Let me start by saying the last few days has been a tough one. I have been on the road for most of it and at the same time trying to keep up with things going on in the other part of my life. Perhaps my return announcement was too early but I'm glad I'm back.
The crypto market has been bloody for some days. One of my new affiliates called me yesterday lamenting how her money (BCH) got stolen from her wallet. I was alarmed and asked what happened but after hearing what she has to say I realised it was the dump in the price of all cryptocurrencies or most that she's talking about. And i took time to explain what's happening to her and asked her to be patient. Cryptocurrency is not for the feeble minded. And then I journey back to school...
I went back to school yesterday in preparation for the project defence scheduled to hold today. It was another bumpy ride, I got to school with my eyes hurting from the dust and exhaust it was exposed to while in the Lagos traffic. Got to school tired and anxious. I slept late, putting final touches to my project and the ones contracted to me. The defence wasn't the major source of headache, if it involves talking I think I can handle it, the problem was the race against time and the likely problems one can face while printing an Excel file.
Woke up to see the rain falling heavily. "Maybe the defence will be cancelled ". I decided to relax a little bit and play. Suddenly a message popped up. Everyone started panicking- The defence has started at the faculty and here we are, we haven't even taken our bath, we haven't printed out our projects and it's raining heavily.
The race against time started in full, various messages about the report the lecturer gave on different projects came in, quick adjustments were made and the work was printed. Got to the faculty to meet multitudes. lol
While waiting for our turn we got involved in different conversations and notable among them was that which I had with a close friend of mine. It was about what a relationship entails. Having emotional attachment with someone and having Sexual attachment with another. Then the questions came out?
Can your spouse have a best friend from the other gender?
How would you feel if your spouse talks about another guy/lady when you're together?. Bad? So many of us claim not to be the jealous type and tell our Significant other we trust them not to cheat on us but being jealous is natural. It's something you can't control, and once you start feeling this way, the best thing to do is to talk to your partner about it, communication matters a lot.
What is good for the goose, is good for the gander?
I've you ever thought of this- In most African countries when married couples get to a certain age and after giving birth to few kids, the option they do go for is to do "Family planning" and in most cases, it's the wife they either goes other the knife or gets to take the necessary precautions to prevent unwanted pregnancy. Why can't the men be sterilized or Castrated?
Can a lady be polygamous?
Is one Gender less than the other?. The answer everyone will give is "No". The answer will be given without deep thought or consideration. But when you ask further questions you'll see different opinions. Why does society paint ladies that are involved with different partners bad but take it with a pinch of salt when it's the guy or man?.
Some will say so far the man has the money, he has the liberty to have more than one wife. Please a question- what if the lady has the money, can she get for herself more than one husband?.
How do you know you are in love and when is the right time?
To start with when she asked for my definition of Love, I was lost. What definition befits love?. I couldn't give a particular definition - "you know you are in love when you feel her presence in a room filled with different people without seeing her. Or your heart flutters whenever you see her" that was my reply. We talked at learnt about what Love is but getting back to the hostel I've been thinking about it. What does Love truly mean?
There is time for everything. Time to sow and time to reap. When do you think it is right for one to go into a relationship, at what age?. Should the relationship have a destination? Or can I just be in one just for the sake of being in a relationship?.
Permit me to stop here. I'm tired and I have so many things running through my mind. Off to bed. I will drop this first thing in the morning before embarking on the journey back home.
By the way, we finally went in for the defence. God took control. The lecturer did his usual thing. They are hard to please- don't let me go into details. By the time it ended it was already 5 pm. Going back home at this time was impossible. I have to settle for another night in the school hostel.
It's going to be a wonderful holiday. I can foresee that.
Thanks for reading!🥱💚😴
Accept my sincere apology once again for the un-replied messages and comments, the posts I haven't visited and sponsorships yet to be renewed. In due time I will do the needful. I'm tired of September already.
Oh no, I did not read this article only to be left with questioms about love and relationships HAHA. Those questions will surely follow me to bed this time.
Congratulations on getting through your defence. Do enjoy your rest and let's hope that September ends quickly HAHA