Train the boy child too
WHO IS TEACHING THE BOY CHILD Often times we forget that the boy child needs to be educated, nurtured and cultured too, that for the world to be a better place both genders should be properly educated on morals and normal etiquette. The boy child we fail to educate and train today turns out to be the rapist and constituting a nuisance, tomorrow. Today, we are where our mothers used to be and we are repeating history. Teaching our girls to be ladies, wives, mothers, while we left the boy child to behave anyhow. We often teach the girl child how to run the house, from infants. We teach them how to take care of their toys, bath them and treat them like real babies because we want them to learn how to care for babies as future mothers, But who is teaching the boys. Who is teaching them to be good men, gentlemen, husbands, fathers? A properly raised lady meets a badly raised man in marriage. That marriage is dead on arrival. A girl was practically raised learning how to keep a home and submit to her husband. But who helped raise a boy teaching him how to love his wife and earn respect and submission? Who is raising the boys to know that it is okay to enter the kitchen and cook for his wife and kids? Who is teaching them that they can also make their beds? Do their laundry? Who is teaching them about dignity in labour, that being a man is not a title but a duty, that it is not cast in stone for them to be served on the dining table and it's not a taboo for them to clear their dishes after a meal? That they should wake up at dawn like the girls do and clean the car or do some other house chores as well, they can cook for the family, sweep the house and can do the groceries? Who is teaching them to be gentle and kind and not show their strength when it's not needed? Who is teaching them how to control themselves and have self-respect? Do you think females are the only ones that need to be decent? Groom your boy child today, let him know how to take responsibility, and teach him how to respect and adore a woman. We always focus only on the girls leaving the boys to grow into tyrants. Time to groom your boy child is now, set part for him to follow. Many thanks to the get sponsor group, they are always available to sponsor and support good authors, you can join us through this link. https://read.cash/c/get-sponsored-2a0b My gratitude will always go to @Ashma for his support always.
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As a moderator: What a pity your text is disturbed by a sponsor block! It's really annoying and not the way an article should look like. I ask you to edit it and write all text above it. As for me: A very good subject and I always wonder who those mothers are who accept to be beaten up, scolded at, and humiliated by their sons. Why those mothers accept the bad behavior of their son towards their sisters, females. We have an expression: "to throw the child away with the bathtub water". If I see little boys behave this way I wonder why their mothers didn't throw these monsters away. It's hard to believe they love them and I do not believe one word of it if they say the kid/man is such a sweet boy, he would never do such a thing. A mother isn't blind or stupid she knows. With us, everyone is equal, too if it comes to house chores. All boys can cook, clean, sew, knit, and why not? These are all professions done by men. You hardly find women cooking in a first-class restaurant. I am open towards my children this includes violence, scam, cheating, rape, etc., ignoring and setting boundaries, fighting for your rights, equal rights. I told my kids if they ever rape someone they can forget it, if they ever harm someone I will do something to them they never forget. I am the one who put them into this world but I am the one who will kick them off too if necessary. Women who let themselves treat like a piece of shit by their own children do not deserve better. If you do not invest in raising, accept this is the result. This besides the bad examples fathers give. If this is the behavior you accept from your son you are a big failure. Perhaps special schools for these kinds of children are not a bad idea at all. Discipline and respect are just like not questioning but obeying taught. Some books are written about spoiled kids (this case wealthy girls) who were sent to a special "school" to learn to work for everything, being grateful instead of the big mouths. 👍
Thank you for your observations and correction, the truth is I don't really know how I put the sponsor block there, I thought it will go down but unfortunately I was wrong, I have tried removing the block but to no avail, then I let it be