Stop giving false impressions.

I can't take my eyes off some things and writing about them would be of great good for me and some people who will find the article interesting.

In the world today, every one of us is running into relationships but aren't we wondering why these relationships only work out for 10% of the people who are in a relationship? We the youths of today are making lots of mistaking and I wrote this article about one I found very troubling in the society.

A particular relationship started a few months ago and I am aware of everything happening in the relationship because the guy is someone I know very well but the thing is that he complains a lot about being unlucky in his past relationships. At the beginning of the relationship with his new lover, he was very active. He hangs out a lot, buys her gift, and does lots of romantic things just to convince the girl that he is the best man for her but he can't keep up with that lifestyle for a reason which I can't tell why but it seems that has been the problems in his previous relationships.

The girl complained about it, I talked about it with him and he didn't have a point for stopping except for the fact that he can't be like that always after all, she is not his stranger anymore.

What does he mean by she is not his stranger anymore? His he implying that she doesn't deserve the love, pampering, and affection anymore because they are now into each other?

Giving a false impression in life is a terrible thing and practicing the act in a relationship can cause lots of damage to whatever effort you have invested in the relationship. I mentioned in one of my recent articles that you will find someone that befits your status no matter who you think you are, there is someone out there who will love you for still struggling, there is someone who will love you for being financially unstable as long as you are trying to be great in life so giving a false impression to a lady or guy just to make them fall in love with you is wrong because when he or she finally sees who you truly are, they might find you uncomfortable anymore in the relationship.

Why get people's attention with things you can't keep up doing when you finally get their attention?

For instance, while asking a friend out you usually make meals for her once in a while so after she agreed to date you, it turned out that you don't even light the cooker not to mention making her a meal like you usually do.

It isn't about a particular gender because both males and females do this thing before and a few weeks after going properly in a relationship. Going out of your way of life just to please people is the same as hurting yourself and relationships should bring happiness. If it will ever bring pain then it should be for growth, a person who doesn't love you for who you are is not worth sharing your affection with.

Giving people a false impression about you makes them create so many expectations going into the relationship and they feel disappointed if things do not go on as they were from the beginning.

Being real is one attribute everyone must always possess going into a relationship, there is no point in tricking people by showing a different personality. Lots of relationships have crashed for this reason and we can make things right for ourselves by having a proper understanding when making advances at people for relationship sake.

Aside from relationship stuff, giving people false impressions about you sometimes doesn't end well because we have clearly built a false reputation for ourselves.

Thanks for reading, I hope today went well at your end? I was good and I am feeling great, the muscles pain is gone so I can get back on the field.

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