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Disclaimer: What you're about to read is all the thing called pr*stitution and how people are gradually adapting to it without double check. Please you're free to skip if this doesn't sound well to you. Also, it's not in anyway criticising People 🙌
I was glancing at some newsline today when I came across an hilarious heading; "The reason I shot my "pr*stitute girlfriend". Isn't it funny? A girlfriend that at same time a s3x worker 🤣.
Before I go in details in spilling out why he shot her, I found it strange for a guy to wholeheartedly date a steady going pr*stitute (someone that's still in the game, not repented). Like how do they cope? Because at night the lady would go about her work while the guy would be Left hanging with thoughts that they're b*nging his girlfriend by Random People. This is not cheating, it's something they know and agreed on. Maddd!
When we say dating, we mean there's somewhat connectivity and not just the pleasure aspect unless that's their take. I wonder how the man cope when he sees her babe being dropped by a client in their house. Omo! I can't just imagine myself to be dating a s3x worker, it can't happen! Never!
But maybe the lady is the breadwinner of the relationship and the finance comes via the s3x work and the guy decided to stay because he's being fed.
Now let's look at the reason he shot her:
The man was arrested by the police and being interrogated and all be could say was that he shot the girl With his father's gun because the girl was giving attention to her client more than she ought to give her boyfriend....
"My girlfriend’s name is Enny, she is a pr*stitute who always comes to Ikare junction in Owo. I shot her after I noticed that she gives other men more attention than me.
We have been having issues for a while now. That particular day she repeated what I warned her against and I became furious and I shot her. But she did not die. I learnt that she is in hospital.
I’m not a cultist, and I have never shot anyone in my life. The gun that I used against her belongs to my father who is a hunter. My father does use the gun to hunt and kill animals.”
From the confession of the guy, it shows that there was a real time relationship thing going on between them and he's been managing to survive but he lost it when he couldn't contain the hurt anymore... that's to say he's there have been hurtful moment to the guy.
But what was he expecting?
The last time I read about s3x workers, they don't harbour feelings, feelings is not in their dictionary, their heart work with money and not love or attention, so giving such People attention wouldn't change anything because even in the midst of attention and a client calls for work, of course they'll excuse the attention and go for the money.
Maybe it was otherwise, maybe the guy wanted to date and transform her into a wife but the expectation was far because it takes grace to breakdown an addicted s3x worker.
The only way one could confidently date a s3x worker is when she's no longer into the business (repented), I've seen such People that dropped out of prostitution and got married. In as much as money is the main target to them, most of them turn it to addiction and it becomes hard to leave even when they see a serious guy ready to take them in.
In the other hand;
Do you know that this prostitution vibes have entered into the real relationship settings and now dominating? Now most people run prostitution all in the name of dating, jumping from one place to another with th sole aim of getting more money. Isn't that the routine of the real sex workers? With this in relationship, trust and real attention no longer exist because the main focus is fixed on money and pleasure.
I'm stopping here before I receive stone on my head🤦.
I don't mean to offend anyone please.
Thanks for reading.
3rd August 2022
Maybe the girl will stop doing that if the man can provide everything that she wants why is she doing it in the first place. But on the other hand, he know also in the first place that she is in this kind of job, he must be aware of the nature of her work. We cannot change a person even if how we love her/him, the person will change if she/he wants to.