Togetherness

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First, I won’t be able to keep up with an article per day routine. I’m back in school and the work waiting for me is much. I hope I’ll be able to keep up with things going on in SmartBCH world, so I wouldn’t be left behind. Also, my engagement here has been affected for some days and it might even get worse in the coming days. On weekends, I’ll take time to clear some notifications.

Okay, today’s article is all about Togetherness. What can be achieved by working together as one? Countless times I’ve been paired with some of my coursemates on different projects. My group do things effortlessly while other groups struggle. Sometimes people think it’s all because of the set of people in my group. “They are the serious ones” they’d say. But it isn’t so. We tend to harness the strength and weaknesses of each group member. Even if the laziest person is in our group, we still give him something to do and encourage him. This has been working well for us for four years now.

Togetherness is one of the most important themes in our daily lives. Whether it's with loved ones, friends or colleagues, togetherness helps us to achieve a lot more than what we could have done on our own.

Word spreads faster and ideas are shared quicker when people work together, even still, some people don't know where to begin. Just like the popular illustration of a father who gave his sons brooms to break and was impossible for them when the brooms were tied together but were easy when it was divided, same is life.

Two very important things in life, one is independence and the other one is togetherness, we want to be independent because it makes us strong, the more we are independent the less we are worried about what others think or say. Independence brings about growth, but you see togetherness is also important because you see togetherness brings about unity and unity brings about growth and success. What a single person can't achieve can be done in groups it's normal to disagree once in a while but as a group, it's good to settle the disagreement on time, when there is a disagreement let's give each other our opinion let's listen to what each other has to say then let's decide on what's best for everyone not just for few. When we are together things are easier. Togetherness affects your success, it affects your performance at work and it affects your performance in business.

Independence and togetherness work hand in hand. You have to make each member of the group feel independent. Make them feel appreciated, that their opinion matters. Many will say it takes a born leader to control a group of people to achieve a common goal but I’d say “There’s no born leader”. Everyone has it in them to lead others, all you need to think of is the greater gain of the group. Place it above personal gain.

Once in a while issues will arise and your competence will be questioned. It’s normal but that when the other group members come in. Since you’ve given them the liberty to take decisions on their own in time pass. This will come in handy on days when you need someone to stand in for you.

 

Thanks for reading! 🥲💚🤗

 

Off to class, see you all later

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Team is also part of togetherness.... Together every one achieve more..... What are you studying in school???

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Togetherness and independence may be contradicting but one should know very well when to be independent and when to cooperate within a group.

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2 years ago

We are stronger together. Togetherness also requires great teamwork because without it, the group can't be strong

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I had absences for almost 2 months because of my busy sched but now I am back. Togetherness makes us to accomplish more. Thats a great idea.

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Hmmm together we stand, divided we fall. Even God knew only Adam can't do everything, so he gave him Eve 😅

Together, we achieve purpose. Thank for this wonderful dinner and all the best in your studies

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2 years ago

Me either I am not always active now due to some errands. Still cool sa studies mate!

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Being a good leader and making every member feel heard and like they belong is a really wonderful thing

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Doing things together bring alot of accomplishment. I wasn't active either I hope I can keep up either

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Oh Wow You guys have resumed?? Help me greet Rema o

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My dear friend, it is clear that you have always been a good leader for your group, because a group that doesn't have a worthy leader doesn't perform its duties well, and it may fall apart over time, and the members will have a lot of disagreements. Teamwork, with a good leader, leads to the efficiency and effectiveness of the members' efforts as much as possible, so that the result of the performance of the whole group is more than the result of the performance of each member of the group...

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It takes grace to work together in peace and harmony. Working in togetherness requires no party compromising what everyone stands for. Only God can make it work because left to a man he will compromise in one way or the other.

Peace

OkanlaDavid

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2 years ago

Work as one. It will help us to rise.

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Togetherness is strength and life. And it needs positive energy from everyone involved to work.

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2 years ago

I love it. Independence and togetherness. We truly need this two things to succeed in life!

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2 years ago

That is just the very bad thing I hate about Nigerian schools, always bothering their students with a lot of assignments, term paper write ups and seminlr presentations. Well done jare cos the lord is your strenght

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2 years ago

See ya later. Make sure you pay attention in class. I am also in class.

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2 years ago

You right sir, doing things together makes it easier and faster but it takes courage to bring people together, A leader like you will always find it easy to bring people together to achieve a common a goal.

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2 years ago

This is a nice article about unity... You have some unique ideas on unity and independence... Really nice article...

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2 years ago

See you later. Don't forget to ask someone if need some help. That's togetherness 😁

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