@Ladyv28

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

I miss you so much my good friends, where are you? I have not heard from you for hours, I guess you are very busy, please come online. I miss our normal chit chat, I want us to talk on a very sensitive and important topic. @Tunuu, @Dreamer and @Ashma I miss you all.🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

Time heals 1 Death is so painful we can't bring back our dead loved ones, each time we remember all we did together, the memory is always agonizing. But what can we possibly do, we can't question death, we have no power over it, the inevitable debt that all living being must pay. Nothing else to do but to bid farewell to our loved ones that have been touched by the cold hands of death. We mourn with a conviction that they are in a better place that way we won't miss them so much, but it's too hard to forget only time can heal us Losing a contract can be too devastating, so annoying especially when you have prepared so well for the contract, written a proposal that is too catchy to the eyes, yet you got nothing out of it. Hmmm it's alright to be angry, throw a tantrum, blame everything around you but don't let it linger longer, get a grip of yourself and plan for the future, only time can heal us completely. Being misunderstood can be frustrating especially when you are trying to prove your innocence on something, everyone seems to be against you, even your most trusted pal forsake you they all abandoned you to suffer for a crime you didn't commit, just when they try to help there was nothing they could do because the case is beyond them and for that, you have to suffer for what you know nothing about. What could be so heartbreaking than suffering for what you didn't do? In everything, don't give up, be strong cause time heals everything. It will soon pass. Thanks to get sponsor group for their support. If you wish to be sponsored join the get sponsor group, they promote good articles, reward good authors for their efforts. Join via Link to the group. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you so much dear @Ashma for your support and encouragement

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

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@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

A Giveaway contest for all (Get sponsored) Hello good people. Good afternoon everyone. I am here to share good news with us. A generous man celebrated his birthday yesterday and to mark the event he decided to organise **a giveaway in form of sponsorship for us.** For those of us that really need sponsor, this give away is for us. Happy Birthday @ruhul112 may you be blessed beyond your imagination.You shall prosper and your heart desires granted. Have fun and more BCH to your account. Here are links to my two best posts, they are really nice. I hope you like them. https://read.cash/@Ladyv28/be-happy-even-when-troubles-make-you-sad-ed64199e https://read.cash/@Ladyv28/sex-education-in-young-adults-c06fccae For those of us that would love to join the contest, here is link to the contest. Just a simple task required. https://read.cash/@ruhul112/sponsership-3ad5df5a#comment-1535d1c0 Click on the link to get more details about the sponsorship and join the contest. Thank you so much @ruhul112 for your benevolence. Good luck to everyone! I am still your sister and friend. @Ladyv28 With love

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

As a lady, you should learn to defend yourself First I want to say a new month to us all sorry it came late, may this new month take away all the pains of yesterday and bring us peace, love to humanity and above all love for our maker, so we can always remember him in all we do. A lot has happened, but I want to talk about rape case, a lady was raped and murdered right in the church in my country, that is the height of heinousness. We have been protesting online, chanting no to rape but will that solve the problem? chanting no to rape can not solve the problem although protests create awareness and draw attention to the issue so that appropriate authority can intercede, in some cases our chanting amounts to nothing, this is why we need to act. We the female counterparts need to protect ourselves first before the voice we seek comes, rape case is increasing by the day, and who is being raped? We the females. Time to fight for our selves is now, and to achieve that we need to: **Acquire defensive skills:** it's high time we learn to defend ourselves, most of us can not even exercise because we are too conscious of our stature, some belief exercising or acquiring defensive skills will make them look boyish but this is not true, there are some defensive skills you can learn and still look sexy as ever. We need to be strong mentally and physically. If you can't fight the oppressors you can at least free yourself from them if you have defensive skills. **Avoid lonely places:** most of us love our quiet moment, it's nice but don't always stay alone. That rapist can only attack you when you are alone so avoid lonely places as much as possible. **Learn to be courageous and bold:** some become rape victims because they were scared or shy to scream. You visited someone and he started misbehaving instead of you to shout, you kept quiet because you wouldn't want people to judge you, others fall to treats by their despot. Scream at any opportunity you get, your oppressor means no well for you so scream if you can. **Avoid late night:** keeping late night is not good for a lady anything can happen to you on the way if you keep late night. Stay back once you noticed you have run out of time, apart from getting raped you can get injured or robbed. The above measures are not guaranteed ways to avoid getting raped but I believe they can help in a little way, above all never expose yourself. When you dress half naked you are making yourself prey to the rapist, men are moved by what they see, the more you expose your body the more they wish to explore you. Thanks to get sponsor group for always encouraging good authors. You should join us if you wish to be sponsored. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you so much @Ashma for your support always.

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

What can make you fall out of love The love they say is a beautiful thing, being in love makes you happy especially when your love is reciprocated, it feels like you have a won a gold medal. Mare Thinking about someone you love makes you smile to yourself, the feeling is so intense that you overlook most of your partner's flaws, all you see is how wonderful they are made. The love between you blossoms at each new day, it feels like you just met. You can't stand being away from each other, all these happens because you are truly in love. Madly in love, even negative words from friends can't dissuade you, you keep fighting for the love you both shared. But then, in a short while the whole special feelings become lifeless, everything seems to have changed, you find yourself not enjoying the company of your partner anymore. You complain about everything, Soon you say you have fallen out of love. can someone you once cherished become someone you no longer value? Thanks to the get sponsor group, for sponsorship,p do well to join the group. They support good authors. Link to the group https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b What can make one fall out of love?. I want us to discuss? where are my good friends @MisterWrite @Ashma @Dreamer and @Tunuu your contributions are highly needed here please 🙏. Thank you so much

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

Be happy even when troubles make you sad. Today I chose to be happy, not because all things are well but because happiness is a choice, of what use will anger be to me, will be angry change anything no it won't instead it will increase my heartbeat and make me feel exhausted at the end. Even with everything happening I chose to be happy, I was told change is the only constant thing in life, I confirmed it. Nothing good comes easy, I am feeling the impact now, time shall come when I will rejoice and merry, let that time do and come because the current situation is choking, I am gasping for air, in all I chose to be happy, I have faith in us. Most times it seems nothing is working, I lost ideas. Problem pile up here and there, the road seems so dark and deserted. Will I ever get to my destination? Will I ever achieve that which I set my mind on, yes I will, that is why I am so happy. In the midst of my troubles, I chose to giggle because there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Come on let's walk to the light, don't give up in darkness. Now seem so tough, it doesn't mean things won't get better, have you taught about dropping your boot? Well, we are in the field you never drop your boot till the match is over, soldiers on the battle field never retreat without being ordered. I have not been ordered to retire so I am a happy soldier carrying out my duty diligently, this is our cause let's defend it. I am happy to be part of this history, that will bring a new dawn. Gold pass through fire before it becomes gold so I am happy passing through the fire now, I know I will become gold soon but please the flame is too hot, it is really burning the happiness I may enjoy later away, can it be reduced, please. So that my happiness may be true and not fake. I face the difficulty that seems beyond me but I won't give up. I will be happy, with time everything will be fine. All thank to the get sponsor group, always supporting good authors, join us to get sponsored. Here is link to the group. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b I expect to see you soon. The J&S reward group, you were the first to reward me here, for that I am immensely grateful. https://read.cash/c/js-posting-rewards-be00 Thank you so much my good friends @Ashma @Tunuu and to my sponsors, they believed in me, I am so glad. I appreciate your sponsorship @Dreamer and @MisterWrite

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

How well do you treat yourself. Let's talk about you. You have been so caring and loving that all you think and talk about is others, how to treat him/her right, how to make others happy forgetting the key factor which is you. Don't you know it's good to be selfish sometimes? Yes once in a while, think about yourself, give yourself some treat, pet yourself, show yourself some quality love like you do to others, praise yourself because after everything all you have got is yourself.  Everyone may desert you not yourself, you are stuck to yourself, loving and caring for others is very fantastic but in the cause of doing that, never lose yourself. That flaw that makes you wish to be someone else, love and accept it. No one understands you, knows your pain and happiness more than yourself, think about yourself sometimes. Are you giving yourself the attention you deserve or have you lost yourself in pursuit of happiness and love forgetting that true love comes from within? Show love and compassion to humanity, treat every human with kindness and great care, are you not part of the humans to be treated with great care? The therapy should start from you, charity they say begins at home. Care for yourself both inward and outward. Maintain good personal hygiene as well as peace of mind and true happiness, I am selfish sometimes and proud of that, unapologetic.  Your good deeds towards others count, you're humanely attitudes to others matters but if you neglect yourself, you won't truly be happy. Selflessness doesn't mean neglecting yourself, rather placing others before you but in the end, you still take care of yourself. Even the people you care about will despise you if you disregard yourself. Don't forget to subscribe to me for more quality articles. The get sponsor group are willing and eager to sponsor you if you are good author, you can join us through this link. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b @Ashma thanks for your support. Thank you so much the job and simple task group for being the first group to ever reward me. @Tunuu @Dreamer and @MisterWrite I appreciate you all.

@Ladyv28 6 August 2020

Today I want to celebrate a virtuous woman, a good lady with a good heart. Her generosity is incomparable. I can't say much but I just want you to join me in wishing @Mila a happy birthday, it is her day and she has decided to do a giveaway for everyone, now you know why I called her generous. Like I said the contest is for everyone so join us as we celebrate her. Link to the contest. https://read.cash/@Mila/70bch-giveaway-4d245739. The prize to win is much, $70 just a simple task required. Don't be left out. See you at the contest

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

I feel so happy right now, for the first time since one week I joined the platform I got up to100 points, I know to some people it is too small but to me, it is a great achievement. I can't keep the joy I feel to myself. Now I feel more motivated, I am literally dancing right now. Thanks to everyone that pushed me to keep engaging in the platform, my true friends @Ashma, @Tunuu and my sponsor and friend too @Dreamer, I wouldn't have achieved this without your support. Thank you @Misterwrite. Despise not the days of little beginning, this is my little beginning and I cherish it so much. Thank you all!

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

You loved the wrong person You are sad not because he was truthful, you are sad because you were too susceptible, letting down your guard was the worst mistake, overlooking all the signs even when they were too obvious was your crime, now broken and shattered like glasses smatched to the floor. What were you thinking, that it will ever be true? No, you knew from the unset that you were never the one, you have always been a spare yet you stayed hoping one day he will come around, who is feeding you with those lies. I can't blame you for letting it happen, you tried not to let your heart sink so deep, now it has been spat on. Poor you. Strength is not just by saying, it is by showing, where is your proof of vitality, you are too lenient after all, made yourself a test tube a tool for recovery over a heartbreak, an experiment to get over the pain from the main chick, shame on to you I must say, for walking into your doom eyes open. Should I laugh at you now, or say I warned you, against the fire you were igniting inside you, no I won't because you are my best friend, your pain is mine as well so I will lend a shoulder for you to cry on. Crawl out of your shell my dear, don't feel so embarrassed and broken, we all pass through that at least once in a lifetime, some twice or more. You the crusher, you said you were trying to love her, don't try to reciprocate anymore, you don't try to love, it flows from the heart. If it's not there it can't be unless it grew on its own. The little time you spent with her was so special to her, I can see that from the grim she always wear each time she talks about you, but it has to end now. Let her serve her punishment of falling for you, I know with time she will stop. She falls for the wrong person and now she is heartbroken, you broke her without mercy. You acted like a monster that sucks blood without remorse, sucked away her happiness now she is empty and pained. Thanks to the get sponsor group for always promoting good articles, they are out to sponsor good authors. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b @Ashma congratulations dear on your new appointment. Thanks to my sponsors @Dreamer and @MisterWrite, I appreciate your love and concern. I hope never to disappoint you.

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

My crush Is like yesterday was about sharing funny experience, my friends started a competition about funny experience, well here is mine but please don't laugh at me as my friends did, this is my true story.🙈🙈🙈 There is this guy I admire so much in our neighbourhood, he is so handsome and gentle, well I wasn't the only one crushing on him most of the ladies in my area do. This dude drives me crazy but the worst part, he doesn't have time for me, he never noticed me, I could remember wearing full make to get his attention. while he was playing a game with his friends, just to get his attention I walked to and fro like five times past his presence, still, he didn't look at me, even when his friends tried talking to me and I was playing hard to get, he wasn't moved, his friends asked him to shoot his shot but he blatantly refused, saying he wasn't interested. On hearing that I felt so ashamed of myself, well that was not the first embarrassment I had received from him. Fast forward to Sunday, it was my friends birthday party, the room was so stuffed we decided to stay outside to have our normal chit chat, abruptly we saw a figure walking up to us, lo and behold he was the one. Emeka, my only crush. I was beaming and blushing at the same time, I started adjusting my dress, touching my hair to make sure I look good, everything should be in a perfect state for I can't let this opportunity pass me by, that was my thoughts. Hello, Ladies Emeka greeted as he walked up to us. Still smiling, Hi I responded, expecting him to start a conversation with me or probably ask me out, he never did instead he walked up to my friend and asked for her contact. I was so embarrassed, I wished the ground should swallow me because the shame was too much. My friend Lizzy noticed, she started laughingp at me, I had no option but to shamefully go home, I was laying abuses on Emeka in my mind because despite everything I still like him. I came back moody and almost crying, went straight to my room wearing my headset, played cool blues, then slept off. A few hours later, a call woke me up, I was so reluctant to pick up, most of my friends knew I don't pick late night calls so I was wondering who could be calling me at that odd hour, the caller kept calling for several times, I had to pick up to warn the person. Hello, who is this calling me at this hour? I retorted Hello, sorry to disturb you, I am Emeka your neighbour. On hearing this, my heart skipped, I felt bubbles in my stomach, I was so happy that he called even though I knew I never gave him my number but I had to comport myself at least to know the reason for his call. Emeka why are you calling me by this time and who gave you my contact, I enquired in a gentle tone. I am sorry but I couldn't sleep, you have occupied my thought. I like you a lot, for long I have been having this feeling but I never summoned the courage to tell you, yesterday I came to you with the motive to tell you how I feel but on seeing you I lost that confidence, so I decided to ask for your friends contact so I can get your contact through her. he explained Please don't be angry with her, she refused to give me your contact but I had to convince her that my intentions towards you are genuine. Pardon my drawback, I am actually the shy type and I like you a lot, I will definitely miss words if I had done this one on one, he continued Ok, I have heard you I was sleeping when your call came in, I need to go back to sleep now please, you can call me, I pretended to be so sleepy Ok dear, sorry once more and do have a sweet dream, good night Wow, I I couldn't believe it, he actually likes me and I like him too, yeaaaaaa I can't wait for daybreak, should I call him again no let me wait, from tomorrow I will become Emeka's girlfriend, wow! I was laughing, then I felt a tap on my leg, I opened my eyes. Aunty why are you laughing while sleeping my little niece asked Oh my goodness! it was a dream, 😞😞😞😞. For more interesting articles subscribe to me. Thanks to the get sponsor group, join the group to get sponsored and rewarded for your activities on the platform https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b @Ashma thank you.

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

Was it really the nightgown's fault? Richard had come to visit me and Rita too, he couldn't go back to his lodge because it was raining heavily and I had no umbrella, besides my area is always flooded It is already late and everywhere is flooded, can I pass the night here please, said, Richard. I was angry because I knew Richard passing the night at my house is not proper, he is my friend but you can't keep yam and goat together, the goat will definitely devour the yam. Anyway we are two and he has been asking me out since our first year, I believe, he will behave himself at least to get on my good book, that was my thought. Ok you can stay but you will have to manage the floor, I and Rita will sleep on the bed, I replied It's ok, I am comfortable with the floor. Good night. He laid down on the floor covering himself with wrapper I gave him. I hardly sleep on time though the weather was chilly inside was stuffy, I stepped outside for fresh air, I was surprised when I came in seeing Richard kneeling by the bedside talking to Rita who was fast asleep. Baby, you look sexy on this nightgown, it's so revealing and I love that, see how it matches your skin colour, can I feel it? I mean no harm, just like the gown. Please don't misunderstand me, I am not asking us to do anything bad but you know I have always loved you, seeing this your sexy nightgown has awakened the little rascal in me, let me have a feel of the nightgown, please I stood at the door watching him make a fool of himself, as he was about touching Rita's dress I called his name, he was startled. Instantly he started apologising, sorry. It's not what you think. I wonder if he knew what I was thinking, I was so surprised seeing that side of Richard, was it really the nightgown that pushed him or has he been a monster all this while and I never knew? The nightgown was not the problem, his inability to control his libido was the problem. I am sorry I am not bad, it was the nightgown that triggered my hormones, I will sleep outside but please forgive me, he kept on begging. You don't have to sleep outside, you should sleep here, I and Rita will sleep with the lady next door, I responded It was the nightgown, I am not bad. I am sorry, he maintained. Now my question, can nightgown push you into touching someone who was sleeping? Was it really the nightgown's fault or the beast in Richard taught it was right time to manifest. For sponsorship, join the get sponsor group, they sponsor good authors. Don't be left out. Join us via this link https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b One of the good people behind my zeal to write well @Ashma I appreciate.

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

Attractions Attraction according to the dictionary is a quality or feature that invoke interest liking or desire it can also be seen as the power of summoning attention or fondness for someone or something. Many things can attract you to someone or something, but for now, let's talk about what attracts you to the opposite sex. For you to be friendly with an opposite-sex something must have ignited that friendship, something fascinating about the person, it could be dressing, way of talking, the attitude displayed at the moment, physical appearance and many other things. Many things attract me to the opposite sex, physical appearance like dressing smart. I love guys that know what to wear and how to wear them, guys that know their colour combination and always appear neat, with the beard well treated, I can't overlook such guy🙈🙈🙈 Again your sense of reasoning, how you talk and the words you use. I can't be friends with a guy that talks trash always, someone that can't bring up a good suggestion or contribute positively. Your belief or faith, I am not too religious but I love my maker so much and guys that share in that ideology always swift me off my feet, when I say believe I don't mean your religion I mean you believing in the existence of Almighty and acting in accordance to his words. Good sense of humour Guys with a good sense of humour attracts me so much because I love to be happy always, I am not the over serious type, I play a lot and would like my guy to be playful too so it can work between us. These are the few things that draw me to a guy before I start to evaluate your character and other things that make a friendship work. Now, what draws you to the opposite sex, let's discuss. Don't forget to subscribe to me for more interesting articles The get sponsor group are out to sponsor you if you are a good author, take advantage of this opportunity. Join the group through. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thanks to @Ashma for his encouragement. @Dreamer and @Tunuu you are my backbone here, love you guys.

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

Lies of love Your name is the recurring tone I always hear, know nothing about time anymore as I am buried under my pillow with my own tears. Wailing is now my new order, the poor twinkle spirit is now down and ran over by the speed of your lie. Can it ever rise again? oh! poor thing, no harm to you is what I meant but your dark breath has become so darkened so much that nothing is there to feel. On the mountains of destitute, I stood to shout out to you more than my lips can carry yet I kept calling. Though we felt the same way, why to bring her over when you have had me over and again.  Night watch is my new occupation as I count the thick of time trying to place where I went wrong, what was my offence Do I even know what I am doing, no! I just let my hand play with the ink, I watch it dance on papers making no meaning cause you took my brain box. You first professed to me, now it is a mirage, pain to look back on and learn. Yes, you have taught me the true meaning of nothing is constant except change, not even you undying lies of love. I am not sad, no I can't be because now the pain is too vivid that I can face it and overcome it at once. So crummy and notorious now that the pretty face you once favoured is now devoured by the rage in your tongue. Thank you @Dreamer and @Tunuu for your support and good words.

@Ladyv28 5 August 2020

Black not just a colour Black is beautiful, it is not just a colour but an attitude, the confidence to let the mind go blank and all bad memories fade away retaining just the good ones, that is black. Signifies blindness to a fault, never take notice of flaws, love with a whole heart and accept others irrespective of their shortcomings, that is loving in black attitude. Never take wrongs to heart because it is too black for the eyes, black nature never gets caught up in the dark, it is darkness itself, it is feared and respected cause it bears so many sorrows than you can imagine and still stand strong. Black never get a dent because it is too black to notice a dent and dent free. The complexion black may not be too showy to the eyes but beauty radiates in black, it rare and always appreciated when seen, ebony as often used to depict black is firmly textured and has a mirror finish when polished, making it valuable as ornamental wood, this is why black is beautiful. Black comes with courage and confidence, gives you the energy to move on, I am black not in the race but black in attitude because there's no black or white race in my eyes, all I see is the human race. Black mindset suggests creativity, designing your own path to greatness, shoving off restrictions that tie you at a spot, exploring your world in your own way, black personality pushes through a dark part of no hope, then bring hope and life to it, overcoming its insurmountable obstacles. The pain they say is like crossing a monkey bar, to move forward you must let go, black motivates you to let go cause black is blind to pain. If you are a good author and wishes to be sponsored then join the get sponsor group, they are out to sponsor you and reward your activities. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thanks to a good a friend @Ashma, always supportive. Thank you @Tunuu and @Dreamer can't talk about my supporters without mentioning you guys, you have always been so helpful. I appreciate You gave me my first reward for good article, Gracias https://read.cash/c/js-posting-rewards-be00

@Ladyv28 4 August 2020

Sex education in young adults Most African countries regard talking about sex as taboo yet sex education  is in all likelihood the most beneficial intervention by which young people can protect themselves against abuse, exploitation, unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted infection (STI) and HIV The reason most people can't talk about sex or discuss sex with young adults is their inability to relate with those young adults and lack of right words to use. Programmes on promoting sex education should be introduced in some rural areas to teach them the rudiments and importance of sex education Sex education can be defined as the purveying of concise and vital information about the anatomy, physiology and psychology of sex, and connecting this to practical issues that normally affect adolescents, like contraception, abortion and Sexually transmitted infection.  Sex education for children is rarely done openly in almost every culture, especially in Africa and others.  Sexuality education carried out within a safe and conducive learning environment and alongside access to health services has a positive and long effect on the health and wellness of young adults. Several studies have shown that the introduction of sexuality education schemes can help to curb the high occurrences of teenage pregnancies, abortion and lower the rates of sexually transmitted infection and HIV infection among young people. ​ Surprisingly sex education increases confidence and strengthening skills to deal with different challenges,  it can empower young people to develop stronger and more meaningful relationships. Societal views, norms and gender discrimination affect the expression of sexuality and sexual behaviour in young adults. Now, what is your take on sex education in young adults, let's discuss via comment. If you wish to get sponsored, then join the get sponsor group. They encourage good articles and your activities online https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you so much @Ashma for always encouraging us.

@Ladyv28 4 August 2020

Flowers Flowers are part of natures beauty, they are mostly used for beautification but research has proven that they have other values too apart from beautification. Adding Flowers to your house relief stress and anxiety making you feel more relaxed. Flowers boost your memory especially among advanced people, they also represent love, a gift of flower signifies affection and ignites love between two souls. Some medicinal flowers. Some Flowers are therapeutic too, they can aid in treating some disease. Orchid is one of three largest of flowering plants, they are monocot. They can be used in treating Malaria, Tuberculosis and cuts. Dendrobium is a part of the orchid flower, it is a source of astringent and inflammatory substances. Rose is among the most beautiful flowers and highly medicinal too, it contains Vitamin C, the petals can be eaten raw. Rose tea acts as a mild laxative. Plum flowers are mostly used in China, they can relief cancer pain and free the body from parasites, also boost digestion. Sun flowers relief menstrual cramp. Thanks to get sponsor group, for their support, if you need sponsorship join the group https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you @Ashma for your help.

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@Ladyv28 4 August 2020

Never call for a pity party Most times we feel so down due to challenges or life circumstances, at a point like this we feel like giving up, and this pushes us to talk to people about our predicament. The reason for sharing our problems with friends most time is to lighten the burden in our heart because a problem shared is half solved, at least that's what we believe but sometimes a problem shared is not half solved rather it is broadcasted and this can increase your distress. At times when we share our problems, all we get is a pity, and no solution to the problem, yes pity sorts the heart at that moment but does it take the problem away? no. So why call for pity party when it can't solve any problem. Your problem will always remain your problem unless you get a solution to it, it goes nowhere. Sharing your problems with people who you know have no solutions to it is just calling for a pity party, it's nice to share your problems but be mindful of who you share your problems with, don't be too fast in letting people into your personal life, if not one day they may use it against you. When you are faced with difficulties, learn to find courage in yourself, always tell yourself*I can do it, I will scale through* the best encouragement is one you give to yourself. Always believe that problem beyond you, will not befall you, any problem you encounter in life, you are bigger than that problem, just relax your mind first, scan through your mind to know if your problem, is from you, this will help you get a solution fast, the solution to every problem starts with identifying that problem, after identifying the problem seek for a solution from people who can help not people who will only throw a pity party for you. Be strong and believe in yourself, most people you share your problems with, you are better than them and some may not help out, meet a professional counsellor if you need one. If you are a good writer and need sponsor, then join the get sponsor group https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you @Ashma, your effort in promoting good articles is highly appreciated

@Ladyv28 4 August 2020

Allegation It's about a lady by name Eve, She was heavily pregnant almost due for delivery but her husband had no job. He graduated from the University 7years ago with good grade still couldn't find a job for himself. One day he went job hunting and luckily he got one, the manager had told him to start work the next day, he was so excited as he left the office. Went to the inlaws shop(his wife's sister) to share the good news The inlaw has been the one helping them since he had no job, as usual, she gave him 10k for their weekly upkeep. The joy was too much for him as he was literally jumping up on his way home. He bumped into one woman Mama Chike who was standing at a job bargaining price with the shop owner. Who is that mad man that can't see properly, Mama Chike angrily asked as Femi jolted? I am sorry Mam Femi apologized and went his way. Don't mind him said the shop owner, that's how they behave, thieves! They will intentionally bump into you and take your money without you noticing, Madam better checks for your money. On hearing that mama Chika dipped into her bag to check her money to her greatest dismay the money is gone. I said it, the job owner added, run after him now before he gets away. Thief! Thief!! They started shouting as mama Chika ran after Femi Femi who had no idea what was coming after he was already at the bus stop waiting for a cab as he gists with a friend he met at the bus stop, a youth cop. They were still talking when Mama chike ran up to Femi and started calling him thief Femi tried to free from her but she grabbed him by the waist as people gathered, they asked how much was her money, she replied, 10 thousand Naira. Femi was searched and 10 thousand Naira was found on him. The tugs in the market got so angry with Femi and started beating him as if the beating wasn't enough they set him ablaze without investigation. Before they burnt him alive Femi was calling on the cop member to rescuee him but the cop couldn't do anything, the tugs were so determined that they didn't even give anyone a chance to try to alleviate them. Few minutes after the incident, mama chike's daughter ran from home handed wrapped money to the mother, this is your money mother, dad said I should return it to you, he took it from your bag before you left to the market. On hearing this, mama chike broke into tears, she has killed an innocent man, how can she make up for that costly mistake. She was so angry with herself and her husband so she went home to confront the husband and tell him what his reckless action caused. On her way to her house, our light went off. Well, it was a movie, I was crying already, checked the time it's already 2:30a am Nigerian time. Thank you so much, my good friends, @Dreamer and @Tunuu you encourage me to do better.

@Ladyv28 4 August 2020

Special moment of my life Special moments of my life, I have many special moments, ranging from, when I performed well in school, my scholarships moment, romantic moment 🙈🙈🙈🙈 not what you are thinking, this one is innocent romance. Haha anyway, for now, I will tell you how I started my course of study, the day my mum consented to my second dream course after what seemed like war, to be my most special moment. Me studying my second dream was like winning a battle, my mother never accepted my dream course, she had wanted me to study law which I refused, well not like I blatantly said no to her, I can't try that, I skillfully dodged the course. After writing my WAEC(West African Examination Council), my mother purchased my jamb (Joint admission Matriculation Board) form, she really wanted me to study law but after the exam, I did a change of course without her consent, it was few days to PUME(Post Unified Matriculation Examination) that she got the idea of what I did, to punish me she stopped me from writing the PUME, I had to stay an extra year at home as my punishment. My mother had wanted me to obtain my first degree at a young age so that I can at least have a career before changing status, so for her to keep me at home for one full year means she was really angry with me, I never knew she will take it that way, I thought she will just scold me and allow me to do the course I chose but I was wrong. After serving my one-year punishment, she purchased another jamb for me, this time I didn't change the course but I did something else. I had scored high in jamb but I really don't want to study law, so when it was time to write PUME(Post University Matriculation Examination), I manipulated my result, I didn't finish my questions I just answered few questions and submit. Then I went home crying, I told my mother my system hung so I couldn't finish my question. She was so sad but she consoled me not knowing I was the network that hung my system, God please 🙏forgive me. After the PUME drama, my mother didn't want me to stay another year at home so she purchased JUPEB(Joint University Matriculation Examination Board) form for me, the program was like a Diploma, you study for one year then you will be admitted into the university as a direct entry student. After the program, I scored 12 points out of 15, I passed with distinction but I wasn't admitted into law, my mother did all she could all to no avail, I was given a different course. It was after the incident that is dune on her that maybe law isn't my destiny. One day she called me and asked me why I didn't want to study law, I told her I like to be in the entertainment industry, I know I can read law but it's not my passion, I don't have that heart to defend one person and condemn the other besides I am too emotional, if I should lose any case I may die, my conscience will never let me be. I will be feeling so guilty, she knew I was telling the truth. After our conversation she now said I can choose another course but not theatre and film studies, so because I love travelling and nature I decided to do tourism but in UNN(University of Nigeria Nsukka) we don't have tourism as a sole course, it goes with Archaeology, so that was how my journey as an Archeologist and Tourism operator began. Thank you. Note: All the exams I mentioned are what you will write and pass before gaining admission into any University in Nigeria. I hope you enjoyed my story, thank you. Thanks to the get sponsor group for promoting good articles, you can join us through this link https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b thank you once again @Ashma

@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

My first love My first love, I sincerely don't know what to write on this because my first love is not opposite sex, she is my pillar, mentor and role model, MY mother. I am so fond of her but I guess you will like to know my first love experience with another person other than my mother or siblings. My first love based on that, was my secondary school mate, yes I was really young then but I liked him a lot. Our friendship started as war at first, I joined the school shortly after him and this made us two new students, husband and wife as our classmates used to call us. This tagging instead of uniting us brought rift, we always fight over little issues, he will always try to show his strength and me on the other hand, I don't give in to intimidation. Our war continued until it started transforming to likeness, I wouldn't say one particular thing that instigated that but we both realized we are liking each other. I would fall really sick each time he is not in school, because we have always been called a couple, it wasn't hard for other class members to accept the new development. I remembered him writing a note to me telling me he loved me, I was so ashamed to read the note but happy too, that was the best letter I had ever received, I had a phone then and he did too but he said he wanted me to know how serious he was that's why he wrote it on a paper. The note became my most treasured, I would keep it under my pillow, inside my pocket, in between my notebook, in fact, I took it everywhere with me.🙈🙈 We always gist laugh and play together, even the teachers called us a couple, then our relationship was so innocent, no form of impunity, I know you understand what I mean. My parents knew him, in fact, he was a regular visitor. Mother will always tell us to read so our meeting at home was always to do one schoolwork or the other. Our love continued to blossom until I changed class, I had jumped classes to write my SSCE( Senior Secondly Certificate Examination) this made him so angry. He was angry I was going to leave him well I did. He became aggressive unlike him, at every point he would remind me of my age, telling me my mother was pushing me to write SSCE before my mates even though I was one of the youngest in class then.  Coming from him, this really got me so angry then I decided to quit the relationship. I wrote him a letter to tell him it's over, I gave the letter to one of his friends, as they were going home reading the letter my English teacher saw them and collected the letter from him. Our English teacher was a young lady who always encourages us to be serious with studies and she has always applaud us, I was one of the best then but this never meant anything to her, she will always tell me taking the first position in the class is not all that matters, what you have inside you is what your employee wants not what is written in your certificate. Back to the letter issue, the next day I couldn't go to school in fact for days I didn't go to school because I was afraid she may call us out. Inside me I was lonely and scared too, I told my mother about it she laughed and asked me to go to school the next day. I went and my worst fears happened, she did call us out but not to the assembly ground but to the staff room, there we were interrogated. After the whole question and answer, we were set free, then the real issue started. I couldn't overlook him and he too was all over me, we became cat and dog again, love squabbles I guess. Lol. We couldn't keep up the pretence so we reconciled then I was writing the SSCE already and he was helping me a lot, we studied together. After my exam, I left the city, we lost contact and that was how everything died off. Well, I saw him so time ago but we have outgrown that love story, although we are still friends now. We always laugh over our stupidity then.  But our love then was the best, no room for unnecessary jealousy, we were soo free with each other. I missed that special feeling. All thanks to the get sponsor group for their love and support, if you wish to get sponsored, you should join us through this link https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you @Ashma you are always supportive.

@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

A freewrite prompt words Dream, Dark, Terrify and Silent It was around 12:00 am African time, everywhere was silent and deserted due to the lockdown saga, no one has visited the warehouse or the shop, not even the security men they were on a break too, then came a mighty wind from the market, it was so heavy that objects were moving both the heavy ones. We live close to the market so the scene was so clear to me, even though it was dark. I was deeply asleep when it all started, the sound of the moving objects awaken me, stepping towards the balcony to have a closer look of what was happening, lo and behold a strange man dressed in all red garment, his head was covered with bloody crown and on his hands two hearts dripping with blood, his face was fierce and blood gushing out of his mouth. He stood there motionless staring at the open Street, the sight was so terrifying but I needed to know what he was up to, so I watched him without uttering a word. He stretched out his hand, then a little baby appeared on his hands, he pierced open the heart of the little baby and brought out the heart, break the babies head and drank his blood through the open neck, at this time I couldn't look again, then I ran inside to call my mother, on getting inside he was right there hysterically and no one could see him except me, I let a loud cry that shook the whole house. Vera my mother called, why are you shouting in your dreams, I opened my eyes. Then I made a relief sight, thank goodness it was a dream. That was my dream after watching a horror movie, the ghost. This is my entry to the giveaway contest organized by @Jdine to the Thriller/Horror Stories community, you can join the community through this link https://read.cash/c/thrillerhorror-stories-dc61 If you wish to join the contest you are most welcome, here is link to the contest https://read.cash/@Jdine/birth-month-giveaway-ff9300e5

@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

Be yourself *One thing life has taught me since my years of existence is to be me, yes to be me in my original form, to be me in my pure and undiluted way.* *Endorphins (the happy hormone) is always triggered in my brain that is why you see me laugh often, after all, I am still me* *I can be stubborn sometimes, weak sometimes (because I am human) but I never let my weakness take over me, I always find that courage inside me, the courage that shoves off every downward attitude because I am me* *Now let's talk about you, who are you? Are you still you or have you become duplicate of different personalities? Imitation can be so tiring you know. You try to copy Mr A's walking step, try to copy Mr B's accent, coy Mr C that and that, you keep making photocopies until you become a duplicate. Now, where is your original? Where is that unique, different and special being that God created?* *I am not saying you shouldn't copy others, yes I am saying you shouldn't copy rather emulate good things and add to the original you.* *You are special, so be around people who appreciate that, remember you can never fly if you keep being around people that constantly pluck your wings. Surround yourself with people who value the real you, people who see you as the best, not those ones that will keep complaining about everything in you.* *I am LadyV, it can only be one me on Earth, any other LadyV is a different LadyV, same thing with you. Any other you is a different you, not you.* Thank you for the get sponsor group, if you are a good writer and need a sponsor, join the get sponsor group https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b Thank you always @Ashma

@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

Train Your child the right way There are some things parents do in the cause of raising kids that can affect the child negatively in future. In everything you do as a parent always remember your children will definitely emulate most of your characters. They learn by what they hear and see their parents do.  **Control your anger** When dealing with children, the attitude you display matters a lot. A child raised under constant fighting and quarrelling tends to be aggressive as an adult. Children are so delicate and can easily be influenced by negative actions, avoid violence as much as possible if you wish to raise a peaceful child. **No to abusive words.** you don't have to call child names while correcting that child, apart from damaging their self-esteem it can make the child develop hatred for you in future. Again, you will raise a disrespectful child when you keep using abusive words. **Correct the right way.** Know when to beat a child and when not to. The constant beating of a child can make the child rebellious. Often times children misbehave, it's part of growing up, they are curious and like to try new things, sometimes they want to do things their own way, because they feel they have grown it's all part of childhood. Learn to discipline them the right way, know the punishment that best suits your child. Not every child learn by beating, some get so used to it that it doesn't have an effect on them anymore. Words sink deeper in some children. **Never instigate a child to lie.** Parents are often guilty of this, you don't want to talk to someone in a way to discharge the person you will instruct your child to lie for you. You are indirectly sewing seed of lie in that child, soon he/she will start seeing lies as reasonable. Thank you so much @Dreamer and @Tunuu I appreciate your encouraging words.

@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

Train the boy child too WHO IS TEACHING THE BOY CHILD  ​​​Often times we forget that the boy child needs to be educated, nurtured and cultured too, that for the world to be a better place both genders should be properly educated on morals and normal etiquette. The boy child we fail to educate and train today turns out to be the rapist and constituting a nuisance, tomorrow.  Today, we are where our mothers used to be and we are repeating history. Teaching our girls to be ladies, wives, mothers, while we left the boy child to behave anyhow. We often teach the girl child how to run the house, from infants. We teach them how to take care of their toys, bath them and treat them like real babies because we want them to learn how to care for babies as future mothers, But who is teaching the boys. Who is teaching them to be good men, gentlemen, husbands, fathers? A  properly raised lady meets a badly raised man in marriage. That marriage is dead on arrival. A girl was practically raised learning how to keep a home and submit to her husband. But who helped raise a boy teaching him how to love his wife and earn respect and submission? Who is raising the boys to know that it is okay to enter the kitchen and cook for his wife and kids? Who is teaching them that they can also make their beds? Do their laundry?  Who is teaching them about dignity in labour, that being a man is not a title but a duty, that it is not cast in stone for them to be served on the dining table and it's not a taboo for them to clear their dishes after a meal? That they should wake up at dawn like the girls do and clean the car or do some other house chores as well, they can cook for the family, sweep the house and can do the groceries?  Who is teaching them to be gentle and kind and not show their strength when it's not needed? Who is teaching them how to control themselves and have self-respect? Do you think females are the only ones that need to be decent? Groom your boy child today, let him know how to take responsibility, and teach him how to respect and adore a woman. We always focus only on the girls leaving the boys to grow into tyrants. Time to groom your boy child is now, set part for him to follow. Many thanks to the get sponsor group, they are always available to sponsor and support good authors, you can join us through this link. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b My gratitude will always go to @Ashma for his support always.

@Ladyv28 2 August 2020

Little knowledge about BCH Bitcoin Cash is a cryptocurrency that is a fork of Bitcoin. Fork in crypto means, situation that "occurs when two or more blocks have the same block height, they split, this means that Bitcoin cash is a subsidiary of bitcoin Bitcoin Cash is an altcoin that was created in 2017. In 2018 Bitcoin Cash subsequently split into two cryptocurrencies: Bitcoin Cash, and Bitcoin SV. How was bitcoin cash created Bitcoin was created due to push by bitcoin activist, investors and entrepreneurs. This push by some to increase the block size met a resistance. Since its creation up to July 2017, Bitcoin users had maintained a common set of rules for the cryptocurrency. Ultimately, disagreement set in between these investors which led to a split and Bitcoin cash was created. Bitcoin cash is part of the top 5 crypto currencies, with the price rising fast. The supply limit for Bitcoin cash is 21,000 000 just like Bitcoin, this regulates Bitcoin cash mining and maintains its value. Bitcoin Cash is sometimes also referred to as cash. Just like other crypto currency, the price of Bitcoin varies, the more investors invest, the higher the value. This is my entry to the contest by @Arnavaria you can join the contest. Link to the contest https://read.cash/@Arnavaria/writing-contest-about-bch-08b2a780 #BCH.

@Ladyv28 2 August 2020

Hello everyone. This is LadyV28 Wishing you a happy new month It is a new month, a new beginning to do better, may this month bring us blessings and more breakthrough. . In everything you do, never cling to the past, let the past go with it's pain and the sweet memories be a consolation for you. Always remember you are unique and wonderfully made, never let anyone tell you otherwise, love yourself, only then can you love others because you can't offer what you don't have. No matter what you are passing through, never give up, always stay strong, remember time heals. These are my words to you for this new month, let's have a successful month. Please remember to like and subscribe to me, thank you as you do that. Thank you @Ashma and the get sponsor group https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b

@Ladyv28 2 August 2020

A Freewrite, prompt word: Sleep Hello everyone, This is LadyV28 Hope you are having a nice day Here with another freewrite SLEEP Suiting and relaxing are your beautiful hands, six hours per night is not always enough to have you. At each dawn, one feels so refreshed and rejuvenated after having you to their satisfaction. Most times we become enemies, especially those times I have a task at hand but even at that, I still miss your sweet touch. You are part of nature's element to make life less stressful and energetic Too much can destroy one's plan but lack of you leads to insomnia. Now I bet you know the beautiful lady I am referring to, always around when the body is down. can there be any who never had your company? N,o I don't think so, if there's, that fellow must be way too beyond six feet. My beautiful and smart lady, always hard to resist each time she pays a visit. Infants enjoy you more, they always answer your call every now and then. You are in enmity with sound, it always chases you away and keeps you far away from until you come with a strong force and pat a kiss on the chosen one. I could still hear mummy calling, Baby! "Go inside, it's time to pay homage to the beautiful lady of nature and remember to lock your door" I will hurriedly run inside and master my bed waiting for your caring touch. Oh! What could life be if your gift has not been gifted to us? I bet many will slump on duty because they are so weak and has no means of regaining strength. Are you still wondering who my pretty lady could be, well she is my beautiful SLEEP, yes, one of the best gifts nature has offered to us? So cheap but very expensive to the troubled mind. We can have it anything but the night is always it best time to visit. Give honour to whom honour is due, thank you my backbones, without your support, I wonder what my experience here will be @Dreamer and @Tunuu

@Ladyv28 1 August 2020

Free write. prompt words: life is confusing, crazy, took pick on the coconut I am like the white cat that is humble and defensive at the same time, I protect my heart with Virgo that even toothpick on coconut can penetrate deeper than my heart.  I have made it so strong like iron because I know life is confusing. When you are hearth broken sleep will elude you and tears become your companion, who would want that. Crazy not me.  I am living on my own so no extra girt is needed to add more sorrows to already a sorrowful heart. Two varieties of options that life present us, that is to say, everything has the opposite.  You either love me or not it doesn't matter because you are making use of your varieties. Oh, what a great joy it is to be free from shackles, your shackles.  I can easily pen down these words because I am this strong, never think of me as weak even though the world called us weaker vessel. Hand me the pen to write down the confusing life I face, crazy thoughts keep popping up in and out of the tough mind, my bottled heart leaping open gradually just like took pick gradually penetrate the coconut. Thanks to get sponsor group, you can join us if you wish to be sponsored, @Ashma you are appreciated https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b My efforts in this platform is always supported by this group, for that I am grateful. https://read.cash/c/js-posting-rewards-be00 @Dreamer and @Tunuu I am happy for your support.