I am Not a Writer

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3 years ago

Today, I am not here to rant but to share to you guys what I experienced sharing this platform to a friend who is a content creator/blogger and she is excellent in English. She is not Major in English but just need to be good at it because she is passionate with her job. She will going to read this and might block me on Facebook after. I will not rant, I promise. I will just share what I know when it comes to writing.

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I chat with my friend at Facebook and shared about this platform. I told her that this platform pays in BCH. She doesn't know BCH and I said it is a one form of crypto currency. I also said that this platform will be good for her because she is a blogger ever since and she loves writing. I added that there are lots of amazing writers in here and she will be delighted to know them because she loves to write. I gave her the link to the site for her to visit. She ask for my username. I gave it to her and I felt happy.

Just last night, she came back with a message that my writing is a garbage. She knows that when it comes to blogging and writing sites that pay I am always present. She already read, maybe most of my stories in here and gave me a comment of "ang tagal mo nang nag blogging, garbage pa din mga sinusulat mo, you didn't grow,hindi ka writer" (you have been blogging for so long, you still write garbage, you didn't grow, you are not a writer). I answered with a laugh last night and continue finishing my story last night. I went back to her message early this morning and I felt she got irritated on my articles here.

I get back to her to ask what is a writer and how can an express of thoughts can be a garbage. I also gave her the benefit of the doubt that she is not really irritated, maybe a little disappointed because of the way I write my stories here. She chat back saying "how can they tip you, you have lots of wrong grammar, you just write there like it is your Facebook account". I felt she is still irritated or maybe mad at me from the way she added her response. Then she added "umaasa ka lang sa grammarly, Di ka natuto" (you only depends on Grammarly, you didn't learn). So I chatted back, "galit ka ba? Parang galit ka? (are you angry, it seems your angry). She answered" hindi gagi, kaso Di ka writer Di ka bagay dyan". I asked her "San ako bagay Kung ganun?" she answered "galingan mo kasi, para bagay ka dyan".

I need your opinion about the conversation guys, is she being harsh on me? I didn't replied on her. I felt she's having a bad day, lol.

But again, her opinion says something. I have poor grammar and I am not a writer compare to her. I am here to express my thoughts, share my stories from my life's experience and some opinions. I am honest that I don't know how to write in English but I have been blogging and writing my journal I think my thoughts are not garbage. It's kind of harsh if she says my writings are garbage but I respect her opinion.

Though, I'm am not sure of what I felt about her, I still choose to do this one so I can know if I do not belong here. I might not be excellent in grammar, but I can grasp very simple English words. I think I'm okay and no one judge me here with the way I post. I feel like I belong here because of people leaving their comments on my posts, rewarding me with tips and upvoting my votes.

I am here because I love reading. I learned from what I read about your story. Do you noticed that I always leave a comment after I read your stories? Your story matters to me. Yes, that it is. I might not be a writer but reading is one of good past time and your stories will always gives me a lesson.

This site reminds me of my first site, Bubblews

Bubblews is actually not my first site, but Mylot. Bubblews is a site that I had discovered year 2012 that I become active. This is the site I met wonderful story teller with the likes of @Bloghound and Kuya William. I met lots of virtual friends and I am friends with them until at present. It becomes my outlet, my stress reliever after my work before. Earning comes second during that time because I am learning how to earn from that platform but when I was earning good, it becomes my passive income. I was writing there I guess for two years because I saw from my Facebook account that I shared a post, year 2014. It might be a history, but I fell in love with the site together with the people I met there. I develop English writing from that site too, yet I guess, I thought I learned but I'm still writing anyway.

I Write my Own Story

Becoming a writer has a standard when you are writing as a journalist, or the likes of it. Having a little knowledge about it makes me a worst one. I am not a writer, perhaps, I write my story to share a story. That is my main objective. Expressing my thoughts in the language needed by the platform is what I only know. I accept my flaws and I'm willing to correct my mistake. It will takes time before I can write something that professional writers could accept. For now, let my story change the life of others, pick some lesson about it, guide them, inspire them and help them with their future decision. I am here to know the beautiful souls that is part of this amazing platforms. Do I belong? I want to belong and I feel I belong, that is what matters to me now.

Last words, If I am worst and my writings are garbage, you will offend my Sponsors for supporting me. They will not waste their coins on me. I think I have proven a little of their humble standards. Thanks for this wonderful people for reminding me i belong here.

Image: I made those images using Pics art. Text words are created by me too.

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3 years ago

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Ay I was also in Bubblews before. Super easy to earn there back then. Hahaha.

Actually I noticed here on read, one doesn't really need to be a great writer to earn. Many of you use this like an online diary and yet get upvoted highly by the random rewarder bot. So for me it looks like it doesn't really matter if the article is written in a great way or not.

Don't worry about your friend. Just keep writing here and if you can improve then go for it. Find ways to improve your writing if you see any writing tips. :)

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3 years ago

She already apologise for her attitude towards me sis, even if I'm not asking for it. Maybe she noticed that I am cold to her na. Yes, everyone has its room for improvement for any kind

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3 years ago

I think maybe she has gone about it the wrong way, but is wanting to help you. We all need to improve, me included. This is a writing site, yes we can write about whatever we want as long it is ours and not stolen etc, but we should try to make our articles the best we can. Take her words as a chance to improve your writing. Proof read what you write and keep it simple is what I try to do. Why not ask her, what you can do to improve? Did she read other articles or just yours. She was probably wary of what BCH is! Remember crypto also gets people thinking things are a scam!

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3 years ago

Maybe she is just envious of you that you were the first one to have discovered read.cash and invited her instead of the other way around.

I am not a writer either, same with you, I just want to write what comes to mind, daily experiences, kung baga, naging diary siya.

Hayaan mo na lang siya, basta wala namang nagmamaliit sayo dito sa read. Continue with what you are doing... practice makes perfect, they say...

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3 years ago

Buti nga dito sis walang nag sa sabi na basura ang mga story ko. Buti na lang walang mayabang dito.

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3 years ago

Grabe iyan ahh super naman po iyan I am just young and hindi masyadong fluent sa english and sometimes may wrong grammar rin Pero di naman magandang sabihin niya yung di ka bagay jaan Parang nanlalait siya na wag ka magsulat mali mali naman Kung ako yan di ko na papansinin. puwede pa naman iimprove ang ating knowledge about english di naman porket matagal nang nagsuslat eh Dapat magaling na

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3 years ago

Yun din ang na feel ko. Parang wala na ko katapatan kumita sa pag susulat kasi basura nga daw. Sana sinabi na lang nya in a nice way.

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3 years ago

Take it as a challenge to improve :D I think she just wants you to improve. She's not angry. She just wants you to be better. We all can learn and improve. Why not ask her to help you out? :D

Lakas maka throwback nun bubblews. Nakakamiss yan. Yan ang first blog site na nag earn ako.

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3 years ago

Kaso ayaw nya ko turuan, parang wala siyang time, pero pag may latest post sya, busy sya ka bibigay NG link sakin to read, dun na lang ako natututo.

Oo kakamiss NG Bubblews no?hay

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3 years ago

grabe naan ya, laht pede matuto wag sya feeling perpekto ah

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3 years ago

Baka nga perpekto sya sis, nahiya naman ako sa kanya hahahaha

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3 years ago

kung ako ginanyan nyan nasagot ko yan HAHAHAHA

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3 years ago

Hehe kala nya affected ako, basta masaya ako dito, bahala siya, sya ang mukang Di masaya sis hahahaha

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3 years ago

di masayang kumikita ka daw HAHAHAHA

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3 years ago

Oo Di sya masaya sa basura ko na sulat pero kumikita hehe

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3 years ago

wag mo pansinin walang magawa sa buhay yan

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3 years ago

Kaya nga

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3 years ago

Grabe naman po. Tuloy lang. Importante nae express natin sarili natin sa pagsusulat

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3 years ago

Tama ka dyan sis, saka ako hindi ko kayang sabihin na basura ang gawa NG Iba, ang hirap kaya mag compose NG article na mahaba.

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3 years ago

I don't think so if masasabi yan ng true friend. Sobrang harsh naman ng mga words niya. Instead na maging happy sya for you. If she wanted to correct you, she can do it in a very gentle way. Baka naiinggit mars kasi you are doing good here in readcash. Anyways, don't waste your energy sa mga ganyang tao mars. Focus ka lang sa. Ginagawa mo, hayaan mo sila.

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3 years ago

I wonder if you are close friends and if she always talks that way. But don't let her comments deter you from doing what you want and improving too. We all make mistakes and we also have chances to rectify or improve them. Don't hate her though, take her criticisms as constructive and get better at what you do. You will probably thank her later although that way she delivers her critics to you is quite rude to my taste :)

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3 years ago

Yes sis, this is quite a challenge to me as well to improve.

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3 years ago

I believe you can, we all can :) Let's just keep on and desire and work toward improving ourselves in the process.

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3 years ago

Grabe naman ,nasasakatan ako dun ha! Ako din eh d marunong ,nag try lang talaga ako dito kahit kunti lang tip ,patuloy pa rin akong nagsusulat😁

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3 years ago

Yes, saka masaya kasi tayo dito sis. Baka may pinag dadaanan sya NG oras na yun hehe

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3 years ago

Is she really a friend? How can she be so mad to an article? Well, maybe she's a bit envious because you are doing good in the platform. Just block her lol so you won't get affected with her words anymore. It's not bad to cut ties with toxic people.

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3 years ago

That's a good idea sis!! Maybe she was irritated to the fact that I'm not good in English but still someone appreciate my post and give me a tip.

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3 years ago

True! Wag mo nalang pansinin sis

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3 years ago

Ahaha ang harsh naman ni friend. Close friend mo ba? Kasi may ganyan talagang friend na masakit magsalita. It may be hurtful to you but it truth he/she was just pushing you to you full extent to do better.

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3 years ago

Not close hehe, pero I take it as a challenge na lang makakatulong din sakin, kaso Di naman basura ang mga sinulat ko dito hahaha.

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3 years ago

That's the spirit, take it as a challenge.

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3 years ago

Makabasura naman sya. Huwag mo syang pakinggan. Di mo kailangan ang kaibigan na basura din ugali. Hehe

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3 years ago

Tama ka diyan!!!

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3 years ago

Don't let ur friend discourage you, ako din nman di ganun kagaling sa grammar at words, im also trying my best to comprehend and write. Go ka lang.. 💪 By the way sa bubblews din aq dati yun ang 1st blogging site ko taz dito.. Kaya halos 9 yrs ata uli bago aq nakapagblog haha

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3 years ago

Diba sis, same feeling nun nasa Bubblews tayo! Ang tagal na natin nag susulat na.

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3 years ago

Ako nman parang nangangapa uli after many years.. Pero keri natin toh fighting

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3 years ago

Ako din, kinalawang na yun pag English ko hehe

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3 years ago

Sí ha Sido duro diciendo que escribes basura, no deberías tomarle en cuenta, que te guste lo que haces y puedas decirlo en palabras está muy bien, gramaticalmente incorrecto no tiene nada que ver si expresa un sentimiento, además de que tus palabras son amables e invitan casi que a la aventura de saber cómo se desarrolla todo.

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3 years ago

The one who told you off is the one who isn't and shouldn't be welcomed in awesome read.cash communities. I just came across your article and I just know I had to say something. Keep doing you, and you'll get better and better. I love how you're doing all these in the name of passion and dedication in storytelling.

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3 years ago

Oh, I'm touched by the kind words. Yes, I will keep doing this. Later on, I will be amazing, not an amazing writer, but I could be an amazing person because this community mold me to be one.

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3 years ago

I remember mustering up my courage to show my non-read friends some of my writeups. I really chose who to show it too and I did give them the permission to tell me honestly what they think. as in sabi ko "tiwala ako sayo.. game saktan mo ko!" ganyan hahaha. But then that's because they are my close friends that I trust that IF they tell me something a little un nice it would be something I'd consider... now.. close ba kayo ni friend?

Keep on lang Grecy! we learn and we develop along the way.. keep tapping that keyboard and do tell us your story. ;) Ang ayaw magbasa because of keme keme kibit balikat... :D

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3 years ago

Yakap sis!!! Di kami close sis, idol ko lang Sya when it comes to writing. Sana naging masaya sya sa sinabi nya sakin hahahaha, basta ako masaya ako dito! Salamat sis.

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3 years ago

I'll just tell you my humble opinion. We all want to be good bloggers and writers. And to write and read here every day and understand the content of the posts of others. Share your opinions. That gives me the thought that you want to improve and your posts will show how you are evolving. If you see that you are learning that your publications have changed from when you arrived until now it means that you are growing. Don't let anyone take away your dreams. Just fight to keep growing. I am not a writer by trade. I am also learning and growing little by little on this platform. But no one should trample on your desire to grow. Keep going and keep growing.

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3 years ago

You are right sis. No one has the right to stop me from learning and growing in whatever platform I choose to. I will take this as a challenge.

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3 years ago

Is she even your true friend? because a true friend wouldn't let down the other. And mind you, a good writer or blogger wouldn't have the guts to say that. It takes a successful person to lift others up. If you are really successful, you wouldn't let others down.

Keep writing Grecy. There are a lot of people who subscribes you and sponsors you. Dont let one envious friend stop you from doing what you want.

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3 years ago

Hahaha, maybe she is under the weather sis. She is a good friend though, maybe she doesn't like my writings and I respect her opinion.

Thanks for your kind words sis. I know there will be people taking my side and will support me regardless of what opinions on my writings are.

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3 years ago

That was kinda harsh, Grecy loves. Very close ba kayo? If yes, maybe I could understand that she was just joking? I dunno. Maybe she should have said in a nicer way. Just my two cents. By the way, thank you for the mention. You have been a good blogging friend since day one and you write so well. Lab lab. Xoxo

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3 years ago

Di talaga close sis, pero idol ko sya kasi kaya gusto ko sana siya isama dito kaso na judge naman nya ko hahaha. Parang galit nga siya pero wala na ako dun basta ako masaya ako sa ginagawa ko. Lab you!!!

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3 years ago

knows ko ba sya? hehe

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3 years ago