Have you been blocked?

"Noah was a drunk"

"Abraham was too old"

"Isaac was a day dreamer"

"Jacob was a liar"

"Joseph was abused"

"Moses had a stuttering problem"

"Gideon was afraid"

"Jeremiah and Timothy where too young"

"Elijah was suicidal"

"Naomi was a widow"

"Job went through bankruptcy"

"Peter denied christ"

"Martha worried about everything"

"Zacheaus was too short"

We are wildly understimating what we can do unknowing to us that there is more to us that we can see just on the surface. What you see is not all there is to you and what you see in the mirror is not an indicative of your life or your potential.

Never give in to what people believe you are or you ought to be, or if you dont get to their standard they cant move out with you or communicate with you or they see you as an inferior and would rather not continue a conversation with you.

What you seem to be wrapped with is not an indication of what you're made of, look beneath the surface it will give you confidence when you do.

The reason you're getting in trouble and the reason you came back to conclusion that you dont have what it takes and spending so much time trying to impress people is because you are judging by appearance.

Lets say you and a friend had a flimsy argument partaining to something in your life, and a little later you reach out to that friend and instead of communicating and clearing the air, you find out that they blocked you. "What do you do? Do you get revenge?"

Those ideas sound interesting as at that time, but they are not the suggested pathway,

"so what do you do?"

First off you want to realize the truth of the situation and the truth of your relationship, another thing to think about is the realization of red flags in every relationship.

Could you have safe guided yourself?

And why enter in the first place?."

These are unhealthy relationships because often times we feel its normal. You may need to understand that that person who is avoiding you and ghosting you is full of fear and insecurities and they're half of a person because they dont know what friendship is, what love is and have no idea how to deal with the situation.

They'd rather cut you out because they're so scared of confronting themselves and that is it, you need to forgive yourself and forgive the situation and be true and honest in realization of your value.

Remember God used broken people for much more work than expected, what God has purpose for you to accomplish is too important for you to leave your issues unconfronted. Sometimes we have to take a stance for what God has called us to do sometimes against what others say, and that means taking a stance within yourself against yourself.

For example I have a few dollar notes with me and I decide to test somebody by asking the person to guess the number of notes presently with me and I bring out quite a few number with several denominations,

the first thing the person will check for is the color of the other notes and if he knows what color it is I will definitely loose my money to him.

That is how it is for us if you judge the stack by what you see on the surface, you are going to underestimate but if you peel back and look you're going to see that there is more to the stack than you can see on the surface.

Sometimes the pressure we feel to be special

comes from culture that tells you that you have to be special, so different, so unique, so set apart but you already are.

When you live out of that place, it affects everything from being able to do it for purpose and not proof, because who are you trying to prove it to. Whoever you are to trying to prove something to isn't paying attention so while we are busy posting to each other our results to prove to one another that we're worth it, our purpose is dying in the place of our insecurities.

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Be careful what you let people push you into and out of. Some people will block you even when you where not at fault"why?"

Nobody should impose pressure on you to be important all the time, you are good and special no one can take that away from you.

When you go through processing in your mind you kill yourself trying to proof something to others.

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Thank you for your time

|20 July 2021|