Inner Interview

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2 years ago

A lot of times people don't get it and we struggle with this and its a place where its hard to do something meaningful, for example look ourselves in the mirror and self evaluate on where we need to grow what we need to do, where we need to change and where we need to be different, this is truly the hardest thing to do in the world and so painful as well. But we have to realize that until we do that, we cannot get our heart desires and until we are willing to make that change we can't see any form of progress..

Do we operate in the place of complacency, anger, jealousy, depression, anxiety you need to ask yourself where you operate from and identify the roots of your feelings.. It takes sometime of just really being introspective and taking that time and not rushing your process, so take that time to be real with yourself its not easy. And when we don't have the ability to see ourselves from others but we can evaluate on ourselves and see where we always want to dominate in a discussion and we always want to be right, to see where we are negative or trying to cut to the chase saying so many direct and offensive words.. We can see where we ought to pull the switch sometimes and don't get too aggressive..

What you realize when you do this is that, you get close to your heart desires and when you are willing to grow and to change. When you identify why people don't like you and they be telling you the truth, you get to the root of it, uproot it and plant a new seed.. The necessity is building a new life network that is the best form of you. Changes are always uncomfortable and you can feel all of those things but please trust your work and process. When it comes down you change you can argue and go back and forth but it keeps you and I stuck to where we can't see the big picture by being a critique and a personal therapist.

So listen, start this process today.. Some of those things you heard may just be the truth and actually the same thing you call yourself but don't self in the lane for failure, that ain't Gods plan and that ain't supposed to be your final destination.. Prayer works, you see levels change and you be like why did I wait this long to do this work and make these changes for myself.. Let me be more practical, if you notice that the cycle you have don't support your change coz literally they will miss your old self, its time to block them and choose a new set of people..

What work Am I referring to? I have this crazy habit of not listening to anybody buy rather I want to always be right and nobody's idea was better.. So it might be just anything even as we all 'March' into a new month we all going to be different and a really positive one.. you can be sure to note the difference, we can’t all be perfect but even as God is we must always desire to be perfect..

Today has been a really blessed day and even though I made a very costly mistake It ended very well.. Hope you had a beautiful day?” In summary of everything here, the most important one for you and I is to stop this idea that when it’s time for me to leave these things it will all fade, it’s the wrong mentality coz even in your 30’s you will still say the same statement.. Start today and keep working till you completely overcome..

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February 27th, 2022

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When you self-assess, you become an active participant in your own evaluation. Your involvement enables you to honestly assess your strengths and also areas you need to improve. Self-evaluation also serves to increase commitment to goal setting/achievement, competency development, and career planning.

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It has always been one of my favorite quotes "an unexamined life ain't worth living". Self introspection and analysis is key to a well balanced and poised life

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2 years ago

Interesting! Nonchalancy is nothing but stupidity. What people say about us sometimes is what we are and we need to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves. We are confident in our character and behavior but how others see us matters

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2 years ago

I am very grateful to the officer's interview 3 years ago as it made me realised to see the inner self and improve where I needed to and keep on removing flaws where will I need to.

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2 years ago

You are right, brother. Actually the losers make excuses because if anyone want to do he will not make any excuse only those make excuses who don’t have capability to do it.

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2 years ago

There are times that we have to set our idea as the priority co'z after all whatever the result you can't blame others

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2 years ago

Self evaluation is essential for growth and refinement of character

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No way to delay and give excuses. This is the time and need the inspired mentality right now.

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We may not please others to like us. But if you wanted to have many people to like you all you gonna do is to be yourself. Love yourself so they love you truly.

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2 years ago

Evaluation of self but it needs to accept tje flaws

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2 years ago

There are flaws even if we try so hard to be perfect, but so many other things can still be inculcated in our lives to bring about the change

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2 years ago

We need to have a self reflection, know what needs to be changed and start taking those baby steps now

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2 years ago

Exactly, we mayst make the right decisions from today thank you Daria

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Were human it is normal to commit mistakes, just learned from it .

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Very true about learning a great deal from mistakes, each day we always get better

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