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Revealing some facts about my Marital Status

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2 months ago

8th of August 2021

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As what I've said in my previous article, I still have lots of questions to be answered as having in a relationship status. Since I'm having fun answering all of it, thus I'm going to continue answering those in this article.

Again, the questions were taken randomly through this link https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/

Without further ado, let's rock 'n roll.


As far as I remember, I guess it's "Hi". Haha I had nothing more to say at all since were not close, were board mates though but I am not really that friendly to guys.

I asked my partner of what is the first word I said to him. He said, that was when I asked for a water. Haha I asked him of a water to drink. Then, I remember were not yet in a relationship that time.

But when were already boyfriend and girlfriend, he asked me to have a talked and I said yes. Our first talked together were really awkward. I remember that were sitting with 1-meter distance haha. Then just amazed with him because his the one whose very talkative and his not even out of topic and what I did was nodding, saying Yes and just agreed on what he said. Haha I'm shy that time. Of course, I never knew him much that time so it's kind of awkward for me to talked and talked.

The best advice that I received in terms of relationship was the advice of my mother.

One time, I and my partner had arguments because of some misunderstanding and I get back home to my family's place because of that. Due to my anger and pride I was planning to leave my partner that time and won't come back here in his place. But my mom, advice me to not let my pride ruined the relationships we had because we already had a son. She then added, that it's normal to have quarrels but we should knew how to fixed it immediately and not letting our pride hinders the reconciliation and we should always put in mind that we already has responsibilities to take care of and that is our SON.

So far, my mom did a great job for that. Lol

Well, my mother were right when she said that because we knew were not a teenager anymore and we already had a child. If we let our pride dominates between our misunderstandings then our child maybe at risks. So that is why, we tried our best not to make the fuss big and will fixed that immediately. I'm just lucky as well since my partner will not allow the day to end if we can't fixed our fights.

Friends with my exes? I don't think so. From the definition of friendship, I don't think I am friend of any of them. Because when we said FRIENDS, you can share to him/her your sentiments and worries and that wasn't applicable to my exes. Maybe a casual talked, or if I had something I need to asked to them and beyond that nothing more. So, I can't say that I am their friend and vice versa.

No. I don't think so.

In our case, I and my partner were very transparent. I knew his past relationships and everything happens to them since his sharing that to me as well as he knew also mine. He always said to me that it should not be kept hidden since it was the reason why he or we are able to kept our relationships more stronger since we learnt more lessons from our past relationships and we already applying that in ours. That's why, it somehow helped us to be more matured in terms of staying or being in a relationship.

Woaahh. Such a deep question. Honestly, it's so hard for me to answer this question since happiness is what we need in this life. But to compromise happiness just for the success of a relationship then maybe if it's feels like the right thing to do, so be it. Just make sure that you will still be happy in the end and had the feeling of fulfilment. Since, it seems unfair in our part as well if not.

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In our case, we just put together our money and everytime he had money he will just gave that to me as well. But if we both need to buy something, we both talked on that and agreed on that as well. If one of us, won't agree then we won't buy it. It's just like that.

So, this is the last question I had randomly picked for this challenge.

Biggest fears in a relationship. Maybe it's the fear of losing both of us. I had fear of losing him since we had already a child. I won't be fear of this if we don't have a kid. But since we already had, it made me fear in some way. Because, I can't imagine and can't endure the pain my son would feel if ever he will grow up without a father. That's totally a No No for me. I don't like also the fact that my kid will sees us both broken, a broken family to be exact. I don't want our son to experienced that since we both have a complete family even though my partner doesn't have parents already since they were already in the other dimension of this life but still they wasn't a broken a family. That's why we won't let our son experience that since we both being raised with a complete family.


That was it everyone. My response to the challenge initiated by @Eybyoung for the taken.

Hopefully you'd also enjoy reading this trying hard piece of mine. Lol

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I actually added that question would you compromise your happiness for the success of relationship and that combining finances but already forgot haha thanks for answering it, it was an interesting questions.

Indeed when we already have a child we have to consider a lot of things before we decide because our kids will be the one to suffer more.

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2 months ago

Truth ka talaga sis, every decisions dapat prioritized ang bata

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2 months ago

Kaya nga hirap kasi talaga pag broken fam dyan na papasok yung e give up mo ba happiness mo para lang mag stay sa Relationship para lang sa mga bata

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2 months ago

Tama Kaya need understanding talaga sa mag partner para I was sa ganyan

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2 months ago

We cannot just think of our own when we really have our child. Sa una buwag2 sajon ra kaajo, pero once nga naa nay anak, di na ana kadali mam no. Maju gani motambag jod atong mga nanay

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2 months ago

Di na oyyyy, di na basta2 lang mubuwag always prioritize ang bata gyud

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2 months ago

Kaajo ang bata man jod maapektuhan

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2 months ago

Mao gajud maong d lalim , dapat magkasinabit gyud

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2 months ago

Your mom did the best thing to advice you as a good mother and thank God you are still together. Having a joint account, I would say I can't do that or better still, I would have my own account which would be safer. I don't know why I don't go with the idea of having finance account and together with my partner.

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2 months ago

Yes we choose to stay together because we have our son but of course there’s still love in it.

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2 months ago

Ang lisura anang ing.ana mamsh uie.. Mag.aginud siguro ko kung ako ang naa sa sitwasyon. Maguol man gani ko ug kana ra'ng dili magkasinabut.. How much more na kung ing.ane..

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2 months ago

Lisud memsh pero makasanayan ra kadugayan man, importante jud magkasinabot

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2 months ago

Yan dn ang Yaw ko makita mg anak ko incase magka family ako.. Yung broken family. . sana all nlng sa taken 😅

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2 months ago

Ang hirap pag broken fam kasi sis, kawawa ang anak, yan ang obserbasyon sa mga may broken fam kaya ayaw kung mangyari sa anak ko

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2 months ago

Kya nga ayoko mag asawa.. Bka maging broken fam lng 🤣

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2 months ago

Hindi naman sis, depende lang sa inyo yan... Positive lang para atang na phobia kanang mag jowa sis ahhhh heheh

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2 months ago

Haha..parang ganun 🤣

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2 months ago

Ouuchhy , wag naman sis. Masayang magmahal at mas mas masaya pag minamahal 😅

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2 months ago

Kaso waley nagmamahal. 🤣

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2 months ago

Meron yan sis, baka nasa tabi2 lang dinededma mo lang haha

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2 months ago

Haha.. Ayoko nsa tabi tabi lng bala adik yun 🤣

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2 months ago

Hahahaha, adik sayo sis

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2 months ago

samin ate ako yung maingay tas sya ung tahimik at madalas seryoso HAHAHAHA

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2 months ago

Before nung bago pa kami sya lang maingay ngayon kami na pareho hhaha

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2 months ago

Ayaw lagi pagpride-pride madam.😅 Mao pud nay akong batasa sauna madam. Sobra kataas sa akong pride. Mao ng ug mag-away mi sauna, dili sa na sij muduol nako hangtud wa pa ko nahuwasan sa kalagot.😁

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2 months ago

Ana man jud tale madam oyyy, taas man gud ta ug pride baje

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2 months ago

He never runs out of topic because he's loving the girl he's talking to and she's YOU. 💗 I'm so kiligggg here haha

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2 months ago

Charrss ganun ba yun hhahaa, Kinilig din ako ahh haha

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2 months ago

Kakakiliggg talaga ateee hehe

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2 months ago

hehhee nasaan na kasi ang sayo

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2 months ago

nasa ibang tao pa haha, jwk hehe

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2 months ago

Haha sakit naman nyan kung nasa ibang tao pa, yun na lang wala sa iba ang sayo haha

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2 months ago

Masakit? Di naman hahaha sakto lang

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2 months ago

Parang nasanay nalang ahh hehe

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2 months ago

sanay na sanaay ate Janz😂

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2 months ago

Ouch immune na pala dear hehe

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2 months ago

Hahaha yes po

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2 months ago

Wow your article is very amazing which help me to understand the status or relationship. But I’m experience that loyal or honest love is very rare in the world .

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Thank you for appreciating my article, I love it when there’s someone gets a lesson or realizations from my works. Have a nice day to you and nice to meet you as well 😊

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2 months ago

Ang pera ni mister pera din ni misis 😁

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2 months ago

Ganun na nga mamsh

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2 months ago

Ma imagine man nko ang 1meter distance dhai uy😂, anyway. I think mostly cguro sa parent best advise jud nila ng need e fix ang relationship ug dili .mag dali2 ug desisyon samot na ug nasuko ka, that was happened to me as well before.,☺️

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2 months ago

Mao lage, ahong pares wa sad mitoo naho kay naa pa daw ko sa kasuko usa na kunu sija mutoo ug mag decide nga wa nasuko

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2 months ago

Friends with any of your exes? Hehehe. Pwede ko mu try ani ate?😁

The biggest fears of relationship daghan kaayo ate...

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2 months ago

Sure sel, rooting for your version ani

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2 months ago

Thank you so much ate..😊

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2 months ago

welcome

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