There are a lot of things may happen in our lives. All of this circumstances are not predicted. A thousands of days will shock on us. This kind of scenarios are unbelievable.
I have unforgettable experience which until now I couldn't forget. There are a lot of realizations came up starting the unexpected scene occur.
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Throwback
I was in my second year highschool. I entered in the world of Folkdance. My co-dancers are friendly, I said it already at my previous article. I saw a guy there, he was really attractive also because he was very neat and he was what we called "Chinito". The most I like him which is his attitude because he was so friendly and approachable. You can never felt any shyness to him.
When my trainer, chose who would be our partner, unexpectedly he was my partner. The time when he was already my partner I am really thankful since he was really a good dancer. He was the one who assisted our trainer during practice. Everytime there was a new steps, he easily understand to perform those steps. I was amazed to him. So I don't have any worries during practice because he was the one who taught me on how to executed the steps correctly.
Until we became close since he was my partner too. We always talked random things then until we became best friend. Our call sign as bestfriend is "Partz". He was the one who chose it. I asked him why was it then he said he love it. He was really open to me. If he has a problems, he always shared it to me. Honestly I'm really comfortable with him, he's like a brother to me. I don't know why if I'm with him, I felt safe. He was really caring but honestly I didn't have any strange feelings to him. It's only a friend.
Until the day came changes since one of the folk dancers became my boyfriend. It was the time when we told about our relationship then he was mad at me that time because I hide him a secret since we're best friends, I asked him a sorry that time. He understand it immediately that's why I like his attitude. It was the time I keep distance from him because my boyfriend got jealous to him.
The painful days unexpected came by, my boyfriend cheated on me. "I have an article about this". It was really painful. I never showed them that I cried but my best friend came into me since he knows I'm deeply hurt. I cried in front of him. I was full of regrets but the wound fastly heal because of him since he always making me smile like everyday. He always gave me a snacks. He always dancing in front of me and teach me all the time. He always told me funny jokes. He always invited and get me from our house everytime during his birthday. I'm always thankful him. He drew me also then he sent it to messenger and that was the time I teased him because of his drawing.😁 I asked him what happened to my face? Are you sure this is me? Of course it was a joke.😁He only laughed at me. I said to him thank you, I appreciate it a lot.❤️
The unforgettable things that he make me amazed that he's doing his best to take care of me when after our competition that time. Our first Folkdance competition held during night, it was already finished at 10:30 pm so it was 11 pm when we back home but I felt sleepy that time, I didn't noticed I slept already. I was shocked since there's someone who awakes me and it was him. He brought a wet towel then he said I will clean my face because it's not good to sleep having a make up on my face. I appreciate him a lot. I am so thankful that time.❤️
The Unbelievable Confession
Until one time, he called me at the stage. It was our break time. We were two only talking at the stage. It was the time he was kind a little bit strange then suddenly he said there's something he wanted to say. A lot of hesitations and changing his mind every minute. He was like somewhat his self full of shyness so I was curious what happened to him. I insisted him that he must told me whatever it was. I never expected that it would happened.
He said fastly "I like you a lot Partz!" I was in a silent moment. I couldn't believe what I've heard but I chose to stay calm then asked a questions. When he started feel this kind of feelings? He said when he met me first, he just somewhat like love at first sight on me. He told me also that when the time I told them that we were an official with my ex-boyfriend. He was deeply hurt but he chose to accept because he didn't have a right. He said he always talking about me to his parents and he was really proud that he have a bestfriend like me.
After those confession, I don't know what I'm going to say for him. I am speechless. I realized it is been too long that he like me a lot but he choose to hide it since we are best friend. The problem is I don't have any feelings for him. It's only bestfriend but he is really special to me. No more than friends. I explained it to him calmly. He cried but he understand. He said he still happy and thankful that I became a bestfriend to him.
He told me that I will promise him that nothing will change after the confession.
Until now we are still bestfriend but never got a chance meeting him. I missed him a lot!🥺
FINAL THOUGHTS:
Anytime there are a lot of unexpected situations you will encounter. We should learn how to response with those random scenes. We cannot predict it, maybe tomorrow, next days and next months we don't know. We should always prepare ourselves with this.
Even it's hurtful, you need to be honest of that person. It will worst the situation if you stand to the lie words. Don't gave them a hopeful days if you know that it will never had a chances. It's good to be straight forward than to a fake one. Just be honest, prove it!
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Thank you everyone. I hope I give you a worthy time with this article of mine.
God bless and stay safe always.🙏
-JRamona20 💜
Being true to our feelings is one way of preventing someone getting hurt even more and what you did to your bestfriend is the right thing! Though it's very hard in his part coz i know how it feels being in the friend zone situation. You're way of rejecting him a friendly manner surely comfort him, and for sure he move on easily because you're always there for him anyway, what are friends for,hehe