Neighbor's Toxicity To The Next Level.

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3 years ago

I'm just really wondering why there are humans like this. Humans wherein they're getting bored of their own life and they tend spread their boredomness or should I say toxicity to other people. Even though those people are doing nothing against them. Even though those people are leaving peacefully and don't want any trouble. But it seems that these kind of people will never be extinct in this planet. It's just awesome that their kind is multiplying very fast.lol.

The purpose of this article is to vent out what is inside me right now. Actually this was last night emotions but I don't have the feeling to write it up so here it is. Please bear with me through out this article.

Is it really hard for those neighbors to respect their neighbors also. Is it really that hard to supress their jealousy towards us. In the first place we're not rich so why they get jealous on us. Is there any point in what they are doing to us. Is it really fun to downgrade others and see them bleed. All of these questions are for them but I can't ask them because I know that their minds are just filled with stones and not a brain open for peace.

As you read in my past articles that our neighbor burned something near our house and that cause a huge fight between our families. That incident also brought us to the barangay in order to settle the matter but it ended up in the police jurisdiction so our neighbor agreed that he won't bother us again in any way. All I thought is that it would proceed smoothly but it seems that it's just a dream after all. It didn't proceed smoothly for they are just doing what seems to be fun to them and I really don't like it.

Also I got to know what they did back then when we don't have yet lights in our house. I was not yet born back then so I asked my grandmother what was their relation back then. Why is it really bad this time then my lola told me the start of it.

Back then when we don't have yet light because we don't have our own electricity , we used to connect to our neighbor's house to light up our bulbs. There's an agreement between us and it really work smoothly. The connection lasted for how many years until their treatment towards us changed. In one night, our house was very dark, has no light at all so my family back then used the gasera or the improvised lamp or Bur-ruung in Ilokano.

My lola thought that there's a power outbreak that's why we don't have electricity but as she looked outside and too see the houses of our neighbors, my lola was surprised because they had lights in their houses and our house was the only one in the dark. Lola new that there's something wrong so she told it to lolo to check the connection in our neighbor's house early in the morning. My lolo woke up so early in the morning to check the extension and he found out that it was unplug that's why we don't have electricity and lights back then. So he plugged it again in order for us to have electricity.

My grandparents thoughts that maybe it was removed accidentally but that incident happened again and my tito saw that it's not an accident why it was been unplugged. Tito said that they unplugged it. The mother and her son was the one involved. My lolo was bursting in anger but my lola stopped him for she don't want to start a fight. Lolo calmed down. My family talked to each other that this must be stop for it not to cause any fight so they agreed that they will buy a pig , a female one to be raised and to be sold when it's ready.

They bought 2 piglets and raised it. Their food was not a problem back then because my father and tito was working on a cronstruction so two of them funded the foods for those piglets. The piglets grew into a fat pig and they sold it for almost 15,000 per pig so they profited a total of 30,000. That money was used to buy a electricity generator and to applied in a Electric Coopertive for us to have our own electricity.

The application was approved with the help of my lolo's friend who worked in the cooperative. His friend was also the one who did all the things to be done inside our house, the connectins and all. We are grateful to that friend of my lolo and that Old man is still kind to us even now.

The turn of events happened and finally we had our own electricity without the knowledge of our neighbor so when my lolo unplugged the extension in their house , they were really surprised and laughed hard. Lolo just ignored them then he walked away with a smile on his face. At night our neighbor are laughing hard because they saw our house very dark but when my lola switched on the lights, they became silent and I know that they've been slapped with the reality haha. I wish I was there before to see their faces. lol.

Since then they got jealous towards us because we just conquered the stage and had our own electricity. We also proved to them that we can stand in our own feet and disapproved what they said before that we can never apply in a cooperative. That was a silent battle my family has overcome and I know that we can overcome that again.

As my lola taught me to be always kind our neighbors and not just to them but to other people also. Be kind because it's a free thing to do so why not.

That ends my article for today and thank you so much for reading this far. I hope that your heads are filled with brains and not stones. See yah in my next articles and I really hope that all of us can coexist with out neighbors in a peaceful way.

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3 years ago

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Love your neighbor so they say. Easier said than done but being at peace is better than being stressed out. But in a way, your neighbor did you a good thing, why? Because it made your family work harder, hence achieving something for your own good. And your neighbors being jealous now, don't mind them anyway. Just go on with what you do and let them be. Someday, they will realize their grievances toward your family.

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3 years ago

Yes po ,we found confidence and courage to overcome those walls ..thanks to what they're doing to us.. You're right po just ignore lang then move on.

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3 years ago

And cheers to that :)

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3 years ago

Unfortunately your neighbours are everywhere. Just try to ignore them if you can.

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3 years ago

Yes po we will..That's what we are doing when they're being toxic towards us.. By ignoring them can help to extinguised their jealousy

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3 years ago

That's right. Treat your neighbor kindly. That is what I always remind my family since what happened to our house last year. I keep telling them to forget the incident and move on.

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3 years ago

Yes .It will not bring any good outcome if we continue to think about it and it's better if hindi tayo magtatanim ng galit sa kanila..Hindi naman na natin kasalanan mga nagawa nila at gagawin pa.basta stay kind lang ..๐Ÿ˜Š

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3 years ago

Haha! Luckily I have good neighbors and they are not irritating us. In fact, we are living our lives very peacefully. But I saw many were like here on read cash many people write about their neighbors that they are very irritating so in case I am very blessed.

Have a good day mate.

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3 years ago

Your so lucky to have those good neighbors..it's a challenge to us that we have those kind of neighbors.atleast we benefit from their bad doings ..it motivates us to overcome many challenges.

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3 years ago

That's good mate.

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3 years ago

Grabe naman yong mga kapitbahay nyo noon jusmeyo marimar para maki ano lang ng kuryente eh pinagdadamot pa. Nagbabayad na sila lola mo noon sakanila? ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Buti nalang talaga marunong magsumikap pamilya no unlike sa mga kapitbahay niyong madamot. ๐Ÿคฃ Nasa huli parin talaga ang kalamamgan.

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3 years ago

Yup nagbabayad naman sila noon..mas malaki panga ata binbayad nila lola noon kasi 2 ilaw lang naman ang meron sila .. Tama sa huli makikita kung sino talaga.. temporary lang mga pagsubok na ito ngayon..fighttuu lang๐Ÿ’ช

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3 years ago

Grabe naman kapitbahay niyo ang panget ng ugali ay. Hays kahit wala ka talagang ginagawa sa kanila basta nainggit, kung ano ano gagawin sa inyo. At yun nga, piliin nalang natin maging mabait kahit ganon sila.

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3 years ago

Puno't dulo talaga ng mga hindi pagkakaunawaan ng magkapitbahay eh inggit at ang sad lang na hindi ba pwedeng maging masaya nalang sila.hayst.

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3 years ago

Bat naman ganun kapitbahay nyo. Grabe naman sila. Nag pa kabit pa sila ng kuryente kung aalisin din naman pala. Pwro at least ngayon meron na kayobg sariling ilaw. Pabayaan nyo nalang sila.

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3 years ago

Opo...atleast we have our own napo .kahit pabonggaan na ng mga ilaw haha . iniignore nalang po namin sila gaya ngayon..na toxic parin sila.

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3 years ago

How stupid they are... ๐Ÿ˜‘ Actually we all have these types of toxic neighbors. They should stop irritating us now.

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3 years ago

They are so irritating ..We just need to ignore them and let the karma do it's work and let's not add hate to the hatred they're generating

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3 years ago

HAHAHAHA pag inggit pikit nalang kasi, yay mga walang magawa sa buhay at innggit ang pinapairal jusmiyo mga mayabang akala mo kung sino umasta porke sila yung may ilaw. Ewwness sa ganyang ugali talaga. Yaan mo na yan je mamatay din naman sila HAHAHAHA joke. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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3 years ago

hahaah.true mamamatay naman tayong lahat sa huli bakit kaya hindi nalang sila gumawa ng kabutihan sa kapwa nila lalo na sa kapitbahay nila.

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3 years ago

Hahaha ganyan klasing kapitbahay perwisyo ayaw malamangan. Much better ignore nalang jhe tas yaan mo maluwa mata nilabkakabantay sa inyo hahaha

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3 years ago

Hahaha... Di nalang sila magpakapit ng Cctv dito sa loob ng bahay namin para makita ga ginagawa namin dito nako๐Ÿ˜‚..Kawawa naman mga mata nila napapagod na.

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3 years ago

HAHAHAHA yaan mona atleast may fans kayo๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ.

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3 years ago

Omg those are some Douchebag neighbors.... what idiots.. how could they do that to other people? I never understand some people :/

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3 years ago

Time is not in favor of them forever so let's just ignore people with this kind of mindset . People who downgrade others just to satisfy their jealousy.

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3 years ago

Grabe naman..๐Ÿ˜” bat ganun sila. Bakit kaya may mga taong ganyan? Yung masaya sila pag nahirapan yung kapwa tao nila... Grabe naman yung kabitbahay ng lolo't lola mo Jher.. pero alam ni God ang lahat. Ingat ka palagi Jher..๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜‡

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3 years ago

Hindi naman po tulog ang panginoon kaya hayaan nalabg natin sila na gawin ang gusto po nila ..kapag masama talaga ang iniisip mo sa kapwa mo eh napakapangit..lang.

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3 years ago

How are they related to my neighbor? Hahahaha. Well, ours is different so I might share a little story about it. Thanks for the idea, though.

And ignore your neighbor. Let them mock you and just work in silent. One day, their own mockery will be their own misery. Just don't mind them.

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3 years ago

Hahaha..napasmile po ako sa question.. oh see they have relatives there ๐Ÿ˜‚. dapat one day mag meet mga yan .para happy ..

Yes po ate..the art of ignorement really helps regarding with this kind of people.. In no time malalaglag nalang panga nila dahil sa gulat na nakaangat na kami .๐Ÿ˜Š

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3 years ago

Oo. Mapapa sana all na lang sila sayo. Me kapitbahay kami na sunod sunod ang anak tas security guard papa nila tas sa bahay lang mama nila. Pero dahil matatalino yung mga anak, maganda na buhay nila ngayon. Hindi sila mayaman pero nakakaangat na talaga. Ka batch ko yung isa at friend ko. Tas biglang chinichismiss ng magaling naming kapitbahay. Pero who you pa rin siya dahil walang paki yung masipag naming kapitbahay. Hehe. Mamaya try ko ishare yung kapitbahay naming magpinsan ata sa kapitbahay mo. Hehe

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3 years ago

Ayunn...success๐Ÿ˜Š. looking forward sa artikol mopp ate..baka magbestfriend sila nung andito nagkahiwalanly lang at napadpad dito

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3 years ago

Hays, we all have this not so good neighbor with us. We also have one, kahit di sila pinapakealaman lahat nalang ng nakikita dto papansinin nila at gagawan ng issue. Napakatoxic ng mga ugali, ilang beses na rin kami pinag sisigawan dto di naman namin pinapatulan napabarangay na rin namen pero sila pa galit. Mga taong walang good manners and right conduct. Dont mind them, hayaan mo sila inggit lang mga yan. Basta tayo walang ginagawang masama sa kanila.

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3 years ago

Yes po we have talaga .at mukang hindi na sila mawawala sa kahit anong lugar ka pumunta. para ba sila'y virus na nagtravel sa ibat ibang lugar tas nagmuutate din .haha

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3 years ago

May mga tao talaga na hindi kayang makitang masaya ang kapwa nila. Gusto siguro nila na sila lang.

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3 years ago

Gusto nila sila lang ang nasa taas pero parang nkakalimutan nila na hindi pwede ang kanilang nais. sapagkat darating ang araw na sila naman ang makakaranas ng ganiyan..hindi man sila pero baka ga anak nila o apo

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3 years ago

Grabe, ang bigat nito bro. Hindi ko lobus maisip na nagagawa nila yan sa inyu, lalo na at sa lolo at lalo mo pa, hindi nalang maisip na matatanda na sila, nahihirapan na sa buhay at papahirapan pa. Kapit lang bro, darating din ang araw nila, habang pataas kayu.

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3 years ago

Hindi ko nga rin po lubos maisip na nagawa nila yun ..tama po hindi naman po iisa ang araw ..sabi nga nila ..masaya sila ngayon pero sa huli maririnig ang halakhak.. Ngayon nagproproblema sila kasi antaas ng bills nila .and I think the karma is on the move napo.

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3 years ago

Maybe they are afraid to be surpass by others, those kind of neighbors brings toxicity on community and making the environment unhealthy.nHopefully you didn't fight them back.โคโค

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3 years ago

Maybe..I'm just hoping that they will not cross the boundary of life and commit some really bad ..Nope we didn't fight them back.there's no good reason and benefit if you'll add more gasoline to the fire.

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3 years ago

May lihim na galit mga neighbors nyo. Di na talaga mawawala yang ganyang klase Ng kapitbahay,Yung tipo bang akala nila sila ang marunong at makakaangat.

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3 years ago

kaya ngapo ..buti nalang sana kung lihim na pagtingin at paghanga pero hindi๐Ÿ˜….. Pero sabi nga po nila bilog ang mundo ..

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3 years ago

Ay grabe! Kahit san talaga may mga taong may sungay eh. Haist!

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3 years ago

Grabe po talaga.. oo nga po ala may sungay sila pero hanap ako ng hanap wala sa noo nila san kaya haha. .spread love lang po and ignore them

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3 years ago

part na ng community natin ang mga ganyang tao, aminin natin minsan ganun din tayo diba

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User's avatar Amz
3 years ago

yes part na sila ..may gang na nga po sila eh๐Ÿ˜….anyways ..just don't let them perform a toxic move below the belt coz that's a different story.

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3 years ago

Hahahaha may gang diay.....enjoy lang tayo sa gang nila

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User's avatar Amz
3 years ago

May mga ganyan talagang kapitbahay ehh .ga inggit at ayaw umangat ang kapwa

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3 years ago

Sagad po sa buto yung pag kainggit nila. haha ewan po nga namin kung ano tumatakbo sa mga isipan nila.. Di nalang sila maging masaya dahil nakaangat ng kunti kapitbahay nila ..atleast wala na sila kaagaw ng kuryente ๐Ÿ˜…

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3 years ago

Oh I see. So your neighbor has been growing grudges for years now. Too bad for them..

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3 years ago

Yep.too bad for them that they're planting more hate than to focus on their own life.๐Ÿ˜Š..And it seems that karma sets it's eyes to them now..for some reasons. napapansin ko

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3 years ago

Nakakagigil talaga mga ganyang tao. Yung hindi nalang sabihin anong problema. As long nagbabayad naman kayo ng tama bakit naman diba. Pwede naman din nila sabihin na di na nila gusto magpakabit sa iba nalang di yung sinasadya nila sa mga matatanda pa. Keri lang yan be, yung karma kusa yan susulpot. Mangangailangan din yang mga yan.

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3 years ago

Hayaan napo natin .past naman napo iyon at naovercome naman na yung malaking pader kaya ok na .kahit magdamag na ilaw haha.. Let karma do the work ika nga po๐Ÿ˜Š

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3 years ago

yung tingin nila sa inyo parang ang liit liit lang, akala siguro nila na always lang kayong nakiki connect sa kanila lol. At ngayon, na shocked kasi may sarili na kayong kuryente haha baka sila na naman yung makiki connect niyan HAHA

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3 years ago

Hahhaa kaya nga po akala nila puwing lang kami pero nakakabulag din . Sobrang gulat po talaga nila noon sabi ni lola ..Ay ..ok lang naman po.. hindi po namin gagawin yung ginawa nila noon ๐Ÿ˜Š

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3 years ago