Don't Cry Over Girls You Never Liked
In our life, we will encounter people that somehow will become a part of our lives. Someday, you will be someone's tenant in your heart. She will be your comfort, your bliss, the cause of your smile. That feeling of expecting a notification from her. In short, your world.
But you know, you do not expect that she has to reciprocate that feeling. Are you sure that she is not just bored, and that you are just one tap away? How sure are you that she also has the same feeling as yours?
Would it kill her to show a little bit of attention?
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But when is the time that you have let go of her, let go of that feeling?
You do not like to hurt her just because she hurt you. You are so afraid that God might be going to teach you a lesson for life. It is hard to say goodbye especially when it is a routine already. After a tiresome day, there is someone you can spend time with, tell her what happened as if she is already with you in your day.
So quick in saying goodbye on her part, you could eat the dust. Now hating yourself thinking how could you be so stupid knowing that you were under her spell.
Do not cry and hate yourself, do not cry over girls you never liked.
What you can do is revenge, and be the best version of yourself. Focus on yourself this time. Build those walls if you want to, but do not put them long. There is nothing more liberating and satisfying that you know that you are moving on and getting better to your craft. One day, you will never think of her. You have moved on and are ready to love someone who will value you.
There is so much to do.
It is okay to vocalize what is in your heart to your family or friends because it helps to heal those wounds. Bottling up might just slow down the processing of healing. (How ironic that I am saying this but I am the one who used to bottle feelings up haha! )
Our conversation last night with @Eunoia prompt me to write something like this. By the way, this blog is not connected to me in any way. It is just me being a dramatic dinosaur, HAHA!
That is it for this blog. I will see you at the next one!
Date Published: Oct 10, 2022
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if you love someone it's better not to expect that they will love you back, though they can also love you back but not on a level na you expect. Parang it's so wrong din kasi na you expect people you love to love you back more or at least the same, for me di na sya genuine kapag ganun. huwololong!