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I was encouraged to write this kind of topic because of @ZehraSky article about the Catcalling: The Compliment it isn't
We all have imperfections in our bodies that literally can be seen that's why some are striving to earn money to change their looks so that they will never hear hurtful words from people and boost their confidence to live.
But how about you are not capable to earn that money, or if you can you don't want to undergo surgeries because you want your body to be natural? How will you defend yourself from the criticism of the people?
Busty
"Your getting fat huh'' said my college guy classmate. They laughed with his colleague which is my classmate too.
I just smiled because I don't have any idea that they are making fun of me. I found out when my guy friend told me that they were talking about me. He quit hanging out with them because of it and warned them to stop it.
I'm so fat that days that the button of my uniform in my chest part was going to open that's why I always put a safety pin to support it.
I feel stressed that day and avoid those guys. I wear a jacket even it's hot just not to notice by others, but I think those guys spread it. My guy friend says that I make it obvious so that he tells me to remove it and let them be.
Sometimes breast size increase when :
Gain weight
Pregnancy
Breast medical issues
Etc..
There is a lot of issues people don't know to others but some are too insensitive to realize it. They don't think of what trauma they will give to someone who is suffering from it.
"Your boyfriend soon will be lucky" my girl cousins said. They laughed.
How come my boyfriend will be lucky? If you were gonna tell by that, what thought makes up your mind? Like what she wants me to feel? That I am just a thing that will be used?
Every time that there is a gathering in our family I prefer to distance myself to escape those kinds of words. It isn't a compliment for me because it really isn't! You were thinking malicious and sexual about my body and that is not acceptable!
Even it is a bluff or a joke it's not okay to say and make fun of it.
Some women love to have it but they don't know what trauma also gives it.
"Your boobs were like a ball of basketball" my aunt said. She laughed.
Super exaggerated right?! I don't think there is a breast that big. I mean a normal breast. You are elder, you are supposed to stop those bullies to your niece, and then there you are, making yourself the fun of it.
Maybe you people will think that I am very sensitive. Yes, I am! Because we're not all the same. If this thing won't hurt you, for me it is.
Soon, if I will have my own child I will teach them to be sensitive to others. That they should be aware and consider others feelings.
Stop body shaming!
Men and women, please respect each other, we all have imperfections but let us choose to be kind and sensitive to everyone's feelings. We have different kinds of battles, so let's mind our own.
Author's Message
Give respect and others will give it to you.
Curious about my size? Haha. My boobs aren't that big. They can say it because they don't have any hump in their chest. Lol!
If only I can share it with others, surely I will give it all! Haha
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