A Beautiful Scar.

This is very unusual of me, I don't like talking about females because I believe that I don't know enough about them despite staying too long around them but there are times I can't just keep quiet with knowing some certain things.

Before I go on, I would like to ask the guys "What interests you more about a woman?".

Her cooking ability

Intelligence

Resourcefulness

Beauty

Love

What else would you say outside this? Nothing right? I know many of you won't say the truth but here is the fact, many of us get obsessed with the big backside and the front side of the females but we are ashamed to say it because we feel like it is not worth the reason for going into a relationship.

Is it worth it?

I am not someone who condemns males for going crazy about a female body because I love the tall and huge as well. Why wouldn't I? You should see my height but I haven't been lucky with the shape and structure I always crave for.

It is okay to go for a woman whose body shape matches your taste to avoid peeping at those singles after you eventually get married but there is one bitter truth you should know which is "no matter how shaped a woman can be, be ready for some changes in her when she reaches the stage of motherhood.

A female talked to me about this recently because her husband isn't finding her attractive anymore, he was fond of admiring and caressing her body when their relationship was very young but things went the opposite way, and seeing something today made me come up with this article.

This lady is a very close friend of mine, we shared a lot growing up and we are fond of each other. We were so close that my girlfriend quarreled with me on several occasions because of her, the bond was too close but we vowed never to be lovers when we were younger so that we could be friends forever because we felt it is easier for friends to resolve a quarrel than lovers.

She got married and had a kid, we weren't seeing each other well anymore because her husband wasn't cool seeing me around. He later understood there was nothing between us but I had to move back for her to have a happy home.

There was a day she came to visit me, we went to grab some food at a nearby eatery. I was about to help her remove the kid from her back when her shirt shifted up and I noticed her belly was rough, it looked like she was burned with a hot substance. I quickly removed the kid and asked her what happened and she made me understood that it happened as a result of the big belly she had while pregnant, I really don't understand but I just nodded because I felt it was a dent in her beauty but I was wrong, my mom made me realize that it means more beauty to her beauty because of what made her skin look the way it.

It happened as a surprise and my mom made me understood that not everyone ends up like that after delivery, every female body is different and it rarely happens for a woman not to experience a change in the body after childbirth.

Some bellies become rough and unpleasant while some are belly would be covered with stretch marks, some don't even have any.

These made me fell more in love with the females around me but old and young because I feel like the old has been through so much pain while the young will still reach that stage later in life.

Some years ago, I was in a market for a survey for a company when I heard noise and people running towards the scene. I asked what could be wrong, I approached there.

Guess what???

A woman fell into labor, I was shocked. I have heard it a lot of times but haven't witnessed it before.

According to the gossips, they said they tried helping her into her car but it seems the baby head popped up already so they had to help her out there. Adults made a circle around her and covered the circle that nobody saw what was happening inside the circle.

I could hear her scream despite the noise, it sent cold into my veins and arteries. I couldn't stand it and my eyes were immediately filled with tears and I left the scene.

A lot was running in my mind because it was the first I am close to such, I was in the hospital when my younger siblings were born but I didn't see anything because I was in the waiting room. I kept asking myself, do they go through this much pain???

While I was coming back, everywhere was cleared and it looks like nothing happened there.

I heard people talking about it, she had a twin and was immediately taken to the hospital, contributions were made and people brought gifts to the front of her shop. I kept wondering how painful it was for her, my mom would say that during childbirth, a woman is out of the world.

As a matter of fact, child delivery is the second most painful thing in the world and I think going through that makes them extra strong.

It is should be the joy of every man to carry his baby but not seeing a woman scar after delivery is a terrible thing, remember you put her in that state and she went through that much for the both of you.

If you are after the big stuff like me, what would happen if childbirth changes things, moreover you know that nursing a child can affect women especially when they are twins and eat a lot. They automatically take everything that goes into the woman's belly from sucking the breast.

The body shouldn't be our top priority, the feelings should be put first. If there is true love, no conditions would make you leave or cheat on your spouse.

I know a man who became blind years after marriage and he is happily married, he still lives with his wife and they are over 60 years of age now. Whenever I pay a visit to my friend who is their son, I admire the bond they both shared.

We don't pray for evil but what if the beauty you are attracted to fades for some time, does it mean it is over?

Calling it just a scar makes it look ridiculous, it is a beautiful scar.

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