can distinguish between each word that is said and know what it means exactly.As the tone of voice plays a major role in determining the shape of the words we say, whether it expresses love, anger or annoyance.
Flirting or someone flirting with me ?
For me I'm a bold person so I don't mind flirting with the person I love but it's also nice for someone to flirt with us and show us the favor and tell us about it because that's a very nice feeling
Funny or polite ?
of course I would choose my partner's character to be funny because for me I have a funny personality and I make a lot of jokes so I would love for my partner to share this quality with me and that he can understand all the jokes I make where we can turn all our serious consent into a joke and that We solve it with laughter
Drink or not ?
I think that drinking a lot is harmful to health, but I prefer a partner who does not mind drinking alcohol because I like the idea of a romantic evening that contains alcohol and do not forget that on some occasions it is necessary to drink and celebrate, as we do not always have to be Healthy in our lives, as long as drinking is within the reasonable range, we must balance in everything
Cold or romantic ?
I would definitely choose to be a romantic partner because I hate the idea of someone treating me cold because I think it is a kind of indifference and lack of interest and who among us does not like to be cared for by his partner, so she must be a romantic and caring partner.
He goes out or stays in a house ?
I prefer that my partner loves restaurants and cafes and prefers to leave the house because I hate sitting at home for a long time, so I always prefer to go out and learn about new beautiful areas. I love the idea of tourism and to travel with the love of my life
Thank you for reading my article, and thank you very much for stopping by here.
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Distract or improve. Which one do you choose?
Most of the entertaining activities that we do are often not useful to us first or to our society secondly, as they waste our time and do not help us in developing ourselves, even a little.
I'm talking about activities like video games, going out with friends, going to a restaurant, or anything other than studying
Of course, I am talking about the age group that is still in the stage of study, whether it is in high school or at university.
Every action we do at this stage of our lives will positively or negatively affect our future and the future of our society and country.
Most of the young people nowadays are quickly influenced by all the means of entertainment available to them, whether it is the Internet, telephone or TV.
At this stage, the great role of parents returns to educate their children and make them focus on what is beneficial for them and their future, and that is studying.
This is a result of my personal experience in this semester, where I had access to all the means of entertainment that I used and at the expense of which I neglected my studies, and this had negative results in practical and theoretical exams, and my grades were very low.
As a result, my friend and I developed a plan of action for the next semester to develop ourselves and improve our grades.
Although we study the same major, but in two different universities, fortunately for us, we have common working hours and shared vacation dates as well. Therefore, we will take advantage of working days and holidays to serve our personal interests.
Since we study the same major, we have many common subjects that we will help to study together.
Since the beginning of next month, that is, after seven days, will the new semester start, we will allocate specific study hours each day.
After completing the study, we will go to the gym to do some exercises that will help us to maintain our health and body shapes.
Unfortunately for us, we have many mutual friends who do not seek to develop themselves and seek to distract our thoughts.
With everything that is not useful for self-development, unfortunately, my friend and I were dragged into these ideas last semester, but we were able to correct our mistake and we will correct it next semester and stay away from these friends for this semester and leave them for free time only.
I am not saying that we should not have friends but we should have well-chosen friends who seek to develop themselves and develop ourselves with them.
The friends I want to stay away from during this period do not realize the importance of time and do not realize how to use it to serve their future. Rather, they seek to waste all time staying up late, traveling and attending parties.
I am not saying that having some fun is a bad thing, but every period in our life has a certain role. I say that this period, I mean the period of youth, we should focus on our studies and our future and then on enjoying our free time as much as possible.
Too much of everything is a bad thing, as too much study is a bad thing, and too much enjoyment in our time is a bad thing. We must balance all things
and work in our lives in order to have a stable and balanced life
But everyone knows that setting Table 8 is very easy, but sticking to it is the difficult thing.
Of course, this is determined by the individual's awareness of the responsibility that has fallen upon him, and it is related to the individual's ability to bear his own responsibility.
Parents also have a great role in raising their children and teaching them to take responsibility and adhere to deadlines, and make them realize the importance of adhering to the schedule that has been set for them and the importance of adhering to it.
In the end, we should all make use of the precious time we have and make the most of it.
Just as we are all human and we are all covered and all I am spots in mistakes, but we must rectify these mistakes and find solutions
We may sometimes fail to implement the plans we set for ourselves, but we must not despair and remember that every day is a new beginning and that failure once or twice or more does not mean that we have to give up and remember that failure can be considered the mother of success.No one succeeded from the first time, as they all failed several times until they reached Murad the last.
And that is through hard work, realizing the mistakes they made and finding appropriate solutions to fill those gaps that were in their first plan.
Do not despair, my friends, because everyone can reach his goal, but he must strive, work hard, and commit.
You should also focus on the idea of choosing only friends who support and love you, in addition to choosing family members who support all the decisions you make and help you implement them.
Enjoy your life my friends and remember that there is always everything.
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Friends or soulmates ?
In this life, a person continues his way with his life partner and some friends whom he chose carefully after a long time
But before a person finds his true friends, he faces many difficulties that he encounters because of these friends, and finds the appropriate solution with the help of some friends.
Today we will talk about the difference between the two types of friends that each person will encounter from his teenage years until his death
We must be careful in all our choices, because any wrong choice will cause us problems that we are indispensable
The most important of these choices is to choose true friends who can be relied upon
. True friends are the ones who stay with you in all your times, whether sad or happy
They are in me when your sun is shining or dark
For me I am still in the process of searching for these friends and fortunately I found two of them
The first who defends me in my absence, and he is one of the most important friends who love sincerely
He does not accept any bad word against me, and most importantly, I consider it to be the storehouse of my secrets, which I seek refuge in at any time
I can tell him the most dangerous things and I am sure that he will not tell anyone and that he will help me solve any problem that comes my way
As for the second friend to be frank, he is a friend I discovered a short time ago, as despite all the neglect he was subjected to due to some of the circumstances I went through, he did not stop his interest in me and his support for me during the period of our exams
Where he was always encouraging me and getting the best out of my energy so that I could get a high final rate
He grieves more than me when I get a low grade sometimes I feel like he's my mother
These two friends are the most precious thing I have and I think they will stay with me for the rest of my life
As for the rest of my friends there are good ones but they don't do anything for me although I try to help them as much as posible
I treat them as I would like people to treat me
We must show the good in ourselves so that others can show the good for us
There are some who consider you their opponent and try to crush you for any opportunity you allow them. I consider this a mental illness resulting from a deficiency in their personality.
In the end, friends are important in our lives, as no one can live alone in this world
My advice to you is to bring out the best in yourself so that you can be an integral part of one of your friends' lives
Thank you all for reading this i wish you all the good in the world
Take care my dears
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How can loving others get you in trouble?
The following events are taken from a true story. Unfortunately, I was the hero of this story
But first I have to say that loving others is neither a bad nor a good thing. Even love must have its limits like anything else in this life
It's good when it doesn't cause harm to people and more importantly, we don't hurt ourselves as a result of our excessive love
This story happened a short time ago when we were trying to pass the first semester exams at the university, where on that day I had a subject called Concepts of Programming Languages because I am studying IT Engineering
I walked into the seat that was allotted for me, and a girl sat next to me, I could sense the tension that was eating her from the inside
I tried to calm her down before the exam started, so she told me her sad story that she lived in the last period, the period in which she should have been preparing for this exam.
In short, her mother passed away, and this girl was very sad for her mother's separation
The exam started and we received the question papers and after half the time this girl broke down crying
No one helped her because they don't know what I know
Therefore, after I finished answering, I tried to answer her questions without drawing the attention of the observers, but unfortunately one of the observers caught me, and unfortunately for us, he was the mean observer.
Who decided to dismiss me from the university for two years and immediately began implementing the order and carrying out the required papers
I tried to explain the situation to him, but the degree of badness in his heart blinded him from the truth
After suffering for 14 days, I lived in anxiety that I would lose two years of my life as a result of feelings of sympathy and pity for someone I don't know in the first place
But in the end, the problem was solved, and no harm came to me as a result of what I did, because sometimes the servants of God do not see good deeds.
But God sees everything and the final decision is in His hand
@The-Engineer
