“Fight For Your Children When It’s Deserving”

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3 years ago

I tried so hard to be fluid, so I want to remind you that a lot of us here are parents and a lot of us will become parents if you’re not a parent and I want to bring this to your notice to fight for your child… and what I mean by that is you have to make sure you go up to the school where they are at, meet the teachers and whoever looks after them and let them know that you are raising your child to be great and you expect excellent from him or her coz you are there for almost 8 hours daily and if you can’t do that please let me know.

The kids today go through a lot, you need to also keep them in check … not too over protective but let them know that you are watching everything they do even though you don’t do it… check their homework, if there’s anything that need to be done then help them with it.. You can’t study with your child for 2 hours daily and expect less from him, you’d see them doing so much better in school..

Sometimes it is hard, like deeply hard but there are channels that can help you help them get better, youtube is a good place to learn new ways to approach the problem. Or find someone who does it much more then seek advice from them. It’s your care and if you can’t sacrifice at least $5 -10$ a month for tutorials then you really don’t want them to import. If you work a lot during the day, send them to somewhere they can learn even in your absent, then also allow them in some extra curriculum activities or a sport activity… it helps in the learning process.

Do not overthink it because I know it’s hard, when you’re worried about life, stress, paying the bill, relationship, pain in our body, loosing mothers brothers or sisters these are stresses on parents that it becomes too easy for kids to be left behind. If you see beyond your present idea and consider these little kids as your legacy then you must put efforts to make them great regardless of anything in your past or presently occurring.. If all you focus on is putting food on the table and clothes on their back and you didn’t consider their mental health, spiritual and physical well being then everything you did was for nothing.

You want to compare to your own parents, you’re still average in what the job title states.. Just do the job that needs to be done it doesn’t matter what your mind or what people says.. “Are you really doing what is right and are you to true to who you say you are?”

You have a vision, let it be covered with love. Without this it is hard to take up your children through school, when you start your tuition may look like a scary movie but you will make sure that you send them off to school. I could remember my admission into unilag, there was no money to pay school fees and acceptance fee back then.. but my mom never stopped until I was fully registered, she’s an example of good mothers who still see educating their kids as a top priority.The money came through at the end and I got to know the value of education.

Make sure to engage them in so many things, extra activities to make them feel happy.. studying too much sometimes could be overwhelming, so as they do other things they get even better with the regular school work and assignment.

In conclusion to what I have here, when it comes to the health and safety of our kids, don’t hesitate to do something.. show them love in their hurt and guide them always..

Thank you for reading, I do hope we got the message… For every child we have more responsibility but you must treat them equally..Are you ready for it? Is it becoming too much?” Am I doing what needs to be done? Do not inflict pain on your kids because of what happened in your past… I have a neighbor that rain down curses on her children because of the smallest mistake, And I keep wondering if she’s in her right mind.. These are children who came out of you and you call them names… Unite your homes and be free to approach your kids on the areas they need you most.

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The duty of a good parent is to ensure that he gives his children effective monitoring so that they don't go astray. This would help you as well in determining their areas of need , weakness , strengtuh and what have you. Am totally aligned to the content of your article. You are great. Keep it up.

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2 years ago

Nice write up.....Every parent should take care of their children and take responsibility of their needs both in school and at home...

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2 years ago

Exactly we should be in a watch and make we give them the best of the best… thank you

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2 years ago

I definitely stand by this. It is so important for parents to be hands on when it comes to their children's need. Its not because its their responsibility but because it is the right and humane thing to do. With regards to this, these children should also pay back the care they are receiving by respecting and loving their beloved parents.

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3 years ago

A must read to all parents. In my part, I keep comparing myself to my parents and I find out we were different. They wanted me to be successful but expecting too much from me. Now I don't want my kids to feel that way. I wanted them to succeed but I expect failure sometimes.They need to feel to be corrected so its okay to fail and commit mistakes sometimes.

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3 years ago

This is the perfect training, when one is pressurized it leads to overthinking which leads to more and more depression… I will always come back to this as you have inspired me a lot .. children should at least be given a chance to choose, then study their actions to direct… lovely write up

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3 years ago

Very certain words. Blessings

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3 years ago

Thank you and welcome to readcash… love to have you around 💛

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3 years ago

Thank you. Blessings 🙌

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3 years ago

You’re welcome

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2 years ago

We should fight for every righteous deed.... When it comes to our children, than they are our future... After few years we have to prosper on their deeds

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3 years ago

Very true as they grow we must look into their very needs to be outstanding… if we don’t show them this love nobody will.. our children are people that will take on our legacies, so they are our priorities.. thank you for coming through

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3 years ago

Children are the leaders of tomorrow and as such, premium care, financially, academically, morally and so on should be given to them.

Parents should always create time for their children, give them the best of everything even if it's going to be at the expense of yourself.

Every good parents will definitely wish his/her child or children is greater than themselves

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3 years ago

Creating time is very important. For the care of their children, parents should be happy when they succeed over them… one of the characteristics of a parent who cares… thank you Joel

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3 years ago

Educating a child is not an easy task, it takes a lot of patience, many hours of work, it is not just leaving them in schools, you have to watch their progress and guide them constantly.

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3 years ago

as a mother, I have the idea of how to protect my child. No mother would want to see that someone hurting her child, as a mother I should be the one who has the right to correct my child if she/he has done wrong. I don't say that no one would ever do that but as a mother, we should be the one who has been doing that. And you're right about sending the child to the facility that she/he would have been learned something. And it is right also to encourage them to join some activities in school. It is the right of the children. Give them clothes, give them delicious food to eat, give them protection, give them love and give them a good education. That the parent's obligation for his/her children.

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3 years ago

Exactly we are the first to show love to our children and not people outside… we must do that better and take proper care of them.. I wish everyone would read this and realize that.. and not curse over the slightest mistake

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3 years ago

That's true, your article is a good thing and it was an eye-opener, to me and to those who have kids. And also the person who wanted to have a kid.

The kid is lovable and innocent they don't know what to do unless they saw it in others or someone telling them to do it.

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3 years ago

God bless you… I’m grateful to have you here God bless you… even as parents we just teach and give out sensible advices to our children… they grow up to rely on those words…

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3 years ago

Yes that's true, 💚 It's my pleasure to meet you too.☺

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3 years ago

To unite the home, there must be deliberate efforts to do that. Also parents should trust their children

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3 years ago

Very true, it’s not only on scolding every time at least give them a chance… I really remember that time in the library when we had a discussion and you shed more light on this… it was a wonderful one..

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3 years ago

You did justice to this topic .. you know parenthood scares me a lot because I don’t want my child to stress me the way I stressed my parents but I am sure I am going to be just find because i would fight for my kids till my last breath

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3 years ago

Awww melted my heart straight with your words… and the stressing part you can’t escape it 😅😅… your last line is amazing how you will fight for them till the end

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3 years ago

Thank you I just hope to be a good parent one day

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3 years ago

Yes you will be… but don’t overthink it.. you’ll make a good dad 😊

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3 years ago

Amen ohhh

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3 years ago

I have some friends that were brought up in a way that if they are not reading they must be in bed and if not in bed they must be reading and it really messed them up they don't have anything fun doing. Anytime their parents are not at home it's like they have just been released from prison

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3 years ago

😅😅 that’s seriously bad… and they’ve been trained like that for a long time, it will be really hard to come off that.. at least they had fun personally.. I believe how and what we do to our kids behind closed doors matters

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3 years ago

Parents are not perfect but that shouldn't be the excuse. The same with the children they aren't perfect too. Thank you for writing this, this is somehow served as an eye opener for a parent or who wants to be one.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much.. indeed it’s an eye opener to anyone reading through to be the best pal to their kids…

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3 years ago

This is a reminder for parents and for all wanting to be one. Raising a child is more than just feeding them, it is feeding them wholistically. We need to look after the developments of all aspects. It is a must and never an option.

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3 years ago

No stone left unturned… train them completely without ignorance of some things… because if you don’t, I’m sure the outcome is obvious.. thank you Murakamii

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3 years ago

How could I agree more? Some people don't even understand their responsibility as a parent. I have seen so many of them engaging their kids with monitor but no emotional connection with them. I'm a father and I really believe, we should keep our children first/make them priority. I hope your writing will raise awareness.

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3 years ago

Thank you John… this is totally true, teach them and teach it right…

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3 years ago

Ahhhh how i wish i could be a responsible mother soon. I Will never let !y children feel the way I am feeling now. I will give the life I wish for myself. Since it's possible to me then i will give it to my future family. Thanks friend for this, at least i got an idea

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3 years ago

You will make a good parent, don’t worry when the time is right… You will show them the love that have never been witnessed before of a mom to her children… you’re welcome dear

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3 years ago

This is a great advice for parents. What we don't realize is that if we fail to give proper attention to our parents, they end up going to seek that Attention else where. Which might lead them to a wrong path

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3 years ago

If we don’t give it to them some else will, and it may fall it’s the wrong side and children can easily listen to anything as long as they have or any treat with them… we must be careful of how and what we feed our children and show them love… it’s all that matters here.

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3 years ago

Giving them extra curricular activities are great to save them from using their gadgets too much. But don't give too much activities as they also feel tired and never ever force them to do what they don't want to do. 😊😊

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3 years ago

Noted… too much of everything isn’t good, we can create a balance. Thank you Garreth💛

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3 years ago

Thank you so much for this sir Gozie. A lot of learnings we can get from this. Yes we should check our children physically and emotionally. Always check if they are okay because we don't know so it's better to be an eye to them. It's for their own good.

Give them love and care because they need that. Always prioritize them. The other one fight them equally, in a right way. Children must be love, care and support.

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3 years ago

Very true, if we truly love them we just show up with live and care and make sure we treat them like they are ours.. because most parent don’t realize that. I love what you wrote about checking up on them, so perfect.. if they grow up to be amazing, they have us to thank for it at the end..

Thank you JRamona 💛

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3 years ago

Yes sir Gozie. Children always seeking love, support and care from their parents that's why in the future if I will be a mother already, I will do my best to provide and give that to my future child/children.

Thank you so much sir Gozie for the beautiful words from you. I love your articles too.❤️

You're always welcome sir.❤️

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3 years ago

I'm so blessed to have such understanding, caring, and loving parents and from that thought alone I could never ask for more. and if I were to be a parent soon I will inherit their values on how they raise me as their daughter and apply it to my future kids. 🥰

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3 years ago

You truly have beautiful parents and your children will be lucky to have you as their mom… we must at the very least be different in our love and kindness to our kids..

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3 years ago

Children grow up with parents. And every parent fights for the rights their child deserves.I always like these family bonding type articles. Because reading them makes family bonding better. We should create a separate bond with the children.

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3 years ago

Exactly thank you Mazekin

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3 years ago

Exactly thank you Mazekin

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3 years ago

How I wish to be always loved, believed, and protected by them all the time. If ever I will become a mom, I will make sure to love them so well and understand their situation. 💗 In short, I will always be there for them, to support them. 💗

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3 years ago

Awww that’s so lovely of you… already a good mom even before that moment.. seriously we need understanding when we are with our kids

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3 years ago

All these are part of my plan whenever I become a father, I will love to know about child a lot and the better way to know them is about being involved in their activities like homework, sporting activities, having time to check their progress in school and so on. All these will make the children realize they need to impress their loving dad 😅😅

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3 years ago

Hahaha well immediately that is done they get your attention 😅😅… you’re funny, I love your vibe

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3 years ago

Dear King, take a bow. Tremendous post. I read that to my mom. Loved it too much. It’s about family bonding with children.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much… I’m grateful

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3 years ago

My little one starts school this year, the covid has delayed everything. Now another battle begins.

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3 years ago

Ohhh good to hear that.. a huge birthday celebration… battle upon battle with the covid, it’s no easy and I can relate

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