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Self Weakness: Trauma Flash me Back! This is what I hate everytime I have my period. I have my dysmenorrhea and it's really painful. It's really hard to move. What are those things I hate everytime I have this? I know mostly of the girls can relate this. **• Demotivated** Yes! I felt demotivated everytime I have it. I don't have a mood. I cannot focus what I've been doing. If there will be a task I wanted to finish but my body didn't cooperate. I can't concentrate. It will change my mood.
Yesterday I wanted to cook some viands, I wanted to have a soup but when I started to get the ingredients I felt my body doesn't cooperate and it gives me a headache. I didn't have a choice but to put back all the ingredients I get that's the reason I hate it. Being demotivated running inside of me everytime I have this. Yesterday there were a lot of clothes to be laundry too but at the end I didn't do the laundry because of this kind of feeling. I felt demotivated all the time. It's really hard. This is the most disadvantage if I have this. **• Pains** Yes! Pains make me feel demotivated. Having a dysmenorrhea is not a joke. It's really painful. Sometimes I cried because of the pains. What I did sometimes I went to the bed and hugged a pillows so that I couldn't feel the pain a lot. This is the part I have fears when my dysmenorrhea get started. Sometimes it makes me dizzy that's why everytime I have a dysmenorrhea I didn't walk because my body and head felt dizziness. The hardest part when the dysmenorrhea became worst. I hate it a lot because it's really painful!
Unending cry happened everytime I have it. When I was still in our house everytime I have a dysmenorrhea I always cried that's the reason why my mom always worried about me. Sometimes it makes her panic. **• Uncomfortable** Yes that's true! Everytime I have it I felt uncomfortable that's the reason I didn't go outside. It will ruin my mood then. I have a lot of worries so it's better to stay at apartment everytime I have it. There's a lot of what ifs in my mind. If there's a time I went outside I always hurried to get back home. I'm not comfortable in the outside everytime I have a period. **The Experience makes me Trauma** It was Saturday morning, my sisters and I went to town to buy some school supplies and have a supermarket too. It was a sunny weather that time and I have my period. When we went inside the boutique to buy some school supplies for my sister, I started felt dizzy. I felt like I wanted to vomit. I felt worst. I didn't know what I'm going to do. I felt pains in my body. I felt scared. I ran outside from the boutique and ran to the side of road. I waved my uncle to get me but he didn't understand me immediately and he waved me back also. The pain getting worst, the reason I fell on the ground my uncle got shocked and shouted. They ran to me with the other drivers too. They took me to the hospital immediately. It's the reason why I'm really scared to go outside if I have my period because of that experience. I have a trauma already. I remember the pain that I felt that day it was the worst and it was really unexplainable. Until now, I remember that day. It was one of the most painful experience I had. There were a lot of people in town got panic when they saw me fell at the ground especially my sisters and my uncle. I was really scared what was it and what could be the reason but it was my period. A traumatic experience that teach me and give me an awareness with all my actions during monthly periods. *Yesterday...* Since I was in my room only, it was already evening then I was glad because the pain lessen a bit and it gives me a little comfortable that's why I get my bag. I love collecting cosmetics since I was in college. It's been a long time I didn't use it. Now I only use lipstick only because that's my partner wanted to. He don't want me to wear any make-ups. I missed it already that's why I tried it again and put it into my face. When I was done, I took some selfies.
__________________________ `Thank you so much. I hope I give you some worthy time with this article of mine.` `God bless everyone. Stay safe always. 🙏` `-JRamona20 💜`
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Alas, it seems like you are in pain, sis, and you, sis, should really focus. This also sis it is also amazing to read and hope you get well sis.
Thank you so much sis. Thank you for your concern. ❤️
So sorry honey, only ladies can relate. Don't worry it won't take much time, it will go away, its advice able not to use drugs as most time, it exposes us to Peptic ulcer disease. So I will advice u stay calm. Everything will be fine . much love from here
Thank you my friend. This is help me a lot. This is my first time to know about the Peptic Ulcer. Now I know. Thank you my friend.
You are always welcome dear, so how are you feeling today?
I'm okay now a little bit my friend. Thank you for asking.
We men are not more aware of your pain,, Man cannot be called the suffering of others without his own experience... I pray to Allah that you get rid of this very soon..
Thank you for your words my friend. I appreciate it a lot. ❤️
Guafa ni marimar ui hehehe. Pamahin sa kaguapa sis ba. Bitaw dysmenorrhea mn pud ko sis mao 2 days di jud ko maligo nya di sd ko muinom tambal para lng mwla kdli na di jud sanayon na sis. Mamugnaw ko sis bsta naa ko period.
You're pretty sis. 🥰 Gayud sis sakit kaayo sis ako sis whole week di maligo pag naa pakoy regla. Oo sis lain sa pamati sis.
Hahaha buyag ka diha sis ui!maau ky abtan kag 1 week ky ubn di bya traw kakaya pero nsa 3 days rko kutob ky inig 4 days mdyo di nmn kaau sakit. Wa may mwla ug di ta maligo at least di ta mgsuffer tungod sa kasakit. Naa ko dm mya sa imuha pero mulakw sko sis. Kapoy ko ron adlawa ba.
Btaw friend lisuda jud btaw, hasta gani sad ko friend makairita ug I have my period too hahah charss ra btaw friend diko ka relate ani😅 Peru base sa mga nabatian nakos mga frnd nko before, sakit jud btaw kuno na sa puson? Di lalim ma baje frnd noh.
Sobra friend. Arang kasakit sa puson friend. Makahilak gayud kas kasakit friend. Sakit na bug at kaayo imung puson tas wala kay gana friend.
I'm so sorry dear...we are on this same boat together. When it's that time of the month for me, it's usually hell and it's so painful. I simply just stay at home when it's weekends and if it falls on weekdays I have tons of mood swings.
Yes my friend we're the same. We prefer to stay at home when we had our monthly periods my friend.
Kapoy jud ug naa atu bisita maamsh relate jud Kay ko ol-ol ako bagtak ug sakit ako bat ang
Gayud mamsh tinuod na sakit kaayo atong bat ang mamsh. Mao sad na akong dili ganahan.
Menstrual cramps really is not a joke. Yung sakit na maramdaman grabe un. Pro ang ganda mo nmn J.
Oo kleh grabe. Arang kasakit kaayo. 🥺 Hehe di naman kleh. Mas pretty kaw kleh. 🥰
Luckily when I have my period I don't usually have dysmenorrhoea, but I do have that mood swing. I easily get irritated and I don't even want to be touched by anyone 😂. However dysmenorrhoea isn't really a joke, but that dizziness is unusual, have try to ask a doctor why you always felt dizzy every time you have period sis? Anyway your still beautiful, even without make up.
Dysmenorrhea is really painful sis. Yes I felt dizzy and I don't know why sis. 🥺 Thank you sis. ❤️
Can I share the burden? Just kidding ate. Madalas kapag may ganyan kapatid ko, hindi talaga yon nakilos sa bahay. Ako halos gagawa ng mga gawaing bahay. Days ang inaabot bago mawala yan eh. I hope you are okay ate. Anyways, ang ganda naman talaga. Join na sa MissU. Awie.
Lmao. You need serious, where I suppose dey?
Oo Marc ganyan mga babae Marc. Basta meron na halos di makakilos kasi masakit puson namin at balakang Marc. Hehe salamat Marc. 😊
Sorry about your situation, I am a guy so I can't say I know how it feels. But I do have female friends, and I see how they get when it happens.
I just know say I go see you here 😂
Yes aimure. During menstruation it's really painful aimure. 🥺
I can very much relate to thjs. Meron di. Ako ngayon, pero maigi nalang talaga ay di masakit. Nagkaka dysmenorrhea lang ako talaga kapag di ako nagkaroon ng isang buwan ee kapag may lakdang ba.
Nagkakalakdang ka sis? Yung ba yung hindi ka dadatnan isang buwan? Oo sis yung dysmenorrhea talaga grabe. 🥺
Ang pretty pretty talaga. 😍 naku sis I had dysmenorrhhea nung dalaga pa ako, eventually sabi nila kapag nagkaanak daw eh mawawala yan which I guess totoo kasi di ko na sya naranasan ngayon. Pero since dalaga ka pa try mo maghot compress then inom ka pain reliever para mabawasan ung sakit.
Totoo ba yan sis. Siguro totoo nga sis. Grabe sis pag dysmenorrhea na pinaka ayaw ko talaga kasi ang sakit sis. 🥺 Hehe salamat sis. 😁
Buti nalang talaga hindi ako naging babae. Pero ang ganda nyo po. Di bale nalang sigurong magka dysme minsan basta ganyan kaganda. 😅
Hehe ang hirap maging babae friend. Haha di naman friend. 😁
Sobrang tinatamad din ako pag may dalaw akod ate ganda haha. Like gusto ko lang humilata buong araw and do nothing huhuh. And these are the moments when I wish to a boy.
Oo langga sobra. Yung gusto lang natin humihiga lang langga. Nakakatamad talaga.
I also felt the same way my friend whenever I have my period. But then, as of these days, my period was still out from the frame. I have PCOS though so I have irregular period. Sometimes it never appears for months, sometimes it won't stop for months. Either of the two, it's traumatizing on my part. I even collapsed one time when it was flowing heavily.
Sorry about the experience Ramona, it's just one of the few painful things women have to go through. Although I don't know how painful it is, but I have seen my girlfriend cry when she's on her period, so I know it must be very painful.
This 'girlfriend' wey you dey write up and down, I never hear o
Laughs in hidden 🌝
Dzahh kagwapa uyyy
I always told my wife be natural don't use makeup. I like to see her with natural look.
So rang hirap talaga pag may period tapos kailangan mong kumilos dahil may dapat kapang trabaho na gagawin hayss buhay nga naman pero blessings parin sis
yung hindi talaga nakikisama yung katawan mo sa gusto mong gawin sis, yun talaga ang nakakainis..
Aww sorry to hear that. Are you okay right now?
grabe ka naman ate magka period huhu ako eh simula manganak ako eh naging normal na din cycle ko tapos halos wlaa na matinding feeling di tulad noon na gusto ko na magpa ospital. pa check up ka ate baka need na din ma check ano lagay ng ovary? minsan ganun un diba?