Chilling with them... As of today January 7, 2022 I really dont have a plan to go out but my elder bro send me some ayuda for my mother. Thanks God the weather here is good. The sun really show up after few days raining. So Im thinking if I have enough time to go to Jeanete's house. After New Year Im not yet visiting them. How's auntie! Hope the queue at the bank is not too long.
God really answered my prayer, its few people only at the atm machine. So I can visit the family of Jeanete. I want to buy some foods but maybe they have still leftover😅. **Fast forward....** **Jeanete's house....** As usual their dogs keeps barking me hahaha. Jeanete's sister open the big gate. Shes doing her laundry along with her mother. Then dannah and faith cooked for a lunch. Its tortang talong(fried eggplant) wowww its one of my fave. Then they tell me "**have lunch here Jean okay**". So I said "**okay okay the food is yummy**". The lechon is very annoying already then the fish is very expensive as of now. We rather to choose vegetables.
Our position when were having a chitchat. Until auntie ask me about "**Helen**". Let me share about helens ex husband. Were not marites ha😅. Helen is open to us, even in her family. Her husband is a seaman then they have 3 kids and they are married in church. All of the sudden her husband having an affair with other woman then he left helen and the kids. How could you imagined a big family then its just a blink! coz he had a mistress. Then I dont know also whos the mistress. Helen's son and my son is classmates in elementary and until now. Helen also is my childhood when were kids but they moved into other house when were in highschool. Their separation happened few years ago when my eldest son is still in elementary. Then I never ask also why coz Im not staying longer at school. I just fetch only my son. Thats the reason Im not fully updated to them. Its weird in helen's situation. **The mistress is....** Ate Rowena show me the photo of a certain Cristina and when I zoom it, oh my God! I know her. She's my batch in highschool and our assistant Majorette in drum and bugle corp. How could Cristina do that. She's beauty and brain and her boyfriend is also a famous basketball player in our batch. I never thought they break up already. Again, Im late hahaha.
She's so pretty right? I cant believed it. I installed my facebook page just to stalked here. She got a new account and were friends in her 1st account. She had daughter already and the father is her ex boyfriend, the basketball player. I never judged Cristina or either Helen coz its their life. Im just concerned with the kids of helen. That time helen is still pregnant when her ex husband left him. How could a father do that in his child. Sometimes he forgot to send money to kids so the kids really called him. They really tell "papa can you send money for our foods". It really hurt for me as a mother how much more for Helen. **Lunchbreak....**
Missed the tortang talong. Until now Im still thinking about Cristina. The only details I know is shes living at Cagayan de Oro City with her daughter. But they lived already at Manila. I add her already in my facebook. Hope soon she will share on me. Were good friends also but not so closed. But shes the one add me in her 1st account. My day bring me a lots of questions. Life is full mystery. You never know the future. Whatever happened dont ever forget your responsibility to your kids. Karma will never missed you, mark my word. Maybe not now but soon. Thats all for today and hope you learned something about my article today. Thanks to my generous sponsors...
**January 7, 2022** **8:09 pm** **Friday** **Philippines** **The fighter mom,** **Jeansapphire39**
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Sis be careful in traveling.but I am happy that you see and got together with your mom.
Thank you sis... Take care also.
Thank you sis.but nice photo
Children are the most beautiful thing in our lives, may their resounding voices and happy laughter always accompany us through life! My parents also divorced after 25 years of marriage, also because of another woman. But my sister and I were adults at that time.
Your right sis but helens childrens that time is are very young. I feel pity to them. They are not prepared in that situation. How could a father do that thing.
In his old age, he wanted to be young... "Grey in the beard, and the devil in the brow," the proverb says. My father has been gone for six months. I won't judge him-it was his choice.
Yuhh sis I agree but hope he dont forget his responsibility to his kids.
I pray to God to take care of her kids for her. What I learnt is we should already be ready for the worse, especially before marriage. Anything could happen. She will be fine. By the way, you looked so good in those pictures.😍
Thanks sis but they are not prepared that time even helen. She cant imagined that it will happened to them. Im totally haggard sis due to some works at home but keep smiling whatever happened.
I was very upset for Helen, how can a father be so irresponsible that he even forgets his children, and leaves his pregnant wife alone and leaves. These people are really hard to believe, I also believe in karma, and as you said, sooner or later he will see the result of his work, breaking the hearts of people, especially innocent children, has consequences...
Me too sis.. Helen really cried that time. Why people like that even they are committed already ang having a kids but still they can leave their own kids.
Paandaron nato pagka marites natu dae be , pwede mana makiha sila ni Helen dae kay kasado man sila. Sa part sad sa lalake grabe sad oy 3 na inyung anak tapos mag Binuang pa jud pero anyway ilaha sad na pero malooy lang ta sa mga bata kay mao man maapektuhan.
Na samukan na suro c helen tpos beleb ko sa laki ba nkya jud nya biyaan c helen ato nga time mski buntis sa bunso nila. Hilak na lng tawn c helen. Wa jud ko mgdahum nga ako batch diay ang mistress.. What a small world😅... Late na sd ko sa maong chika hahaha.
Laging may paayuda si brother sis
Yes sis...di yan nwwla.. Suki na ako sa landbank😅..
Minsan magugulat na lang talaga tayo sa mga bqlita na ganon ano na di natin akalain na mangyayari
Grvh ang shocked ko hanggang ngayon di pa ako nka moved on. Happy family sila sis sa mga photos. Ksi nagstalked ako knina sa fb ni cristina.
I literally hates this kind of people, who shows of their irresponsibility and carelessness towards their family. How can a woman destroy other's woman's happy family in the name of love. I'm not saying that being involve in love is bad, but we need not to destroy any happy family just to please ourselves. I just wish the best for Helen and her kids..
Absolutely... Sometimes we made mistakes without thinking but in that case is not acceptable. They just thinking their own happiness but behind the scene the childrens is the most affected.
Right, this types of cases affects the innocent mind and heart of childrens. We need to understand that we can't destroy other's life in order to get some happiness
The earth is so big, have a lots of guys. You can choose whoever you want. I cant take this kind of situation. But not in a married man with lots of kids.
We can just wish that may Almighty give them some wisedowm and intelligence to control their ill mentality.
Prayers is the only thing we can give to them. Thanks my friend.
I sincerely agree with you, the act of irresponsibility is really despised by me. I don't appreciate it!
It is very sad when parents leave their children. They think that when the bond with the woman ends, the child's dna disappears and they despise him.
Truth maam gertu and for me I can risk my own happiness over my kids. My kids are really important for me. They are my life.
Generally our children are our greatest happiness. I have only one son and he is my greatest wealth in the world.
Yuhh but not all mothers like us. Some also leave their kids. Why you only have 1 son? Better you make it 2 so that he can have a buddy like my 2 sons. They are really closed even their gap is 13 years.
Gulay nalang muna tayo Sis, sobrang mahal ng mga karne haha. Pero matanong ko lang, nagsusustento ba sya sa mga anak niya?
Mahal din ang gulay sis.. Kala mo mkakaligtas ka hehehe. Minsan sis nagka amnesia ang ama kya mga bta ang tumatwag sa knya.. Grvh no nakakaya ng ama yan.
*Aguy, mag Marites sa ko ani..Kabuang man sad sa lalaki sis oi, kabalo man sya nga buntis pa si Helen sa bunso, nakaako jud siya ug biya para lang ni Cristina. Aguy ka irresponsible na man lang niya oi. Naa pud Cristina, kabalo man siya nga married di nalang pud unta nipatol ah, huna2x on pud unta ang sitwasyon sa mga bata, hayss kasamok sa kalibutan...Ka pangalan pa jud si Helen sa akong mama din si Cristina, pangalan sa anak sa among silingan, hahaha*
Makahahay na lng jud ko sis sa panghitabo. Pure dalaga pa baya na c cristinsa so pwede pa mamili ug pure single sd. Lalilman kag tulo kbuok anak ni helen. Ingon gud mama ni Jeanete maghilak bya c helen sa eskwlahan jean. Di mn gud ko mgdugy ug tmbday sa skol mao late ko pirmi sa balita😅. Way puangod iya bana ba. Selfish kaau bsta ky malipay lng sya. Krn pmi kmta sis ui hahaha.
*Sus pud Tawn kalooy pud ni Helen oi. Tulo ka anak gibaylo lang sa kalipay, hastang buanga sa Bana. Nagmahay lang jud na sya kung managko na ng iyang mga anak. Hays, Ginoo na lang bahala anang klaseha sa Bana ba....Haha bag o pa sad mi mahuman ug kaon sis kay late pud mi kamata*
Sobra pa sa luoy. Mga mama sa skol kblo mn ky sympre mga kaila bya ky since elem mgkita mn jud. Wa jud idea c helen mgbinuang iya bana. Mga btch nko wa na kblo ba ky di mna c cristina mg apil apil sa gc namo. Ingon pa auntie ghpon gehurot pa jud sa bna jean ang kwrta sa bangko para ipalit ug sakyanan nila mga 1M kapin dw. Gehubasan c helen. Nagkape pko sis.
*Aguy Kalami man hapakon sa ulo ng Banaha para maka realize unsa ka dakong sayop ng iyang gibuhat. Di jud na sila mag malipayon ni Kristina knowing nga naa'y isang tawo na nasakitan pag ayo sa ilang gipangbuhat. Diyos ko, kaluoy na lamang jud ni Helen oi*
Luoy mulang sis. Buntis pa jud sya ato nga time. Pg mouli iya bana muhapit pa diay ug mnila. Blind kaau c helen ba. Di ko katuo ba sa kdghn anak musimang pa jud diay no. Ambot asa utok ni cristina ba. Syang kaguafa ug ka bright wa gmita.
*Asa d i nag work ang iyang bana?...Basin baya pud ug nabuta sa kagwapa ni Cristina ng iyang bana tapos basin mas malambing si Cristina Mao Iya gibiyaan si Helen. Atay man jud ng kabalo ng naa'y pamilya, musugot man mahimong kabit*
Seaman twn sis mao dako kaau na ug sahod. Siga siga gni sa alahas c helen hahaha. Cge mn manghagad ug kaon sa ila nya layuan mn ko sa ila balay gud. Mski pa ihatod ko nya ug car ky ang oras bya. Monitoring bya dayun ang usa ug asa ko. Murag kaila dw sila daan ky same skol rmi sa laki pero murag ahead sya sa amo ni cristina ug 2 years. Mg ask ko sa iya kaedad. Nahimo nkog marites ani hahaha.
*Ayay, diha na dayon nisulod ng storyang seamanloloko. Ahak man jud ng di makuntento sa isa. Mao siguro ni sugot si Cristina nga mahimong kabit kay daghan man ug kwarta bahala na ug naa siya'y naguba nga pamilya...Ang utok jud gipagana ni Cristina ba, gihuna2x siguro niya nga hayahay Iya life kung mahimo syang kabit kay seaman gud*
Naa mn unta nahumn c Cristina, nurse mna sya. Beauty and brain gni na sya. Di jud nato matantiya ang tao ba. Mga batch namo wa na sila kblo ba. Wa gni ko mupatol anang mga committed pa plus naa pa anak. Mastrike lgi nko drtso, wag ako jud ky di jud ko mudaginot anang makaguba ta ug pamilya ba.
*Na Kana man. Naa man jud uban na di maghuna Huna unsa ang consequence sa ilang buhaton oi basta kay malipay sila. Abi nila ok ra pero wa sila kabalo na naa nay nasakitan...Mas gusto guro niya na mahayahay Iya life, kanang magbuhay reyna Mao bisan ug naa siya'y matumban na tawo ok lang*
Selfish kaau sis no. Di nko kaya ui ky c karma rba di na mananghed ba. Sakit kaau ebalos ana.
*Selfish jud kaayo sila sis ..Aw mag andam2x ra jud sila kay muabot ra jud ang karma anang ilang binuhatan*
Ayha ra dayun ang pgbasul sis ky nakarma nmn tsk tsk..
*Aw Ana jud na sis, Mao na giingon na naa sa ulahi ang pag basul*
It's always the kids who suffer the most. That is how selfish we are when it comes to relationships. We think only of what we can gain from it.
For me Lee its not acceptable ang ganyang style. Bakit may lalaking gnyan no, kinaya nyang iwan ang pamilya para lng sumama sa iba. Ala teleserye lng ang choi.
Sometimes people are so selfish in their decisions and do not think about their children that in the end, they are the ones who suffer the most in separations.
Truth Coqui. Its hard to understand their decisions. Why he can do that to his famiy, are they not enough? Sometimes we made mistakes but not like this. I feel pity for the kids, in their young age they know the situation.
Psssssttt sissy ano un pwd makichicka hahaha , ang galin nmn basketball player ang boy
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