In terms of a relationship, a lot of struggles part of it. You cannot say that if a couple together in a long years it means forever. No it's not like that, it's always depend of a person.
It's depend of a couple how to handle to maintain a healthy relationship. If you are not destined with each other then you are not. Years and months is just a number.
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Last September we chatted with my cousin since he invited me to his wedding. But before that we're going to flashback what happened before his wedding.
I'm working in Cebu City last year, we were always seeing each other with my cousin. There are times at weekend I went to their house to have a bonding time also with my aunt and uncle.
My cousin also the one who take care of me when I am suffering with my illness. He is the first who assist me and bring me to the hospital for the check-ups before I met the doctor. We are very close and he's really kind, religious and gentleman. One time he told me the story about her ex-girlfriend since I was curious too why did they break up.
The first reason, the relationship is not healthy anymore. They are always fighting each other. They are already five years in relationship that time. He said when he was having a trip regarding also with his work, his ex-girlfriend always chatting him and always starting a fight because the reason is the jealousy. He said there's nothing to be jealous. He explained to her but nothing change she still angry.
When he went back to Cebu City, his ex-girlfriend starting avoiding him and never chatted to him even text or call. She ignored all of it. He said he gave some time to her to relax and to calm down. One day, he saw his ex-girlfriend with another guy in Facebook. The main reason why did they break up and never met again.
My cousin was deeply hurt what he saw and he couldn't believe it. He cried that time. He learned a lot of lessons and realizations too. After one year and a half he was having a new work and there was a girl he met. His co-workers teased him to that girl until he decided to talk to that girl and they became close each other. He made his decision to court her and they became an official together.
When I decided to worked in Cebu City finally I met his girlfriend. I was shocked since they're like a brother and sister since they have a similar faces. I have in my mind surely that she will be the girl who destined to my cousin. I like her because she's kind, respectful and religious person. I'm really comfortable to her.
Now, they are four years in a relationship. Finally last September they got married. When my cousin chatted on me, I'm really sad since I'm far away. I don't want to travel too because of the virus. I explained it to him. I know he was very sad since I promise him to attend his wedding before I travel here in Manila.
In this picture, I felt cried to my cousin. Finally he's married with his girl the one he love after what happened on his past relationship. When he is so down and out of himself. When the times, he said it's hardly to move on. Everyday he was so lonely of what happened that he couldn't expected. No days he didn't cried. He was deeply broken. He said he always going on the top of Cebu to enjoy and to forget all the things.
I congratulate them. I chatted with my cousin on their wedding day. I want to go there when he send me a pictures.
I love the motif on their wedding. When I saw this picture I felt the happiness to my cousin. I felt cried at last the dream he want in life he achieve it already.
"I am so happy for them. Wishing them both a happiness and fruitful life. Stay strong whatever challenges in life since it's part in our lives."
"Put God as the center in their marriage life. God bless with their new chapter of life. I am grateful to God since he always guide them until they married."🙏
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Thank you everyone. I hope I give you some life thoughts with this article of mine.
God bless everyone. Stay safe always.🙏
-JRamona20 💜
Best wishes for them Ms. Ramona! Basin ikaw napod sunod. Joke haha