@Ladyv28 3 August 2020

Train Your child the right way

There are some things parents do in the cause of raising kids that can affect the child negatively in future. In everything you do as a parent always remember your children will definitely emulate most of your characters. They learn by what they hear and see their parents do.  **Control your anger** When dealing with children, the attitude you display matters a lot. A child raised under constant fighting and quarrelling tends to be aggressive as an adult. Children are so delicate and can easily be influenced by negative actions, avoid violence as much as possible if you wish to raise a peaceful child. **No to abusive words.** you don't have to call child names while correcting that child, apart from damaging their self-esteem it can make the child develop hatred for you in future. Again, you will raise a disrespectful child when you keep using abusive words. **Correct the right way.** Know when to beat a child and when not to. The constant beating of a child can make the child rebellious. Often times children misbehave, it's part of growing up, they are curious and like to try new things, sometimes they want to do things their own way, because they feel they have grown it's all part of childhood. Learn to discipline them the right way, know the punishment that best suits your child. Not every child learn by beating, some get so used to it that it doesn't have an effect on them anymore. Words sink deeper in some children. **Never instigate a child to lie.** Parents are often guilty of this, you don't want to talk to someone in a way to discharge the person you will instruct your child to lie for you. You are indirectly sewing seed of lie in that child, soon he/she will start seeing lies as reasonable. Thank you so much @Dreamer and @Tunuu I appreciate your encouraging words.