An LDR relationship...

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As of today February 14, 2022 is love month that all people really celebrate it. Not just for lovers only coz it could be celebrated by a bunch of friends and families. But for me is just a normal day and I'm always with my kids. Have a simple dinner and my partner will call via Facebook messenger, it's everyday.

It's been 8 years of being in an LDR relationship. That I never hide it since I begin my journey here. Although sometimes we have some difficulties but we're still with each other. He don't want to lose us, char! Nobody is perfect in this world. Theres an ups and downs in a relationship, right?

So adjustment is real! You will never get a person of your type in this world. You either have to adjust when someone wants to be with you and compromise when you want to be with someone. Adjustment is the key. Don't forget you're human. It's okay to have a meltdown. Just don't unpack and live there. Cry it out. Then refocus on where you're headed.

My partners message through via Facebook messenger

Around 7:35am, my partner send me a message in bisaya dialect,our language but I'll translate it to English. Happy Valentine's bhe...although were always quarelling I still love you so much.. God knows.

His always like that and he knows his mistakes but still I need to adjust all over again. I feel pity on him once I leave him coz he cant count on his siblings. The important thing for them is money. He knows me that I can take good care on him once he gets old.

Videocall before 1pm

Videocall around 6:26 pm

  • Our sked everyday:

7:30am... 10am....12:54noon...3pm....6pm and 8:30pm...

Do I look busy? Thats my everyday routine and sometimes I forgot the time then he scold me of not answering his calls. I just tell him I'm not busy taking care of baby kulot with some household chores that I'm the one doing so don't act that I'm not busy, okay? Sometimes he said sorry but more in silent answer only.

Even I'm too much tired with his attitude but still I keep myself calm and understand him. But how long? I always ask that to myself then I just let God what will be the his answer, soon. Learning patience can be a difficult experience but once conquered you will find life is easier.

Being in a relationship is not really easy as what others think. Not always happy moment but sadness always exist. Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is stong enough to survive. It's really normal. Long term relationships the ones that matter.

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February 14, 2022

8:49 pm

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The fighter mom,

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Ang hirap ng LDR diba tagal din naming nagLDR ng asawa ko. Yung pasensya mo talaga at pangunawa ay talagang kailangan mong habaan ng habaan. That makes you stronger too and the relationship solid!

Happy Valentine's Day sa inyo! ❤

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User's avatar tired_momma
2 years ago

Hirap pero nasanay na din sis ksi everyday nmn tumatawag yan kahit nasa work sya. Di rin yan msydo gumagala sa SG lalo na nong nag covid. Strict country din yan.

Salamat sis at Pee Valentine's day ulit🤗☺️😍.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

All of us has hidden attitude that only our partner can see and knows (admit it or not :)..Tao lang kasi tayo ..hehehe..pero ang mahalaga, strong pa din ang relationship kahit may mga hindi pinagkakasunduan.

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User's avatar Khing14
2 years ago

True ka sis kya habaan na lng pasensiya hanggang kaya pa. Tagal na din namin kya laban lng.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Ka sweet sa mga messages oy maka sana all man sad ta hihi , mura man pud og arabo imong hubby dae. Mao diay liwat si kulot.

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User's avatar Cleophia2
2 years ago

Salamat dae mura lgi arabo na ako partner mao laing lahi dw c bb kulot hahaha.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Dear Jean, you said very nice, a healthy relationship has many ups and downs, sometimes there is anger and sometimes there is reconciliation. Love often works wonders, you just have to be patient with it. I hope you see each other as soon as possible. It is clear that he is always thinking of you, who calls you several times during the day... 😉

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User's avatar Ellen-he
2 years ago

Thanks my dear Ellen and yes always calling. Patience is a virtue when it comes to relationship. Maybe this year he will go home for vacation.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Happy Valentine's Lovebirds laban internet

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User's avatar Murakamii.7
2 years ago

Pee Valentines day also. Laban internet talaga hahaha.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

As usual, it's just a buy day for me . Happy Valentine's day ate hihi. 💚

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User's avatar Mayiee
2 years ago

Busy ka nmn lagi sa skol mo langga kaya normal lng yan hehehe. Pee Valentine's day too.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Maintaining a relationship is not easy and if that relationship have to deal with long distance then it is more hard to maintain. Just as you said, adjustment and compromise are main keys of a good relationship.

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User's avatar Irene1
2 years ago

Indeed sis. If we don't have that, goodbye relationship. We need to build a strong relationship if we need to last.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Sis happy valentines kame video lang din kanina message aga pa pa great great na lang din hehehe OK langbyan sis ganyan talaga up and down

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User's avatar Jay997
2 years ago

Pee Valentine's too sis. Gnyan tlga pg LDR at salamat sa internet diba.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Normal day lang pud nako ng Valentine's day sis. Walay greetings from my partner, akong papa lang ang nag greet, hahaha...Tinuod jud sis, Dili tanan ang happy ang relationship. Naa jud time na maka experience ta ug downs pero ang importante, na overcome tong mga down moments sa life. Bahala ug mag away basta magka okay lang pagkahuman

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Way uso valentine's sko sis mao okay ra sd hehehe. Ang importnte is buhe pa ta. Di mn puro kalipay ang relationship bya mao di sila dapat matingala. Legit jud wa mogreet imo partner ron? Weeee...

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Wala sis kay bawal baya ng ingon Ana sa mga Muslim. Normal day lang jud na sa Amoa...Mao jud sis ang importante buhe ta ug baskog permi

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Hala pati pag greet sis bawal? Krn pko kabalo ana sis, sori kaau. Para sko bsta buhe lng okay nko sis.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Haha ok lang sis, strict lang jud ni siya. Pero nag greet man ko sa uban, di lang gyud mag celebrate

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Same ta sis di sd ko mgcelebrate ky usa pa gasto gasto rana ui hehehe.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Maayo ra na sa mag uyab pa sis, pero pag naa nay anak, mausab na. Ipalit nalang ug pagkaon, busog pa ta kaysa mag celebrate Ana, hehehe

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Tama ka sis! Maayu rana sa mg uyab pa pero pg mag ipon na mgbinunuay na ug kaldero hahaha.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Haha binunuay na d i? Aguy mangabukol ta Ana, hahaha

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Hahaha ana bya ng ubn sis kay alingit na mga ulo ba asa na ug kwrta mangeta diba.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Ana jud sis, mag init ang ulo, bun og ang resulta dayon kay mag away man

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Mao Ng pait sis ky inig kainit sa ulo mgpinatyanay na tpos mdamay na ba mga anak. Kaluoy n lng jud.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Lage sis oi, kung mag away man lang Gani dapat babaay lang, way pasakitay kay luoy ang mga bata dayon

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User's avatar BCH_LOVER
2 years ago

Ako din, normal lang sakin ang ganyan, wala rin naman mag gegreat sakin at magbibigay ng surprisa haha.

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User's avatar Genieljay
2 years ago

Charot genie ah! Talagang wla? Budol ka na nmn hahaha.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Relate, sis. Ok lang yan, may internet naman, Happy Valentine's Day!

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User's avatar Bloghound
2 years ago

Apir sis! Pee Valentine's day too♥️.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago

Apir!

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User's avatar Bloghound
2 years ago

Sis tgal nag appear ng notif na galing syo..pasaway nag edit na lng ako hahaha. Tanchu ulit sis ha.

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User's avatar Jeansapphire39
2 years ago
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