I Wish I Had A Friend Like Me

April 2nd, 2022

Saturday

Have you ever wished you had a friend just like you? The way you treat, care for and regard your other friend differs greatly from the way your friends treat you. And, have you ever thought to yourself, "I wish I had a friend like me?"

We all have different types of friends in our circle of friends, and every one of us has that favourite friend they want. Like in every hangout, the person that they always look up to is their favourite person in the circle. But we couldn’t blame them for being like that because that’s how comfortable they are with that certain friend. It's like they are the best of friends and you are just that friend whenever they need you. You are just a friend if their favourite friend is not around. It sucks being like that, right? But why are you still hanging out with your so-called friend if you feel like you don’t belong in that circle of friends of yours?

It's either you're comfortable around them or you're not.

Or maybe you don’t have someone to hang out with.

When I was a first-year college student, I had this lovely and sweet classmate. She's the sweetest of our classmates, but she also cracks a few jokes and is occasionally witty. But, unfortunately, she's hanging out with our other classmate, who is a bit bossy and enjoys bossing everyone around. She is, after all, the secretary of the classroom, which explains why she has the audacity to boss around some of our classmates whom she believes she can control. She is truly bossy, and she enjoys acting as if she knows everything when she isn't even that intelligent.

We always see them hanging out together; during break time, lunchtime, and even after class, they’re always together, the three of them. If you see it first, you might think that they’re like a typical best of friends or as a normal group of girls. But we, as classmates, know everything behind the curtain. Our innocent classmate is blinded by the thoughts of being friends with them, but little does she know that she's being treated as if she is the servant of the two. That’s what we have observed and noticed whenever we see them all together.

She’s the only one who always holds and brings our secretary’s things as if she’s like a servant or personal assistant. But what I hate about her is that she didn’t complain at all. She had no idea that she was being treated like a personal assistant and not a friend. She’s so innocent to the point that she doesn’t react at all.

We approached her a couple of times about being around with those two other so-called friends of hers. We have already told her not to hang out with those two anymore because they’re not real friends and they don’t treat her like one. We even scold her for being like that, for being too innocent to the point that she would do anything they asked her to do. She is a sweet and innocent person, and she doesn’t deserve to be treated that way. People like her deserve to be treated right because not everyone is as loyal as she is.

We have told her the things that we have noticed when they’re together and how she looks like a servant when she’s with them. While we were talking to her, she was holding her so-called friend’s things and it wasn't just a simple piece of paper. There were many of them, including some logbooks. When I saw what she was holding, I immediately told her to give it back to the owner of those things because it’s not even hers, so why does she have to bring all that stuff when it’s not even hers? We strictly told her to give it back to the real owner. She’s not supposed to suffer carrying all those things because it’s not hers.

The next day, we were so happy because we hadn’t seen her hanging out with the other two again. And we already see her hanging out with our other friendly classmates, and she looks so happy being around them. She feels like she’s been freed from her leash, and we’re so happy for her. She sometimes hangs out with us and does joke around us. And we’re so happy to see her happy too.

And we noticed that her so-called friend had been observing and staring at us. I heard a rumour that I was the one who manipulated our classmate to hang out with us so that she would no longer go with them. Oh, poor little secretary, it’s not our problem that you’re so bossy. You shouldn’t act so bossy when you’re not providing some salary. Peace out!

Choose who you want to be friends with, those friends that can benefit you in a good way. Because your greatest enemy can be disguised as your best friend.

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