An Early Morning Lessons and Realizations
I wake up early this morning, I watched a movie. An old movie. It was released year 1998. I saw it in TikTok that's why I got curious and searched it on YouTube then it was available. I started watching, it was really emotional. I cried many times.
While watching, I realized that there are situations in a relationship that even a person change a lot to his nor her love ones but still they are not contented and still remembering the past you had. You change yourself for the person you love but he or she didn't change for you.
It is really hard. When you expect that he nor she will appreciate you because you chose to change but still they didn't. When you did a lot of things to change because you thought they will give you a worth but it didn't happened. It's the most painful one.
I cried early this morning because of this movie. I learned a lot of lessons. I learned that we should give a worth to the person that they gave their best for us. We must know the right things. We shouldn't let ourselves to decide easily especially of what we heard from other people.
We should be in the middle and try to analyze what are the right things. What are the best ways. What we should do. We shouldn't be hurry. We should think it deeply first before we decide so that we didn't regrets at the end. Also we must trust our partners especially if we are the one who witness what had been through. We are the one who knows it.
Relationship can be ruin if the partners has no trust with each other. Trust is really important when it comes to relationship. If you love that person trust her, him. It will be chaotic if there will be no trust. It's really difficult.
Don't let things happened that everything will be wasted then you will realize at the end that you are the one who was wrong then everything it's too late. It's the saddest part.
Regrets are always at the end, sometimes you may change it but sometimes it's not. It's depend of a person. It's depend of the situation. Don't cross the line that you didn't know or you really didn't understand of the real situation.
All in all be a good partner to your love ones. You must know your responsibility of being a partner. You must aware to the things that you should. Treasure the time, don't let things getting to worst because there is no perfect relationship in this world. Everyone face a different struggles or challenges and both be ready for it.
It's part of a relationship. It's not only about happiness but there are negativities also, a pain, a sad situation. Always be ready. You must know how to handle the things when you are already committed to someone, when you are already in a relationship.
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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some lessons and realizations with this article of mine.
God bless everyone. Stay safe always. ๐
-JRamona20 ๐
Agree ate, trust is one of the vital component of every relationship. When the trust destroyed, no doubt a relationship can be destroy too.