You know this quote about critiquing in private, there a lot of things people say behind you and work so hard to see you fail.. Why are you angry or why will people have that mindset of putting their friends or partners or colleagues and every other person down and its basically for no tangible reason.. Even if it is, do not absorb a lot, allow things slide.. You'll see a man get stabbed over something very small, so many things are happening outside these walls..
You see this happen in relationships, when you're not treated well and been disrespected and if you lost him or he lost you that isn't the right person for you.. You see this with colleagues, out of anger you create a lie just to ruin that person.. Like seriously what was the reason behind this.. I've met someone who told me that he wished another fellow worker dead and I was really trying to figure out why and the main reason behind that.. That's a wrong mentality, you should settle your differences and tell the person right away what he or she did that you don't like..
Seriously people need help, these are issues that needs to be treated immediately and urgently.. You hold on grieve too much that it consumes you to act too quickly. You love that person but still wish for a lot of chaos upon that person, as humans if we become too sensitive it will be later that we'd realize the intensity of what we've done..
As humans we have to learn to avoid being a danger to ourselves and to everyone around us, what if we are the toxic people and not the next person we tag as being toxic.. We read comments or articles and we focus on ruining that user, why not correct that person to be better next time than go ahead with a strike that sends that person packing.. Where you see a lot of people being hurt by either partners, family and even work mates, it will take the grace of God for the affected person to come off it.. The feeling of betrayal or been disrespected has created a stamp within..
The thing is what it shows, is that everyone shouldn't have this illusion of envy and hate.. Your purpose should be how to see that this person or that person can get better, we can be happy for the success of others.. We don't know the struggle towards it and if your believes aren't towards seeing someone get better or appreciate people who are better than us, that character of bashing of so many thoughts or destruction will never stop ringing in your head..
This is a message to be concerned about others, be at peace with helping people grow and even if they are above you still be happy for them.. the good things we do in life always attract a lot, and even for those who are doing better based off of our influence will look back and bless you as well..
You’d notice one significant thing with teachers, not just any kind but those that have a good heart towards the people they teach always want to see them doing well and even surpassing them.. that should be your new self towards others, be cheerful and caring and as we approach the month and season of giving feel free to bless a soul…
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November 2021
There are people who care about their personal welfare and use others to keep climbing, many of them will say they are friends, but that is far from reality. There are many others who continually make mistakes, but no matter how much you want to help, they will never correct those mistakes, on the contrary instead of thanking you for trying to help, they wish you would not show up.