Unconcealable Character

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August 29, 2022

One thing that I could get when reading articles, aside from life stories of different individuals, is the knowledge and thoughts to ponder. I came across this article the other by @Olasquare saying, Give Me Character, Please. Later on the same day, I stumbled upon @ARTicLEE's post about Beautiful On The Outside. Did they share the same thoughts on that day? They all tackled beauty and character.

This reminded me of my post many months ago about We Are All Beautiful, It's The Character That Makes Us Ugly. Different people and stories I encountered in the past related to the matter were shared in my post. And a lot of people out there share similar beauty and characters.

It seems that the world nowadays is full of aesthetics and deceptions. People are into beautifying their physical character just to be accepted by society and to avoid criticism because a lot are judgemental. The flaws can be masked on and off the screen. Even emotion can be concealed because we all are great pretenders.

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We all are great at pretending we are okay if deep inside we are bleeding. We are great at pretending we know things just so as not to be called ignorant or humiliated. And what's concerning as generation changes is that lesser truths are being revealed because they can be concealed. Systems can be manipulated, and even history can be tampered with.

Some people would pretend to be good in front of others for the sake of getting a good reputation. But as he turns back, the real image will appear when no one is seeing him. It's easy for us to conceal our physical flaws and change things to look good in the eyes of others, but one thing that can not be hidden forever is our real character.

Those kinds of people are just beautiful on the outside but with dark souls on the inside. They seem to focus on beautifying their physical characteristics but not their character.

I knew some and encountered a lot. There is one I know that's pretty, tall, and sexy. But once she talks, your perception of her will change and if I were her parent, I would disown her. Some say it depends on the upbringing, but some have good parents but grew up into a wild sheep. It's not really all parents' fault that some have bad characters, it depends on what path he/she wants to take and what kind of individual he/she wants to be.

Some even grow up in slums and all kinds of characters are there, but end up being good individuals. It's probably because they don't want to end at the same fate as others and so they opt to follow a better path, for a better change.

Some look ugly, but with a pure heart. They will receive all kinds of criticism in the world, but nothing could ruin their good character. Rather, they would build better ones to withstand all challenges thrown at them by this judgemental society.

It is worth noting that building a good character is much more important than anything else. We may grow up in a bad environment, but we shouldn't allow the dirt of the world to put a stain on our character. We always have the choice to either be bad or good anyway. It's always our choice, not anyone else. And no matter how we cancel our flaws, our real character will always prevail.

Time flies and everything changes, a once poor can be rich, a once rich can be poor, we age, our beauty fades over time, we get old, and we die but our good character would remain in this physical world that will be remembered forever.

So instead of focusing on how to be beautiful in the eyes of others, you rather focus on building a good character that no one could criticize and that will last forever.

We all are beautiful. It's only our character that makes us ugly!


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Character is like a smoke that has no hiding place once a fire is ignited. Anyone with funny character cannot hide it for long, sooner than expected it will surface for others to see.

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2 years ago

Our character is the greatest weapon ate. It will not fade as time goes by.

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2 years ago

I agree. It is the character that is all in our human identity. But, nowadays people learn to portray a fake character with a behavioral mask. Some personal image consultants teach the art of faking!

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2 years ago

I can't blame anyone who is untrusting because of all the pretentions and fake we see around us all the time.

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2 years ago

We all are pretender. Almost all. We don’t care about the beauty of soul in maximum cases. We care about what people will say about it. People's comment is significant for us but not our own instinctive wants or happiness. And the social media is helping us to create a new character which is often remote from our true instinct.

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2 years ago

Everything is getting fake now, sweet Janeey and it's scary. The attention people are giving to their physical appearance is getting out of hand. It's okay to look good....in fact I like when people look good but they are focusing too much on the minor while they are minoring in the major... Character should be taken seriously. Beauty attracts... character keeps what beauty attracts.

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2 years ago

True... It's still better to become beautiful inside and out..

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2 years ago

Exactly...in and out Janeyyyyy... Absolutely.

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2 years ago

Totoo yan miss Jane. People are good in pretending kasi takot silang malaman ang totoo. Yung nakaramdam ka na pala ng pain pero yung pinapakita mo is masaya ka sa harap ng tao.

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2 years ago

I believe good character stems from good home training and the person's willpower to just be good. Two different people might have superb upbringing and they both live in the slums. One might grow up to be an upright person while the other grows up to be a person with questionable character. The first one chose to have good character, while the second person gave in to the pressure of the environment he lives in. In the end it's just a matter of choice

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2 years ago

True.. We all have good and bad characters. It's up to us which side we want to take over our whole character..

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2 years ago

It is unfair to put all the blame or praise on the parents for the upbringing of the kids. Some people fail to understand that there are more factors. Environment and innate personality are two examples.

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2 years ago

Say this one more time ate. Gosh! Yeah we have to build our character first rather than pleasing others. Such a waste of time of doing it.

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2 years ago

Although society forces us to do so. But we can actually build both if we want to..

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2 years ago

Even emotion can be concealed because we all are great pretenders.

A big pretender. Sometimes I wonder if people can just be sincere without keeping their real self in them? Humans are wicked and their hearts rotten.

but one thing that can not be hidden forever is our real character.

Our character is like a smoke. It will come out someday. So, we can never hide it.

Some say it depends on the upbringing, but some have good parents but grew up into a wild sheep.

I wouldn't blame some parents here because they really tried, but some children just decide which way to go.

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2 years ago

True like someone I know... Good parents and well-supportive.. But the child just takes advantage of their good hearts and takes them for granted...the child opted to follow the path he wants and became a wild sheep.. I guess parents should also not spoil their kids too much..it has disadvantage as well

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2 years ago

Yes, it has. Though parents takes care of some children who decides to go their own path, but too much of treatment and spoiling will make them take their parents for granted.

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2 years ago

They say "A good name is better than the best perfume" , I will rather go for someone with good character than go for someone with a beautiful face but a bad character.

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2 years ago

Same..the real character lies deep within not in the physical aspect..

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2 years ago

I read both of their articles that day. Sad truth, many are concern now with their phyiscal appearance rather than values. I know several persons that are like that, indeed shallow

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2 years ago

Me too.. As if they weren't taught in school good manners and the right conduct

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2 years ago

People take on characters that do not reflect themselves in order to be accepted in society. He wants to make himself accepted. I'll sign under this: We are all beautiful. It is only our character that makes us ugly!

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2 years ago

That's the ugly of our society..

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2 years ago

God save us from such people. such people are hypocrites

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2 years ago

Faking things such as emotion and mood is a very tiring job, like pretending everything is fine and okay for the sake of things under the climate of hereon, but I do enjoy this thing yet I am honest and open that I also have this 'unconcealable character', especially those people who provokes haha, I am good to good and not for those who do bad, char eme bum booom.

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2 years ago

I was about to say that last part of yours.. My character also depends on the kind of people I am dealing with...I can be a great best friend and worst enemy. Char

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2 years ago

It may look like I talk in riddles most of the times, but one day all it's left is the legacy we create and what others think about us

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2 years ago

True.. So live a life we will remember 😊.. And will be remembered

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2 years ago

The only issue is that this is so easy in theory but so hard to apply

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2 years ago

Indeed, I agree. However nowadays a person's character is 90% society's standard of choice and 10% personal's choice.

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2 years ago

The sad reality.. But may natitira pa namang 100% real hehe

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