The "Self Lessons" I learned from being Alone
It's been two years, I travel far away from home for work. This is my first time since I graduate from my course. I believe and I can say that the first time is the most difficult. You can't explain, the hardest times you encounter a lot of random things, a mixed emotions.
Mostly I am alone. The two years give me a lot of lessons. I learned a lot of things, a lot of realizations. It helps me to understand the meaning and the things which been part in my life journey.
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Avoid and Stop Overthinking
This is the lesson I learned at first. Stop being an over thinker because it will worst the situation. It will make you weak. It will make you demotivated. The hopes are gone. You are the one who bring yourself down.
Overthinking is a real enemy. It's in our mind, from ourselves. You are the one who can stop it. You are the who can control it even there are million advises you will get from the others if you didn't make an actions with it, nothing will happen and it will be useless.
I experience a serious depression because of being an over thinker. I felt the pain and sadness. The worst I felt it was always with me. I cried a lot of times, endless days. The reason also I experience a head pains for four months. A painful experience in my whole life back year 2020. The worst year I have. Overthinking can kills your happiness and hopes in life.
Please stop overthinking. It doesn't help you. It will lead bigger complications and worries in yourself through your life. Don't start it, do quickly ways. Divert your mind into a positivity or recreational activities that will help you. Do it seriously and always remind yourself.
Be Brave Anytime
This is really important. You should be brave always. It's the key for the survival in life like facing challenges or difficulties. It will help you to become stronger then fight those struggles you have. It will make you stand whatever happens and it's the most important thing we need to do.
You can't easily losing hopes. It will serve as a weapon to face the life. You will not break easily. You will not easily to give up. You will learn how to fight those painful circumstances which exist in unexpected time, unexpected places.
You should learn and apply it from yourself because in case of hardest scenarios no one can help you but it's yourself only. You should teach yourself how to be brave. It's for your own good.
This is the lesson I learned because I am a weak person. No one can help me immediately but my own self that's why I started to learn to become brave person. I always remind myself from this thing to make me more stronger. It's for my own sake especially when I have an illness since I'm alone, I need to be braver, it's not only for me but to the people who are important to me especially my family.
If I am always weak and don't know how to fight, it will make the situation to be bigger and worsen. It's not good. It's the worst. You should find a ways how to surpass it and solve it and it will happen if you are brave or stronger one.
LIFE LESSONS:
We need to choose the things that is good for us. The things that will help us. Don't let yourself to be part of the things that will ruin your lives. You should be aware. Always in advance.
Don't let the bad things, the difficulties put you down. Don't create a problems to yourself. Please avoid those not acceptable things and the distractions. Always be in positivity. Look the inspirational side not the darkest one. Always be fast and looking some ways for diversion of a one thing to be place in a good set.
Life situations is not predictable. You should be ready every minute. Be prepare. Be strong. Be brave. Fight those challenges!
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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some thoughts with this article of mine.
God bless everyone. Stay safe always. 🙏
-JRamona20 💜
Indeed a great realization sis. Overthinking is actually a silent killer of our hopes and dreams.