Few Introverts, too busy for relationship or looking for convenience, or desperately in need of someone... it makes it easier seriously, and you'll be surprised with the number of people that still do this.. It's a lot out there, the viscous, the manipulators, the genuine ones, a lot of individuals with different identities and motives..
So let me hear your stories, “have you falling too deeply with your online date?”... or was it a set up just to get something out of you, or just to sleep around without trying to know you better or having a decent communication with you. It goes both ways trust me, but you have to notice the obvious red flags..
We live in a very condescending world and it's all over the place with a lot of ulterior motives, and when you have a real communication with this person you will discover so many things that doesn't fit right. The benefit of online dating is with the buffet of people that you could see through whatever means you use, and for you to depict who is literally telling the truth from the pool you have to make some really lengthy observations and patterns..
“Do you still believe in the realities of online dating and do you believe a relationship can achieve a long term goal from this form of link or union?”.. its about the understanding, if you could make sure that you keep the communication and you maintain a constant voice or video calling or whatever be the case then that could really be it for you.. you can get to know each other very well but when you really love this person and you fantasize all day without getting the facts, just know your heart is in the mud already...
Personally for me I could never trust a lady I met off a dating app because behind my mind I'm always going to wonder if she still uses it or not.. So whenever we have a misunderstanding would you go back to searching for other dates online?”. would you consider me as being desperate then use me and dump me the next minute, these are things that go on up in my head... So I don't bother myself with that, if you aren't comfortable with meeting someone online then you don't need to go into it...
“What where you experience with your first online date, and was he or she perfect with the approach and with making you feel comfortable?”.. For real when you date online be ready to see a lot of character because you may never know who is coming online to stay right there with you..
But really you can meet a bad person online or offline, what you must focus on is discerning who is real from fake regardless of the platform... so a clear understanding of the ways in which you can tell when someone is lying is really needed..
“What kind of people have you met online?"
During your dates, what did you observe about this person?"
Have you been through ten in person dates and you still haven't gotten comfortable with this person, if you still need to give that a try then why not? But you should have a connection before closing up with this person..
I wouldn’t judge anyone on how you choose to be with whom you love or how you intend meeting, for you to claim he or she is special what where the basis for saying thy statement?” Have you studied this person closely and gone through maybe records, or ask questions or chatted not just through messages but seen the persons face.. past life, present life, future goals, your aspirations together, favorites and non favorites.
let me stop here cause I’m really trying to go deeper with my thoughts.. I was close to taking a nap when this topic came to me and I want you opinion too.. I could be wrong and a bit too intense likewise taking the wrong sides with this…
Have a lovely Sunday my dear friends…
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December 2021
Wow as I've done reading, I catched the attention when dating online it sounds like unsure type of relationship, but it's you who will control everything and beware of the possible may happen.