Acceptance is a blessed

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Hello my read.cash fam! My blog today is based only in my own experience. And I hope you can learn some of my tactics how to adjust a people that sorround us. Most of us are really suffering how to handled our in laws. I've been married last 2005 and we have 1 son and that's my eldest.

• My first in laws...

As I enter his family they really accept me and love me. When I got pregnant they take care of me and also my son. So I treat them also good, in real. I've experience to be a breed winner of my own family for four years, my ex don't have a job and just depending only to his parents. I don't like that style coz I know how to earn money by selling something such as chorizo, tocino, Avon, Tupperware and more. I'm a dealer of everything as long as I can earn why not.

My in laws are very good to me and they know me more than my ex husband. So the time that I made decision they accept it coz they know who's the real betrayer. It's my ex husband. I'm lucky to have my in laws coz until now they still love me and still they invite to all the occasions they had but I let my son only and they just give me some bringhouse.

• My second in laws...

As of this morning my partner call me via Facebook messenger and his telling me to go to tiya Lourdes birthday party. Tiya wants us to go there coz last year I'm too shy to attend. The husband of tiya Lourdes is a brother of partners father. Then my partner is the most favorite nephew of tiya.

Tiya Lourdes is our school principal when I was in highschool. That's the reason she really knows me and she's my English teacher in 2nd year highschool. They are friends also with my mother.

When my partner passed the entrance exam at MSU-Iligan Institute of Technology(IIT) for engineering, tiya Lourdes was very proud. So tiya buy some lechon manok and ice cream for my partners house. All the siblings of my partner is really a scholar in College. Sana all diba? As what my partner said "were poor only so we need to study well so that we can have a better future".

• 88 birthday of tiya...

Around 11:30am were ready to go to tiya's house. Upon entering the main door they really welcome me and entertain. Then me and baby kulot bless to tiya. She barely hugged me and she said " why you didn't visit me?". I tell tiya so sorry tiya it's just I'm shy to come here. Then she repeat again what she said to me last year hehehe. That no need to be shy coz I'm always cared for you and to baby kulot.

I'm almost hiding my tears when I talk to tiya and she know how I struggle the siblings of my partner. They are the most embarrassing people I've encountered in my whole life and tiya knows that. She always tell me to let them be, if that will make them happy.

One of the cousin of my partner take some photo for us. And I'm sure they will post that one in Facebook. Goodluck to my fake in laws hahaha(siblings of partner). They are not welcome in that house due to their bad attitude the time that I'm not yet committed to my partner. The family of my partner are really a mess. They are lack of love and understanding. All they want is money..money.. Which is wrong!

In a family we must have unity. Don't be too selfish coz it can cause trouble. We must respect each others. Accept the person to be chosen with our sibling to be his/her partner in life. Instead we must be happy that our siblings find his/her happiness in that person.

• Lunch time...

The birthday party of tiya is just for family only due to Covid. So we're just few only in that house. After the prayer we sing a happy birthday to tiya. I made also a video to send to my partner. Tiya is really happy with her birthday along with her family. Tiyo is died already few years ago and I didn't met him also since I'm in highschool.

Bebe(cousin of partner) tell me to go the room so that I can eat properly coz baby kulot is so kulit. But still his very busy touching all the things in the room. I struggle so hard hahaha. As a mother we really expect that, right? So we must adjust and do something.

They are the cousins of my partner and their kids also is curly hair. They really smiled coz baby kulot inherit it. As a mother I'm very much happy as of this moment. They accept me as a family even if we're not yet married as long as we don't hurt others and we live peacefully. I've meet them already and we know each other for a decades also coz were in the same place.

This is the last part of the event. Pictorials ever as a family. The children's of tiya are all stable and they have a great family that I really admire it. Sometimes it depends on the parents how they handled their kids since their childhood.

Around 2pm I ask permission to them that I need to go home coz baby kulot is sleepy already. Then I greet a happy birthday to tiya before I leave and she said again " visit me soon okay". Then I tell also okay tiya I will.

• What do you see as your best character trait?

As for me its my best ever character trait I had is being good to everyone and know how to adjust the people sorround me. That's the reason they really accept me for who I am. Although were not married in a legal way but I do respect my partner for almost 8 years that his legal wife don't stand on him. Adjustment is the most powerful key to a relationship that everything will going better.

This is my entry to @carisdaneym2 a birthday giveaway. Belated pee birthday caris and wishing you more a blessings.

This entry of mine I dare to tag sis @Cleophia2 . I'll wait for your turn dae ha.

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