An Early Morning Lessons and Realizations

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1 year ago

I wake up early this morning, I watched a movie. An old movie. It was released year 1998. I saw it in TikTok that's why I got curious and searched it on YouTube then it was available. I started watching, it was really emotional. I cried many times.

While watching, I realized that there are situations in a relationship that even a person change a lot to his nor her love ones but still they are not contented and still remembering the past you had. You change yourself for the person you love but he or she didn't change for you.

It is really hard. When you expect that he nor she will appreciate you because you chose to change but still they didn't. When you did a lot of things to change because you thought they will give you a worth but it didn't happened. It's the most painful one.

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I cried early this morning because of this movie. I learned a lot of lessons. I learned that we should give a worth to the person that they gave their best for us. We must know the right things. We shouldn't let ourselves to decide easily especially of what we heard from other people.

We should be in the middle and try to analyze what are the right things. What are the best ways. What we should do. We shouldn't be hurry. We should think it deeply first before we decide so that we didn't regrets at the end. Also we must trust our partners especially if we are the one who witness what had been through. We are the one who knows it.

Relationship can be ruin if the partners has no trust with each other. Trust is really important when it comes to relationship. If you love that person trust her, him. It will be chaotic if there will be no trust. It's really difficult.

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Don't let things happened that everything will be wasted then you will realize at the end that you are the one who was wrong then everything it's too late. It's the saddest part.

Regrets are always at the end, sometimes you may change it but sometimes it's not. It's depend of a person. It's depend of the situation. Don't cross the line that you didn't know or you really didn't understand of the real situation.

All in all be a good partner to your love ones. You must know your responsibility of being a partner. You must aware to the things that you should. Treasure the time, don't let things getting to worst because there is no perfect relationship in this world. Everyone face a different struggles or challenges and both be ready for it.

It's part of a relationship. It's not only about happiness but there are negativities also, a pain, a sad situation. Always be ready. You must know how to handle the things when you are already committed to someone, when you are already in a relationship.

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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some lessons and realizations with this article of mine.

God bless everyone. Stay safe always. ๐Ÿ™

-JRamona20 ๐Ÿ’œ

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Agree ate, trust is one of the vital component of every relationship. When the trust destroyed, no doubt a relationship can be destroy too.

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Indeed, we must love and appreciate each other most specially their simple efforts to makes us happy. In a relationship we shouldn't think about their past anymore it's their past, whats important is the present.

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1 year ago

True sis. If you truly love that person you must accept their past kasi yun yung magbigay ng peace din sa relationship.

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It is a matter of being consistent and true to our intentions to our partners and people around us until the end.

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1 year ago

Yes sis true. Partners must apply it.

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My health is getting disturbed these days my mind is messed up

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I'm sorry to hear that my friend. How are you now?

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Trust is a must and you should be able to grow together. Not just the other party but both. Commitment too is required kasi hindi naman lagi puro saya sa relasyon kaya dapat kahit sa malungkot na stage yung commitment to hold each other andun pa rin. Love will fade away but you can rekindle it over and over if you are both firm with your commitment.

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Yes that's true friend. Dapat talaga maging strong when it comes to difficulties, struggles. They should hold each other hand.

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What's the name of the movie sis? I am quite curious.

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Filipino movie siya sis. Kina Claudine at Rico.

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Oh I used to love that love team sis!

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Oo sis. Try mo panoorin mo sis.

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In a relationship, it is a must that both of you worked together. Di pwedeng Yung Isa lang palagi Yung mag-aasjust and magwo work out ng relationship nyo. I can say that trust and honesty is a must when it comes to relationship

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Yes langga that's true. Dapat yung dalawa yung kikilos, hindi yung isa lang. Dapat both kasi you both build on that relationship you had.

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1 year ago

Thanks for your advice. You're very tight. A relationship cannot always go smoothly. There are ups and down in a relationship but during these times, trust is the only way to hold the relationship and avoid it from ending

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1 year ago

Yes that's true my friend. You are truly right. Relationship should always have a trust to make it stronger.

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1 year ago

Good advice and lessons there. Relationship needs both parties to do what needs to be done to make it work.

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1 year ago

Yes sir both must be working to build the relationship stronger sir lee. Thank you sir.

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When in a relationship, one should be ready to commit and place trust fully.

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1 year ago

Yes mamsh true. Kailangan at importante talaga yan.

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1 year ago

What's the name of the movie? It's looks Iike something I have watched in the past

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It's a Filipino movie kushyzee.

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Relationships with no trust won't last long.. It's the most important factor there...

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Yes miss Jane true. Trust is really important.

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1 year ago

True every relationship is not always a bed of roses there are ups and down the most important thing is you both listen to and respect each other and don't let anyone ruin the relationship that you two build it.

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1 year ago

Indeed sis. Don't let the relationship to be ruined. Wag talaga gagawa ng mga bagay na ikakasira.

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1 year ago

There's no perfect relationship, everyone will normally encounter problems within the relationship. But it doesn't mean that we will stop loving, but we just loved them even more and let them feel that they are important.

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Yes sis true. In a relationship it's not about happiness, there's a painfulness and sadness and always be ready for it.

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A relationship without trust lacks a taproot. There's no way to get love outside their feelings. I rather stay alone than have a partner who doesn't trust me.

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1 year ago

Anong title ng movie sis? Watch ko if available sa yt

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1 year ago

A Filipino old movie siya miss yen. Yung kay Claudine at Rico.

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Sa isang relasyon talaga Mamsh, its not always happy. Dadaan at dadaan talaga sa pagsubok. Dun din masusubok kung gaano katatag yung foundation nang relasyon niyo. Yung love niyo sa isa't-isa. Kahit pa sabihin nating kinasal kayo. Kaya nga may vow na, "for better or for worst" diba. Yung "TRUST at LOYALTY" talaga, napakalaking role niyan para sa isang relasyon. Kaya nga pag nasira din, ang hirap na ayusin.

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Totoo mamsh. Kaya be a good partner always talaga at maging ready sa mga pagsubok ng isang relasyon. Mag expect talaga dahil walang perpektong relasyon. Lahat nakaka experience ng mga challenges.

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Relate much ako sis. Na kahit ginawa ko pa ang lahat pero useless pala so tinigil ko na. Nkakaumay na sya eh.

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Totoo sis. Nakakapagod yung ganun. Yung ginawa mo na lahat pero di man lang na appreciate. Di man lang nakita mga efforts mo.

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Mahirap makahanap ng taong faithful sa atin or sa isang relationship di mo makikita ang worth niya if andyan pa sa tabi mo yun bang sanay ka sa taong lagi lang anjan para sayo to the point na taking advantage nalang tapos pag wala na yun mo ma realize yung worth niya sa buhay mo

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Sobrang totoo sis. Pag andyan sa tabi di mo makita yung worth tas di mo pinahalagahan pero pag wala na dun pala makarealize at magsisisi.

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Anong movie yan ate

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1 year ago

Kanila Rico at Claudine langga.

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Oooohh parang alam ko yan di ko lang alam title di kase masyado nanunuod ng fil movies... But ang foundation ng relationship e trust kung wala yun pano nalang

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"Dahil Mahal na Mahal Kita" ang title sis. Totoo sis kaya mahalaga talaga ang trust sa relationship sis.

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Ohhh not familiar sa title pero hanapin ko sya paborito ko yan ning bagets ako e rico yan and claudine twuing semana santa kase palabas nila pinalalabas

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There ain't no perfect relationship, sis and trust ain't enough. Include humor and fun and everything else will follow. Trust me.

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1 year ago

Yes I agree to you sis. Those are the things that also important of a relationship.

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1 year ago

this is so true sis... relationships need hard work and trust if not taken cared of will surely be broken and its hard to build it again

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Yes maam jean at kailangan hindi yun masisira kasi ang hirap na ayusin.

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1 year ago

Tama! That's why marami ang naghihiwalay kasi isa lang ang may effort at nag-aajust parang na take for granted.

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Totoo sis. Hindi talaga tama yung ikaw lang isa nakikipaglaban sis.

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1 year ago

Indeed, that's why you have to remain strong that's the part of being in a relationship! โฃ

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1 year ago

Yes my friend true. We should be strong always and be ready for all the time.

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1 year ago

Movie reveal naman jan sis!

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1 year ago

Yung movie nila Claudine at Rico sis, "Dahil Mahal na Mahal Kita".

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1 year ago

unta marealize sa akong hubby ang akong presence before its too late

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1 year ago

Praying sis kasi alam ko talaga pinagdaanan mo dahil halos binasa ko mga articles mo. Hope makita niya at magbago siya.

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1 year ago

salamat sis.maayo unta sis

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