Not all dead babies are actually dead.

All of us dreamed to have our own family in the future and giving birth to a child is one of the most memorable experience of a mother. Also the excitement in the part of the father is overflowing to the point that he can no longer feel the tiredness from lack of sleep. Giving birth to a new life is something a parents will treasure for the rest of their life and can't think right if anything happens during the process.

There's nothing more scary than to lose your child after you gave birth to him or her. The pain is really something we can't handle sometimes and leading us to lose also the will to live anymore. Many moms and dads had been there and because of that they developed trauma when it comes to giving birth.

In some cases because of the intolerable pain they suffered, what they do is to blame the doctors and nurses who's incharge during the process. Well we can't blame them for that because they can't think straight anymore due to their loss. A human is a human afterall and he can't cross that line and be a God himself to do not commit mistakes.

But most of the times God is with those who's incharge because the life of a child is important to Him. There are cases that a miracle happens, God blessed those who's in charge and through them a miracle happens. I know that the numbers of children who died during the process can't be count anymore but the same with the children who survived it and now living the life their parents dreamed off.

I've seen a video in facebook wherein there was a new born baby, he's pale and not breathing anymore. His heart stops but the people incharge didn't panick and performed the necessary methoda in reviving the dead child. As the clock runs fast the chance of bringing back the baby to life again is getting low but they didn't stop what they're doing .

As I saw the condition of the baby, I felt sad for his parents but at the same time I was hoping that they can bring back the baby alive again. When the pumping of his chest didn't work , the color baby was starting to look bad. One of them tried a method wherein he hung him up then rub the back of the baby then slap and slap his butt.

He did it several times and when he bring down the baby, his eyes opened and he just regain a life again. That method was effective so they tried it again then when he bring down the baby for the second time, the baby cried finally. The cry of the baby gave them the assurance that he will live. They succeed and happy about it. They started to praise God for He guided them along the way.

So you see my friends, not all dead babies are actually dead, they just need professional hands with the blessing of God in order for them to survive the first stage of being in the outside world. All babies will survive if they were in a good hands.

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We already experienced losing a baby after she was born and she's not lucky enough to be in a good hands. My aunt gave birth to her, her heart was weak and her life was not 100 percent stable. As I said, if my cousin was in a good hands , I'm sure she survive and was able to witness the beauty of this world.

She was born last year and the people incharge in taking care of the new born babies didn't pay her much attention and the ending, she died. It was not easy for my aunt because she's been waiting for a girl to be born, the same with my uncle. It was hard for us also because she's the first girl among us cousins.

My uncle wants to settle the case with legal means but due to that we are just poor, my aunt prioritize the funeral of her baby because she don't want her baby to suffer anymore and she her to have her rest in peace. We let God to do the punishing of those who didn't take seriously their responsibility.

We know that she bacame our angel now and will always watch us from above. I know that she's with God already in the paradise. That incident created a trauma to my aunt and uncle. Since then my aunt didn't want to get pregnant again because she's afraid that maybe something similar will happened again. Losing one is already painfull and it's enough to paralized her, so she can't afford to lose any of her child anymore.

As you can see in our experienced, this kind of scenarios still exist nowadays and many lives were lost already. I also observed that discrimination inside the hospital is still being practice by those who thinks highly of themselves. I hope that this kind of practice will be gone for good because life of patients is at stake and can be gone for good if they will act like that.

Author's note

I hope that all those people who's incharge in this field will keep in mind that they shouldn't give up no matter how slim the chance of survival is. I hope that they will stay calm at all times in order for them to think of all the possible methods.

I hope that there's no more parents to cry and grieve for their child. Parents deserves to be happy after their baby is born.

This is my article for today and I thank you once again for reading upto this far. See you again next time.

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