"Things that was important to know about him/her"
So how much do you know your man/woman? Have you already discovered her/his likes and dislikes? Then how about your compatibility? Are you an opposite attract or you're in one thing in common?
How important to you on knowing your better half better?
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For me it is really important to know your man/woman better, so our relationship will grow. Knowing each others likes and dislikes will help us to become the best partner to each other in the future. Considering the difference of our sensitivity level can help us build a better communication and misunderstanding can be avoided.
However I know for somehow that there's no perfect relationship. In fact in some situation, misunderstanding will help both of you to realized each other's worth. Do you believe in that? Well I am not expert, so you can disagree or agree with me, the choice is yours. ๐.
Furthermore my partner and I are in opposite attract. We are a total package of opposites, I may say. His likes is my dislikes and his happiness is my anger for sometime. We have different preferences and perspectives in life. We have different plans but we have the same dreams and goals in life, and that is to give our child a comfortable life in the future. When it comes to our child we definitely become one. Will I think it was normal because we are a parents, isn't it?๐
So today I will share with you how much I know my partner well, using this prompt that I got in Google.
His life story-both good and bad parts
My partner came from a broken family. His parents got separated when he was just 13 year's old and that made him left their house too. When his mom left he tried to look for her and sadly he fails as he don't know where his mom go. He eventually live under his uncles care, and at the young age he was already working to survive.
However they got reunited (him and his mom) after six year's with the help of his step dad.
Anyway I don't wanna talk too much about his past,the important is I accepted him and he trusted me as he allows me to know everything about his past, even the bad experiences that he has.
A list of the things and habit's that annoys him
๐ธA messy surroundings (he was like a girl, that gets annoyed if the things are messy, however his a bit lazy๐)
๐ธA nagger/noisy person (everytime he hears our neighbor who nags a lot to her children's, he literally gets annoyed. Lol he was just lucky that I am not a nagger person, or else he would be like living in hell๐)
๐ธRush hour ( Every time we have an important errands to do, he would definitely like to leave the house early as he don't like to go in a rush)
๐ธBeing late
๐ธBossy personality
๐ธ Gossipers
His favourite things and person
My partner love's perfume a lot and so in his bag you would always found a perfume. He also always bring his phone and before when his camera was still with him, he also always have it. And of course his favourite above all is his motorbike. He even have a dream motorbike. ๐
So his favourite things are;
๐ธ Perfumes
๐ธCamera
๐ธ Motorcycle
However if he has a favourite person,then for sure it was his mom.
Things that fuel his anger
In all honesty he has a bad temper, there are lots of things that easily fuels his anger. However this thing's that I'm going to mention are just those common things that I have already noticed in him.
Disrespectful Attitude and behaviours
Letting him wait for too long ๐
Crossing his line's
Childish personality
When someone broke or misplaced his stuff
Memories that makes him cry
I didn't remember that he had shared to me a very emotional memories in his life that makes him cry, but the sad memories that makes him sad is actually when his family becomes broken when he was still young.
His dreams and aspirations
His dreams is to get a chance to work in New Zealand and Japan so he keeps on telling me that he wanna saved some money as he wants to finish his study ,and so he can possibly works in New Zealand and Japan. He really had a big dreams and I wish he can achieve it in the future by God's grace.
He wanted to have a big house and a big motorbike in the future. He also wanted to send our son to a private school and be a seaman someday.
The line that makes him laugh out loud
Do you love banana? Why? Because you looked like a monkey. Lol
Well this is just how I teased him๐.
His frustration and defeats
His health.
Well I think this is very common, because we all knew that if we weren't healthy as we have some illness, all our desires and dreams in life will surely get vanished. My partner has lot's of aspirations in his life that is why whenever he hears something bad about his health he immediately felt hopeless and get frustrated.
List of his favourite foods
๐ธ Fried chicken
๐ธ French fries
๐ธ Hamburger
๐ธFried-rice
๐ธ Hotdogs and Sunnyside up eggs
That was his unhealthy favourites foods.
The people who broke his heart
๐ธHis own parents
๐ธ Friends that broke his trust
๐ธHis ex live-in partner ๐
The craziest thing that he did
Together with his friends they throw a stone to their neighbours roof , because they got annoyed with their loud music๐. Their neighbour didn't find out who keeps on throwing the stone, and so they continue throwing until their neighbor turn off their music.๐
How he sees his life together with me?
We grow old together. He wants us to get married, but I don't know when, maybe after two years or four, I don't know.
Anyway that how much I knew about him.
... thanks for staying with me.
Love this my friend. Like we really need to know our partner's likes and dislikes because if we will not be able to know that, the misunderstanding will occur.