“Think Before You Place Your Bet… Love series”

People need to be sure what they want, not just be with someone to hang out. They must speak clearly and put everything in order, in order to make a safe decision that will not fail.

Hmmm, as for me I don't really have a preference except the age, my man should be older than me. The looks? Anyone would be happy to have a bf with the good looks but for me, my heart is tge only one who'll decide that. If my heart beat for someone then he's the one. But off course if the feeling is not mutual then that's okay too. I will live. But really, I'm not ready for love as of thr moment. Crushes is what all I have right now.

yep... even before you get to know the person you should already know what's your intention and what you want from that person, need to have a clear intention of why you want to know the peron , what you can offer that person and what you can learn with that person

That's what I always tell people, they should always know the reason why they are entering into a relationship. If it isn't to get married I tell them to have a rethink.

When a man dates a woman, it's goal must be to marry her not just to stay like that but before anything else, know each others background and attitude first.

Dating should be taken seriously for me and not just out of boredom or fun. I date to marry not just for nothing. This is a very nice article king.

So this is a series post. I must have missed out on the first two. And to me dating is a No for me . Because partner selection goes beyond dating alone. I know of many that day for years but end up breaking up. That every put into dating should have been preserved and work towards selecting the best partner

The connection thing is really very pleasing and very enthralling to both the parties and of course compatibility is also very important and I think with connection comes also compatibility.

Many people's view of relationship is different, and I have to say that your own view is indeed worthy of imitation. No one should go into a relationship just to have fun and catch cruise, we know what the outcome will always be. If you are not ready, don't waste the other person's time, it isn't fair.

A lot of young people enter into relationship just to have fun knowing very well there won't be any commitment from their sides. You don't use another persons emotions for fun 😢

Love Doctor, you are right, if any relationship will last, connection has to take place, some call it feeling of butterflies, both parties need to feel the strong bond and that's what will keep them going whenever the wind of life blows on them. The most important think is to not rush things, let love come on its own accord. In that case, you won't go wrong . And when love happens stay true to it, so that it will end well and not be disastrous for you.

I want a trustworthy & loyal one. This is must for a beautiful relationship. People often go for face & money. In the end break up happens.

physical attraction for the person one loves is good, but it could fade off as time goes on. I have now come to the understanding that commitment makes relationship works. Love and understanding are also key factor in relationship. Good morning king.

Being in a relationship that is not leading to a real future or you know yourself that you don't plan for it to last forever, then that is a useless relationship and you'll be deceiving both sides.

Before looking out for an external partner, you have to be your own partner. Meaning that you have to be friends with your inner room mate. True love and understanding comes from loving and understanding yourself first.

Love sometimes comes unexpectedly. For me it is much better to wait for it rather than looking for someone to be a potential partner. And yeah, we don't need anyone's validation when it comes to a relationship. It is "you" who will be with your partner not them. So as long you love and understand each other it is okay. Good morning King.

Love start from attraction and it grows or fade when you know the person better. I met my partner now when I was 18 and until now we are still together, in the long run love isn't a feeling anymore but more of a commitment.