When To Really Let Go?

Letting go in any form is hard especially when we had already built a connection. This connection might be already a routine and a commitment.

Do you have things in your room that even if you do not really need, you still find it hard to let go of them? For example, my mom keeps invitation cards from different occasions such as birthdays, bridal showers, weddings, etc.

Though it holds a sentimental value, I think piling up in one corner is an eyesore. I told her to just scan them and throw the papers.

It is hard on her part because she finds connections in those. Well, for me, I see them as just papers with writing, but for her, it is special

Last night, over the Discord server, we talked about letting go of someone in a relationship. Of course, it is human nature to say "Oh, just let it go, do not be marupok." It is easy to say it, right? Well, until we are in that situation.

There are letting go and then you might regret it later. When you let her go is the only time you realized that you really loved her. Too late because palaisip ka! Charizzz.

Well for me, part of letting go is painful. There will always be pain on the way. Your routine will not be cut off to just you. She will not be part of your everyday. She will just be a face in the past.

True, rivers will paint over your face. You will feel sick of thinking every night about what could happen if you just not met her at all.

There will be times of denial, thinking that this is not happening at all. Well, wake up! Because if you think that it is a one sided love and you feel that you are not valued, LET GO.

There is no other way but to accept the fact that she never loved you the way you love her. If she was not really destined for you, I think you have to save yourself from hurting more.

So, yeah, bottom line is, it is always up to the person. We have different situations in life naman e. If saan ka sasaya, gorabells lang. But make sure that whatever happens, guard your heart because no one else will.

That is it for my two cents tonight. I got affected much last night so I prompted this blog, HAHA!

In any way this blog is not related to me, just me being an emo dinosaur.

That is it for this blog. I will see you at the next one!

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Date Published: Oct 11, 2022

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