@King_Gozie
“Do You Always Have To Tell People When And How To Treat You Better?”
This is a question for you, do you only get attention when you let someone know you exist... when people aren’t giving you some gratitude it goes beyond being ungrateful, people who ignore or treat you worse even after putting in your effort are really not deserving of you and likewise you to them. That person is truly toxic to you, you’ve got to stay at a distance rather than having your life on the line then he or she calls it just anything.. Anyone can do that to you, then another picture of this... as a person do not force anything into anyone’s life that does not benefit them because everyone needs to elevate to the level you’re working on but if they choose not to then please that’s not a place for you.. you deserve respect, you deserve the love, and being who you are is your choice to make and no one should tell you not to be that. what I notice in this world is most people are greedy, most people are selfish and self centered and that’s what I realized, be honest with yourself look at this way.. as the blessings and glory doesn’t always come from man but from God.. so when you are honest in your service God sees your heart and he will reward you and give you blessings you did not even ask for. Because of how you are and because of the position where your heart is, you’d get even more than a usual payment or a recognition... and people who don’t see that are always wondering when you’ll confront them to get it. You don’t need to fight your way to be noticed, your hard work will always single you out by the right people... Telling people will only make you look desperate and seeking attention, but if you do that based on the fact that you both are in a relationship it may not really be the right kind of solution.. If he or she doesn’t see how brilliant and hard working you are, telling them wouldn’t change or solve anything... the first question you need to ask yourself, “Is the love still there? Sometimes you don’t even get back the love you give out, it’s already fading but still you give it your full 100 percent.. You can’t get far in life by an attitude of lack, everyone who sees what you do daily needs to have an attitude of gratitude at least.. I heard a story of a man who served his boss for a very long time faithfully, like ran errands gave concrete account and did supervision all through the many years he stayed with his boss and the promising year where he would be released to stand on his own he wasn’t appreciated well enough with the finances he needed to do that... so people don’t get to be better at you cause you served them better, that’s just the mentality of so many... but even regardless you are surviving without their impact on your life... Just saying two words ‘Thank you’ will go really far, you may not show love or receive love for doing what you do, but a little bit of appreciation is really deserving... If God can remember you when you serve him, and blesses you abundantly for that, anyone whom you force your affection on will only make you more unhappy because he is not the right person to be with. You worth more than the level they place you at, do not stop being amazing.. you will be recognized by even the people you’ve never had a communication with before... So cheer up and never stop.. After putting in much efforts, someone will still end up telling you to be more hard working at work.. What more energy do you want to add into it again, if you keep adding more and more it will still back fire as no one will notice that you’re trying.. so far it is only the deceptive and dishonest behaviors that are likely to get supported and rewarded it’s so hard... But to you, you hardly ever forget those that have contributed to help you... do not be weary as the right timing for your recognition will approach soon.. Thank you for reading through... this was meant to be published yesterday but I wasn’t feeling too fine to compete it.. I hope the little message will be passed across.. God bless you. `I won’t forget my awesome and amazing sponsors, without you all I wouldn’t have gone this far thank you..` ***November 2021***
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You don't always have to tell people. But some people are always reminded bro. But I also like your opinion. good writing mate.
Thank you… people who cherish your hardwork will always appreciate the efforts towards it…
King, I think I have particular people who know about me. So I don't need to remind them. But some people are so busy in their own vibes that we need to remind them who we are.
It’s fine but reminding them make us look desperate… we don’t need validation for our hard work… thank you
Whatever we do, good or bad, if someone doesn't like us he/she will critisize and hate us. But for me, it has a limit. If that someone go overboard with his/her words and actions that's the point where we should speak up.
Very true and many people take that for granted… they feel people do not need appreciation everything in life has a limit to what we can bare..
Oh, so sorry. How is your health now?
I’m getting much better thank you Prisca
"do not be weary in doing good for in due season you Shall reap it if you don't faint"...this is a good one. No one knows the date or calendar of visitation for our good deeds, continue doing it.
Exactly only God will make it right in due season.. humans will neglect but God wouldn’t.. he cares a lot for us
We don't need or always tell people , me? I understand that there are some of my companion who understands and knows we well. And I also understand that there are these people who cannot.
That’s the reality as there are still the kind ones that care about us.. there will always be that kind of people in our lives..
Some people didn't feel and appreciate the efforts we have. We have a lot of doubts and asking why. But there are some people appreciating me and knows me well. Just continue what we've started and pray to God. 🙏 God bless you sir Gozie.😇🙏
It’s bad how we work a lot and don’t a recognition.. there will always be some who care though and always commend our efforts.. God bless you JRamona 💛
Yes sir Gozie but no matter what happens just go on. We need to be positive always. Thank you so much Sir Gozie..❤️
We shouldn't force anyone to notice our attention or love us, our attitude and composure will speak for us. Most times what I do is the energy you give is what I will give cos I can't be the only one trying my effort in a relationship.
Original has spoken… 🙌 I love your approach.. both sides have to give equally or at least one party has to notice the efforts of the other.. I agree with you that it’s bad to force it on anyone…
My eyes Is pushing me 😅😅
Let it not push you too far bro 😂… love doctor of readcash I hail
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Let us all continue doing what is good even nobody sees it. Soon enough we will be appreciated and people who judge us will realize things. For I always believe that one day, I will shine.
That’s the truth.. one day All our efforts and the secret things we do will be notice. It’s just a matter of timing and patience
Relationship is about give and take. I believe the people who are really meant to be in your life needn't much effort from you. Those who truly value you will always show that they do.
Those that care will always do that… they will value us and appreciate our efforts
Sometimes I think is yet, if you think you deserve it. But most times is how you treat people that's the way they would treat you. Because if you treat them bad you won’t have any right to expect or demand a better treatment. It doesn’t mean you should get out of your comfort zone to treat someone really nicely [while they treat you badly]. Maintain your grace and dignity. Just because someone is treating you bad, you don’t need to reciprocate as long as you are not getting actually hurt. In that case, take a stand for yourself. But if you lose your grace, you would not be any better than them.
You are correct brother…I think the second part already answered it, its garbage in and out we expect more when we care more
You are right. You can only be responsible for yourself. You can't account for how people may or may not treat you. After all, people are bundle of possibilities. Plus,, expections are houses built on hopes. It's a good thing but it could be devastatingly crushing when things go south. Therefore, it is good to be ready for anything in life and people generally. Thank you for the wonderful words.
Thank you for your comment, and just like you’ve said people are endless outcomes and possibilities you can’t control, so it’s up to us to take a stance and determine what we want and not compromising in any way..
Yes exactly bro people won't treat you better just because you are a good person. The only reliable person is God. Nice article.
Truly God wouldn’t abandoned us thank you
You're welcome
Hope you are feeling better now. Rightly said we don't need to tell people to treat us right. If the other partner doesn't treat the other right in a relationship or business then something is wrong somewhere.
That’s true, there is no balance at all… I think he doesn’t or she doesn’t deserve you, because it’s going to be hard to appreciate anything.
Unfortunately many are like this today. They believe that they deserve it all and that the world revolves around them. Avoid these types of people.
You're absolutely right king, people nowadays are becoming too greedy and selfish and would only think for themselves and don't even appreciate someone even just for a little. That is why we should no longer expect someone to reciprocate what we felt to them because we are the only ones who will only end up having high hopes.
Very well said.. thank you for adding something beautiful to the topic.. we shouldn’t expect always to be given back the appreciation but rather we should keep encourage ourselves. At some point that person would realize how much work you have put in and regret everything done..
We always say, "love yourself" but this give negative effect to others. They became greedy and selfish, thinking about what is only best for them. Yes, it was sad but they still won't listen for what is good.
That's one thing I will never do; seek for attention. I get turned off by people that do that, they reek of desperation. If you know your worth, you don't have to tell anyone how to treat you better, just like how the sun doesn't need anybody's permission or invitation to shine
We don’t need that and I equally wouldn’t want to go ahead to seek for attention… our work should do that for us but when people don’t see the best in us then we must re-consider our options..
Certainly there are many malicious people, but we must also take into account the opposite, there is a totally different world of kind people, who are always encouraging you to keep fighting, they treat you with respect and admiration, this world that seems like a paradise is called Read.cash, we live it every day.
Our work always gets something here whether it’s small or big the same should happen in every aspect of life…
If some told me if I treat him better or not maybe. I would do that if she /he didn't satisfy my treat to them so they asking that. But when you hear that to someone who you treat well and he didn't satisfy maybe I will feel uncomfortable with that person and get my move to get away from him. 😅
We should do things because we like to do them. Not as sacrifices. In many opportunities we will only get scorn and no appreciation. So the best thing to do is to live happy in what we do.
Exactly… we just have to be happy regardless of people noticing or not… happiness is important, although we still have this feeling that we deserve some appreciation.. thank you
If it's my loved ones, yes I would love to tell them how to treat me better same as I will also ask them same.
that works pretty well and if it’s someone that you have a close relationship with… then it will be easier to create an understanding..
Oh, i love your article. You were right, no matter how hard we work, People will still keep on telling us to do more hard work,or work harder. I sometimes feel that my hard work isn't been appreciated but I don't ask them to appreciate me, because they saw it but they didn't appreciate me, so why should I ask and tell them that I'm worthy to be appreciated. I just worked hard until they learn to appreciate me..
People underestimate the power of a simple thank you. To be recognized and thanked just by those two words can be amazing to someone.