Break up no more. It hurts, stop it.

Well as you know my darlings and dear friends of this community, there's a lot of going on around lately and just the other day again I saw and read something bad news aww. It's not my relationship by the way but I've been hurt because I feel sorry for both of them and especially to the one who suffered the most. Why they must go through into such trial when their love stories is just shaping to what it's really is. Well I know that there's a reason behind it why it happened but the pain inflicted to each of them is unbearable especially when they are married already.

There's a lot of trending break ups right now within the celebrities who's name is very popular through out the country and even international maybe. Left and right break ups, one after another and it's so sad. It's not that it's affecting me much but I just can't believe how easy for one of them to break the trust they have and the vows they recited infront of the altar. Maybe there's a deep reason behind it all but cheating is cheating and no matter what the reason is, it's not appropriate within a relationship.

I just watched and read some comments about these trending matters now and a lot are saying that there's a sign when the relationship will not gonna long last lol. The sign they saw was the groom or one of them is crying during their wedding and infront of the altar. This is a vague sign for me because everyone will get a teary eyes during a wedding right? Those are just a coincidence and does not have really a connection to the said break ups but if it's not then you should be nervous already especially to the marrieds now wherein one of them cried before haha. I'm just kidding anyway and don't take it seriously.

Isn't it very ironic that a single like me is worrying for their relationship while me in the first place don't have one haha. I know that it's not just me and my fellow singles are just around the corner while cursing the one who ruined their relationship haha. It's just normal friends if your like that but what's matter the most now is that you don't have to worry someone if you did wrong to him or her because always remember you don't have a lovey dovey, peace yow. Just stay single and just love ourselves friends.

For sure these break ups that happened will only give negative image again for the likes of us, man. Some girls will surely brand all men into something like that again, a cheater. But I know that there are still girls who will not do that because they know that we are different in many ways. We may have flaws but we are not like them. That is something I can assure if ever I had one now. Especially if you're married already, if you are loyal to the time she answered yes to you as her boyfriend then you must be super loyal to her when you will get married right. That's something a man will do and a boy will do the cheating thing so as I mentioned in my past article, be careful in choosing between a man and a boy.

The moment you entered the space of love, anything that can threaten your relationship should be eliminated especially that cheating problem. Yes we are free to cheat and no ones prohibit us from doing it but you must think if it's the right thing to do. Temptation is just around the corner and once you made a contact with someone else discussing intimate things is already a cheating. Also doing that intimate things is another kind of cheating but in different level. Even just teasing some random girls out there is already cheating because as I said temptation is just near you and any moment you will ride with it.

I will always say this to the crowd, court a girl and love her, bring her infront of the altar the moment you realized that she's the one for you and when you asked her hand for the sacred ring, you must put into your mind that she's the only girl you must love aside from your mother. Also put into your mind that once she accepted you as her husband, act as a man already and act as the husband you promised to her when you asked her hand.

Marriage is a sacred thing but as the younger generation enter into this space, they are forgotting the vows they spoke when they get married infront of the altar. It seems that they're treating it as a mere game wherein they can quit it anytime. Normal players are the one who quits but champions don't have the word quit in their vocabulary. Many normal players are like that in their relationship now which led it to destruction. If only they are like a champion who only focuses in winning the game, I'm sure many girls will be happier.

Author's note

Problems can't be avoided in a relationship especially in a marriage life but the problem when it comes to cheating can be avoided if we want to. Any man and woman can avoid it however they like if only their commitment to each other is stronger than the temptation that is around their neck. The secret to the long lasting relationship is by having strong commitment to each other because if you don't have that for sure it will fall down any moment.

I'm not an expert to give these kind of advices but that's what I see in the relationship of my parents and grandparents. Until now it has a strong foundation and I'm sure that it will last forever because my father and my late grandfather is a man after all.

Well friends let's not be consumed by these current break ups of the people we knew because at the end of the day, we are not part of it and we don't know the real story.

Thanks for reading friends and see you again next time.

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