Inner Interview
A lot of times people don't get it and we struggle with this and its a place where its hard to do something meaningful, for example look ourselves in the mirror and self evaluate on where we need to grow what we need to do, where we need to change and where we need to be different, this is truly the hardest thing to do in the world and so painful as well. But we have to realize that until we do that, we cannot get our heart desires and until we are willing to make that change we can't see any form of progress..
Do we operate in the place of complacency, anger, jealousy, depression, anxiety you need to ask yourself where you operate from and identify the roots of your feelings.. It takes sometime of just really being introspective and taking that time and not rushing your process, so take that time to be real with yourself its not easy. And when we don't have the ability to see ourselves from others but we can evaluate on ourselves and see where we always want to dominate in a discussion and we always want to be right, to see where we are negative or trying to cut to the chase saying so many direct and offensive words.. We can see where we ought to pull the switch sometimes and don't get too aggressive..
What you realize when you do this is that, you get close to your heart desires and when you are willing to grow and to change. When you identify why people don't like you and they be telling you the truth, you get to the root of it, uproot it and plant a new seed.. The necessity is building a new life network that is the best form of you. Changes are always uncomfortable and you can feel all of those things but please trust your work and process. When it comes down you change you can argue and go back and forth but it keeps you and I stuck to where we can't see the big picture by being a critique and a personal therapist.
So listen, start this process today.. Some of those things you heard may just be the truth and actually the same thing you call yourself but don't self in the lane for failure, that ain't Gods plan and that ain't supposed to be your final destination.. Prayer works, you see levels change and you be like why did I wait this long to do this work and make these changes for myself.. Let me be more practical, if you notice that the cycle you have don't support your change coz literally they will miss your old self, its time to block them and choose a new set of people..
What work Am I referring to? I have this crazy habit of not listening to anybody buy rather I want to always be right and nobody's idea was better.. So it might be just anything even as we all 'March' into a new month we all going to be different and a really positive one.. you can be sure to note the difference, we can’t all be perfect but even as God is we must always desire to be perfect..
Today has been a really blessed day and even though I made a very costly mistake It ended very well.. Hope you had a beautiful day?” In summary of everything here, the most important one for you and I is to stop this idea that when it’s time for me to leave these things it will all fade, it’s the wrong mentality coz even in your 30’s you will still say the same statement.. Start today and keep working till you completely overcome..
February 27th, 2022
When you self-assess, you become an active participant in your own evaluation. Your involvement enables you to honestly assess your strengths and also areas you need to improve. Self-evaluation also serves to increase commitment to goal setting/achievement, competency development, and career planning.