Accepting the Good and the Bad to ourselves is somewhat remarkable that we possesed the good attributes as a human. In fact, in order to love ourselves or anyone else, we have to set our mind that we're imperfectly perfect.
We all know that some attributes or traits we would'nt have --rather we often choose not to accept.
Before we accept others as who they are, we should assure also that we need to accept ourselves first.
Being a shy person we tend to upset to ourselves that's why we are like this-- being shameful
I'm into like this being a shy person since then. I remember I'm not the type of person being socialized to others. There are times that I will stay only in the house for me to avoid people because I'm too shy. As a matter of fact, it is unhealthy! It's not healthy anymore being like this because its hard to approach every people surround you.
I learned that the more you feel shy in that certain situation the more you get the attention of others that you are not confident. I'm thankful that I already banished this things in my soul. Truly, We should possess CONFIDENT in every way.✨
Being easily get hurt that might so sensitive as being who we are-- I know it was so sensitive as what Mimosa pudica plant like
Honestly, This is me!
Sometimes I blame myself being into it. Why I easily get hurt? Why it makes my heart feel the pain automatically? I'm so sensitive for the small things even the smallest things! That's why brimming tears in my eyes will surely get there. I'm so mad about being easily get hurt because it putting me down as I am.
It seems like once you touch me, I might break. (Mimosa Pudica)
Being not so attractive.It doesn't mean that being not so attractive will make you ugly-- oh come on beauty is inside not the outside and of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Truth hurt! When I was high school I find myself that I was not like others that is so attractive. I find it not a typical girl that someone will admire my appearances. I feel like I'm not beautiful as what other girls. Sometimes I feel pity to myself that why I'm not gorgeous? why I don't have fair skin? Why I don't have any confident to myself? Why?
Seems like I'm too overthinker and curious about my outside look. I know it puts me down as what my mind so down. I always find it a mistake and tolerated my mindset that it is impossible to glow up and show up my own beauty.
These three things I find it BAD but then there was a GOOD hidden.
Shyness
It doesn't mean it is a bad thing already perhaps it is symbolizes that you have something in yourself that you can show up to others. In fact, you're just observing the surroundings on how you handle yourself that everyone will stare. You are in a process of building spirit of confident to yourself. Just hold on💪
Sensitive
It means you are probably tuned in into others feelings. To the point that you are providing a shoulder to cry on with your friends experiencing emotions. People who are sensitive usually have compassion and empathy for the people in need of listener.
Not so Attractive
It was just a puberty hits you. You find it not so beautiful because you yourself find it not so, it is only your mind control it. Accepting that your appearances is going through natural changes right now, and that your beauty problems probably won't last forever. You will glow up attractively!
Life is like a wheels, it will down and up; this is what makes life so full.
Accept the GOOD and the BAD because what bothers about yourself today may be what you like best about yourself tommorrow.
Accept and Love yourself!✨
Shyness, awkwardness and low self-esteem and confidence - I still struggle with those all the time :D